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Doctor insights on: My Boyfriend And I Had Rough Sex And Now I Have A Few Spots That Were Torn Its Very Painful What Can I Use To Make It Heal Faster

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I'm really tight & boyfriend has big penis, why sometimes when we have rough sex after going #1 there's a little small light blood spot when I wipe?

I'm really tight & boyfriend has big penis, why sometimes when we have rough sex after going #1 there's a little small light blood spot when I wipe?

Not uncommon: As the shear friction from sexual intercourse can cause superficial damage to the fragile tissue in and around the vaginal opening. You may want to consider using more lubrication. But if you are particularly worried, then you can review this with your doctor to make sure there is nothing more concerning going on, usually involves a pelvic exam. ...Read more

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Have IUD and rough sex and now I'm bleeding lightly, what could this mean. I'm a little scared bc I don't spot.

Have IUD and rough sex and now I'm bleeding lightly, what could this mean. I'm a little scared bc I don't spot.

Rough sex: Bleeding after "rough sex" could mean you were physically injured during your activities. Please see your physician to make sure all is well with you. ...Read more

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Can rough sex lead to some irritation? Boyfriend and I used condom and had rough sex and now vagina feels slightly irritated

Can rough sex lead to some irritation? Boyfriend and I used condom and had rough sex and now vagina feels slightly irritated

Yes: Rough sex can lead to irritation. Lubrication in the future can help. This should heal quickly, if not see your physician. ...Read more

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My boyfriend can only be erect if we have rough sex. It's extremely painful and I've only just lost my virginity. How can he be gentler?

My boyfriend can only be erect if we have rough sex. It's extremely painful and I've only just lost my virginity. How can he be gentler?

Complicated: Sex is a very complicated topic and is difficult to address with just a few sentences. If your boyfriend can ONLY achieve erection with rough sex, I would consider that their is a psychological component to this that needs to be addressed (although doubtful he will want to do this). Rough sex is fun sometimes, but not EVERY time for ANYONE. You need to be more open about what YOU want. ...Read more

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I had very rough sex with my s/o recently and my clitoris has been swollen and painful for two days now. It hurts to the touch. Could this be trauma?

I had very rough sex with my s/o recently and my clitoris has been swollen and painful for two days now. It hurts to the touch. Could this be trauma?

These parts: Are easy to traumatize. Warm water soaks, alternating with cool water compress, topical OTC cortaid10, and if getting worse - See GYN, Motrin for pain, Avoid sex for 2 weeks or until tenderness and swelling gone ...Read more

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I got a vaginal tear on perineum from rough sex. Now the scab fell off and I still have a tear in the skin. Will it heal on its own or need stitches?

I got a vaginal tear on perineum from rough sex. Now the scab fell off and I still have a tear in the skin. Will it heal on its own or need stitches?

Odds are it: Will heal on it's own as it rather uncommon to suffer a laceration from rough sex enough that it requires suturing. You should try to avoid any intercourse or penetrating vaginal activity. Try to keep the area clean (but with something like gentle soap and water with limited scrubbing). If its starts becoming painful, red or with discharge seek a formal evaluation. ...Read more

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Have callused hands. Masterbate. Rough red dot patches on penis. Now scabbing and painful after rough sex. No fever or other symptoms...Std?

Have callused hands. Masterbate. Rough red dot patches on penis. Now scabbing and painful after rough sex. No fever or other symptoms...Std?

Seriously?: If you are self abusing rather than self- pleasing, and your vice of choice is physically abusive sex play, where do you think the sores come from? Sounds like you've self-diagnosed the problem. Yes, they could be an std, but i'd put money on improved symptoms (and pleasure) with a couple of dollars spent on a good, water-based lubricant. If the abuse stops, but symptoms continue, see your doc. ...Read more

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What condoms won't break when you have rough sex? My boyfriend and I have gone through 3 in an hour

What condoms won't break when you have rough sex? My boyfriend and I have gone through 3 in an hour

Be safe: Please attend to your own safety at all times! Perhaps breaking so many condoms is a sign you should take it down a notch. That said, consider "lambskin" type condoms (they are not latex), which have different strength characteristics compared to traditional latex condoms. ...Read more

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I have red spots at the back of my mouth my throat has being irrated a while now but not over painful just rough?

I have red spots at the back of my mouth my throat has being irrated a while now but not over painful just rough?

Need examination: Impossible to offer you a precise diagnosis, or for that matter appropriate treatment, without a physical examination and a complete medical history from you to identify risks, exposures, pre-existing issues, duration of symptoms, etc. Go see your doctor please. ...Read more

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Me and my boyfriend had sex last night. Well rough sex, I woke up this mornin and used the bathroom. It burns when I pee but only when I pee..

Me and my boyfriend had sex last night. Well rough sex, I woke up this mornin and used the bathroom. It burns when I pee but only when I pee..

Possible uti: U may have a urinary tract infection. Can get urine test done and start antibiotics if needed. You will have to see your doctor for this. If fevers, chills, or night sweats see doctor sooner. Watch for back pain as well. These signs can mean a possible kidney infection. Try to use the bathroom after sex next time. This may help prevent future uti. ...Read more

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I recently had rough sex with my boyfriend with a condom and he slipped out causing a vaginal tear that bleed for 5mins, should I be worried?

I recently had rough sex with my boyfriend with a condom and he slipped out causing a vaginal tear that bleed for 5mins, should I be worried?

VAGINAL TEAR: If bleeding stops, chances are the tear will heal by itself. Just like when we do episiotomy during vaginal delivery. ...Read more

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I bleed when I pee doesn't hurt why? It smells weird and I have to pee every 20 minutes for a few seconds. I had very rough sex with my boyfriend yest

I bleed when I pee doesn't hurt why? It smells weird and I have to pee every 20 minutes for a few seconds. I had very rough sex with my boyfriend yest

Urinary infection: You have a urinary tract infection that needs Rx at a MD office or clinic. Sex can cause bacteria to enter the opening of the bladder (urethra) and the urine then serves as a great culture media with bacterial multiplication and infection. Rough sex especially going from anus to vaginal can be a direct cause. ...Read more

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My boyfriend has been bleeding from his pennis after rough sex. The first days it really hurt him to urinate. Still hurts but with less pain. 4 days n?

My boyfriend has been bleeding from his pennis after rough sex. The first days it really hurt him to urinate. Still hurts but with less pain. 4 days n?

? Torn frenulum: Frenulum is small web on underside of penis between glans (head of penis below urinary opening) & foreskin, if circumcised or tight frenulum in spite of circumcision. Send him to urologist if frenulum still tight after it has healed. Otherwise rough sex may have slightly injured his urethra, causing burning pain with urination. This likely will settle down on it's own.? Be more gentle next time! ...Read more

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Hi, I just had rough sex with my boyfriend the same day I was ending my period. I haven't had sex in about year, been bleeding for 2 days light?

Hi, I just had rough sex with my boyfriend the same day I was ending my period. I haven't had sex in about year, been bleeding for 2 days light?

Not surprising: If the bleeding turns bright red, then go see a GYN MD for a possible injury. Otherwise, the prolongation of your bleeding is consistent with your period ending. ...Read more

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Pamela godwin my ex boyfriend has several sex partners I do not. He had very rough sex and I got a uti/ yeast infection from him having to much sex.

Pamela godwin my ex boyfriend has several sex partners I do not. He had very rough sex and I got a uti/ yeast infection from him having to much sex.

Yeast infection: Yeast infections can be transmitted by either partner during unprotected sexual intercourse. In that case both partners have to be treated to eradicate the infection. Yeast doesn't usually cause a true bladder infection, but irritation of the urethra can cause similar symptoms. ...Read more

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I use a douche for the first time and on the same day I had unprotected sex now 4 days later I got white itchy spots. Could I have and std or a yeast?

I use a douche for the first time and on the same day I had unprotected sex now 4 days later I got white itchy spots. Could I have and std or a yeast?

You could: It is not feasible to provide a meaningful opinion without examining you and your symptoms warrant evaluation by a physician. If you do not have a personal physician, please seek care at your city of count health department.
For good health - Have a diet rich in fresh vegetables, fruits, whole grains, milk and milk products, nuts, beans, legumes, lentils and small amounts of lean meats. Avoid saturated fats. Exercise at least 150 minutes/week and increase the intensity of exercise gradually. Do not use tobacco, alcohol, weed or street drugs in any form. Drink enough water daily so that your urine is mostly colorless.
Practice safe sex.
Get HPV vaccine. ...Read more

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After having sex with my boyfriend, my inner left vaginal lip swelled up and turned purple/black and there's yellow crust? Around it? Rough sex cause?

After having sex with my boyfriend, my inner left vaginal lip swelled up and turned purple/black and there's yellow crust? Around it? Rough sex cause?

Possible: You can have coital trauma and cause hematomas and bruising from sex. The yellow crust is a little less clear. Yellow crust and labial swelling could be from herpes, so it might be a good idea to see a gynecologist soon and if you're not using a condom, please do. ...Read more

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I had rough sex and now when I am done peeing a little blood comes out what is wrong? How can I make it go away?

I had rough sex and now when I am done peeing a little blood comes out what is wrong? How can I make it go away?

Inflammation: You have vaginal inflammation coming form some where, maybe a small tear, or irritation of your cervix. Time may heal this like any other cut abrasion. Have less rough sex in the future with these post coital symptoms. You should see a gyn to be safe to assure you have no issues that cause vaginal bleeding after sex. Good luck. ...Read more

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Two days ago I had rough sex (6 times)between 10pm and 7am. I've noticed now that when I wipe (wet baby wipes unscented)I have skin coming out. Normal?

Two days ago I had rough sex (6 times)between 10pm and 7am. I've noticed now that when I wipe (wet baby wipes unscented)I have skin coming out. Normal?

Here's the "skinny": With such extensive rubbing of the labia during the "rough sex" the epithelial (skin) cells are abraded on the top layer and exfoliate. (come off). When that occurs the dermis (under layer of skin) try to rapidly replace the skin cells that have been removed (epithelialization). This is the normal process of skin replacement. ...Read more

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My bf cannot stay aroused unless we're having rough sex. I've only just lost my virginity. This is very painful. What can I do to make it hurt less?

My bf cannot stay aroused unless we're having rough sex. I've only just lost my virginity. This is very painful. What can I do to make it hurt less?

? Fetish: Your boyfriend may have a sexual fetish regarding the rough sex issue. You could talk to him and if he seems to only be aroused because of the roughness, . ..you could try other things like role playing, etc, which may keep him aroused and not be painful to you. Lubricating gels may help, but as stated, there appears to be some underlying issues that need to be worked out first regarding the BF. ...Read more