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Married Couple Sex
This is the term for the legal/religious contact between two individuals who make a committment to each other, sometimes out of love, but sometimes for financial or other reasons. It is not defined in the bible and marriage in fact is a recent development of the past 400 years or so related to property ...Read more
Not normal: But it can happens if they have issues or if they little time to enjoy each other company. But they need to put time aside to enjoy each other company, no matter how busy they r. ...Read more
Who can judge...: The decision to have sex is personal as is what defines "perfectly happy" for you. There are no laws or moral judgements on what a married couple should or should not do and certainly no HEALTH issues. Sexual arousal and desire for intimacy is a normal part of life though, and I'd be curious as to how "happy" everyone is if they are not feeling this at all. ...Read more
You could easily find them online, but I would say, "communication, communication, communication"
be curious, notice, and explore. ...Read more
I'm married and have never had a high sex drive and just got the i.u.d. a couple of months ago and all of a sudden this last week I am always aroused?
Not abnormal: This is not considered abnormal from a health or psychiatric perspective, though I suppose normal boundaries are that we really don't want to know too much about our adult parents or adult children's sexual behaviors. ...Read more
How often should a married couple in their early 40s have sex per week to be considered as having a healthy sex drive?
Not written in stone: Amount of "sex drive" is not the only thing affecting how often a couple has sex. Both may have a healthy sex drive, yet relationship conflict may make them not desire sex with each other. Frequency of sexual intimacy (and satisfaction with this) varies widely. One study suggested that 40 to 49 olds have intercourse an average of 69 times a year. For more info: http://tinyurl. Com/mxnfhc3. ...Read more
Is it safe for a married couple to have only oral sex? I thought it could be a good alternative to birth control since I can't go on the pill.
Oral Sex: I may be missing the question you are really trying to ask. But, oral sex is a common and normal sexual activity that couples participate in. I would imagine that it may be difficult to keep away from intercourse if you are a couple in love. Remember there are condoms. They work very effectively as birth control. There is also a vasectomy for the male partner if you are not planning children. ...Read more
Start where you...: Start where you left off the week before the wedding. Life is a journey of many little events and an occasional big one. Talk, smile, find private time away from others... And post another, more detailed, question next month if you still have questions. ...Read more
Maybe: Sexual interaction between two people involves normal differences in desire, frequency, and techniques. Like anything else in relationships, it is a form of communication which is "negotiable" and involves compromise. Please have that "conversation" with your partner soon. ...Read more
No: Everyone ages at their own rate. Genetics play the most important part but taking good care of yourself such as maintaining a healthy weight, exercise, avoiding tobacco, moderate alcohol intake and seeing your doctor to manage any chronic health conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol go a long way to extend a healthy lifespan. ...Read more
Gentle: Partner, foreplay and if needed lubricantGet a more detailed answer ›
Sir I am married man but I have problem with sex because my ling is very small do u have any solution?
The women I work wi: Are clear that what is important to them about love making is the quality of interaction - not the size of the man's penis. There are no tablets, exercises, creams or machines that will give you a larger penis. Take care. ...Read more
I am not virgin. But I have not done sex since last 2years. If I get married my husband will or won't know about it..
Likely will suspect: Many cultures use the presence of an intact hymen as the gold standard for virginity. You may have never had one or lost it through non sexual contact, but its absence would lead to suspicion. It would be best not to hide the facts when and if you find someone you want to share life with. ...Read more
I have been married from last 1 year. My wife has lost interest in sex. What should I do? She rarely get ready for sex.
When iam having a sex with my wife am gonna loose my strength within few seconds and I recently got married. 12 oct 2012.?
Do you mean PE?: Is it a question of premature ejaculation? If so, there are many possible treatment options ranging from topical preparations to systemic medications., such as paroxetine, among others (this one just seems to have the best track record for daily use). It is well tolerated, but by prescription only. Ask your doctor about a trial use (20mg a day for a week, then 10mg thereafter). It works well! ...Read more
I got married last year. But I can do sex with my partner just twice a night. Is it possible I can do 3-4 times. Please suggest me?
Too much sex for me?: This situation is a very common issue that arises in relationships. I see many couples that have differing sexual needs and expectations. It can become very serious and many get help with talking to a therapist or a sex therapist. There usually has to be some give and take and good communication skills learned. Permission for the more sexual partner to masturbate or have other sexual play. ...Read more
Iv been married for 23 yr. Now I'm not. IV all was had a problem with not lasting long sex. Are they any thing I can do to make. Me go longer.
It depend if you do not last because you lose your erection then there is a medical solution for that but you have to see a doctor to prescribed medicine
if you do not last because you reach orgasm or you come too fast that is called premature ejaculation which is very common problem and there is solution from doing a specific exercise to a medication that help delayed the orgasm or topical cream ...Read more
Hi. I'm 35 yrs n married for 5 yrs. My prob is when I mak sex I last for only 30-40 secs only I don't know why. My health cond is gud. Plz advise?
This is a very frustrating situation for both the man and his partner.
There are two common approaches. One is to actually start the man on a low dose medication that has a side effect of prolonging ejaculation.
And there are plenty of sex therapists and other experts that can work with your partner on practicing how to prolong the time it takes to ejaculate...To learn some techniques.... ...Read more
Married for 2yrs husband in air force be home for 2 weeks only what can I do to stop feeling nervious when we are haveing sex I love him sooo much?
Why nervous?: I do hear you saying you're anxious, but I'm not sure what's fueling this. To help you "stop feeling nervous" would require understanding you and your responses better than possible here on healthtap. It would be much better for you to speak with a therapist, so you can describe your feelings in detail and get help with your specific situation. Good luck to you. ...Read more
Hi sir, I'm 26 years female I got married one and half year ago and me and my husband was having protected sex since we don't have plan to have kids?
So what's your?: At this site we attempt to answer questions posed. You didn't pose a question! ...Read more
I am married but do not have any sex yet. I was always afraid to have pain. Not doing for a long time a big distance created and feel no interest on it?
Sir I m doing mastubtion for a 10 years m now 28 and my peniy dosent stand proper m worried about my married life now. Will I able to sex with patner?
24years old. Have been married from 6months. My husband never initiate for sex. N even forcefully is if he does he is not able to satisfy me. What to d?
Sex: I suggest you start to know each others well by being frank and clear in what you like to do and done to you and try this game on each others with a very open mind and try your fantasies together. Good luck. ...Read more
Sex & marriage.: Some people are asexual - have little interest in sex. They can live a perfectly happy life without sex. However, if you pair up someone with no sex drive with a partner who has a high sex drive that can be a real problem. If you actually hate sex - that may be a different issue entirely. If you are willing, exploring it with a therapist may help. ...Read more