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Married (Overview)

This is the term for the legal/religious contact between two individuals who make a committment to each other, sometimes out of love, but sometimes for financial or other reasons. It is not defined in the bible and marriage in fact is a recent development of the past 400 years or so related to property rather than personal interaction.


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Is it ok if i get married at 20+?

Is it ok if i get married at 20+?

Yes,but: Why are you asking the docs? You are considered an adult in most if not all states by 20 and can make that decision on your own.Whether or not you should is another question entirely and one we can not answer. ...Read more

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Married (Overview)

This is the term for the legal/religious contact between two individuals who make a committment to each other, sometimes out of love, but sometimes for financial or other reasons. It is not defined in the bible and marriage in fact is a recent development of the past 400 years or so related to property rather than personal interaction.


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My husband just said hes irritated with my for the first time and said he don't know why. Should I be worried? Not even one year married yet

My husband just said hes irritated with my for the first time and said he don't know why. Should I be worried? Not even one year married yet

Once in one year: It is not that unusual for a spouse to be upset with their mate. What matters is what is done with it. Many emotions may charge the irritability including anger, hurt, jealousy, sleep deprivation, undue stress at work/home, or substance use. If he could reflect for a few minutes or maybe via discussion he will determine what it is. Share the feelings with the goal of being understood and closer. ...Read more

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Sir, i like a married aunty.I want to make love with her, but she is not interested in me.Sir how can I control my feelings about her?

Sir, i like a married aunty.I want to make love with her, but she is not interested in me.Sir how can I control my feelings about her?

Find other pursuits: Distraction may be the best solution since this woman is married and does not have romantic/sexual interest in you. Stay away from her, or at least times alone with her. Exercise a lot! you could also seek out other social/dating opportunities in order to find someone who is available to you in this way. Then a relationship can proceed naturally -- sex when and if both desire it. ...Read more

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Sir i am married man but i have problem with sex because my ling is very small do u have any solution?

Sir i am married man but i have problem with sex because my ling is very small do u have any solution?

The women I work wi: are clear that what is important to them about love making is the quality of interaction - not the size of the man's penis. There are no tablets, exercises, creams or machines that will give you a larger penis. Take care. ...Read more

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I think i've found the love of my life but he's married to another woman, what can I do?

Love: Depends on what love means to you. This situation requires professional help and it usually causes severe problems with all involved. Get help before acting on your thoughts. ...Read more

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If married and husband wants sex a lot, do you have to submit?

If married and husband wants sex a lot, do you have to submit?

Maybe: Sexual interaction between two people involves normal differences in desire, frequency, and techniques. Like anything else in relationships, it is a form of communication which is "negotiable" and involves compromise. Please have that "conversation" with your partner soon. ...Read more

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Married for 2yrs husband in air force be home for 2 weeks only what can I do to stop feeling nervious when we are haveing sex i love him sooo much?

Married for 2yrs husband in air force  be home for 2 weeks only what can I do to stop feeling nervious when we are haveing sex i love him sooo much?

Why nervous?: I do hear you saying you're anxious, but i'm not sure what's fueling this. To help you "stop feeling nervous" would require understanding you and your responses better than possible here on healthtap. It would be much better for you to speak with a therapist, so you can describe your feelings in detail and get help with your specific situation. Good luck to you. ...Read more

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Hai sir recently I got married.While partispating I sex iam getting out in seconds ?

Hai sir recently I got married.While partispating I sex iam getting out in seconds  ?

Congrats on marriage: "getting out in secs" or premature ejaculation is common among the newly wed. Using condoms, relaxing about having intercourse, or taking medications such as Paxil to increase time to ejaculation are just a few ways to treat. ...Read more

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I am not virgin.. But i have not done sex since last 2years.. If i get married my husband will or wont know about it..

I am not virgin.. But i have not done sex since last 2years.. If i get married my husband will or wont know about it..

Likely will suspect: Many cultures use the presence of an intact hymen as the gold standard for virginity. You may have never had one or lost it through non sexual contact, but its absence would lead to suspicion. It would be best not to hide the facts when and if you find someone you want to share life with. ...Read more

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Why do I go after married men all the time?

Not sure: I'm not sure but you might want to speak to a therapist to discuss this. This may help you find meaningful relationships that help you both grow (vs a relationship that could be futile). Please consider finding a therapist or at least speaking to your primary care physician about it. ...Read more

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