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Making Love Sex
Everything: If you truly care about the person you are with, desire the best for them and their happiness, and cherish your time together, then sex becomes "making love". Casual sex with someone about whom you do not care gives some people great enjoyment, and turns into trouble and even disgust for others. It's said that a sociopath cannot feel real warmth, only sexual desire -- glad I'm not like that! ...Read more
Please Clarify: What does 'coming on time' mean? This is not a medical term. Nor is it any way a common sexual term. ...Read more
A few years back I lost an erection while making love and ever since the problem grew. Now I barely desire sex fearing disappointment. Help?
Sex I have been masturbating since 15 years. ... I think it has affected my way of making love because I come very fast and sometimes my wife does not feel much pleasure. .. There is nothing I can take pills or something. .
It is unlikely that your masturbation is causing you to reach orgasm more quickly than you would otherwise. One thing you might try to improve your endurance is to reduce your sensitivity by wearing a condom. It might also be helpful to spend more time on foreplay.
There are physicians who specialize in sexual therapy who might provide additional information. ...Read more
Wen I m having sex my sperm caming out sooon b4 I start to make love. I want my sperm came l8 wen I m making love like 35 mnt 40 mnt?
Premature ejaculate: This is premature ejaculation and many things can play a role, anxiety or first time (or first few times) and may get better over time. If not there are some medications that will possibly help that are actually antidepressants but can be quite helpful. See your doctor if it continues. ...Read more
Some thoughts...: How a person acts represents the expression of personal spiritual & physical balance at the time under the circumstance so to suit constant personal pursuit for comfort and control of life. An active vibrant life delivers a continual flow of such acts. But the contents of acts widely vary depending on who a person has been. So, no surprise and nothing strange in what someone says, acts, & moves. ...Read more
No: Congratulations on finding love -- may you always keep it. Life is tough enough without people making you worry about something that's obviously a very good thing. Of course... If these are four different partners, you need to be sure they don't find out about each other! Seriously... Best wishes, and thanks for bringing good news to a place where so many bring life's pain and sorry. ...Read more
The wetness would: Not push your partner out. On the other hand, you may be contracting certain muscles which could. Try different approaches to what you're doing with your muscles during sex to find something enjoyable for both you and your partner. Have your partner work with you on this. It will be good for both! ...Read more
Making love for the first time and I know mainly to expect some pain and or discomfort but what about for him?
Enjoy: Typically, there is no discomfort for the man. ...Read more
I'm 26 years old and I have been very moody for the last week. And I have not been interested in making love with my man. Been with him for 8 years.
I would like to discuss a problem I've been fighting for a few years now. About 3 1/2 years ago I was making love to my wife when for no known reaso?
You need a consult: Hi TReid, it is really hard to determine anything from your post. My suggestion is this: go see your doctor and explain it properly. Sometimes 400 characters just isn't enough. Maybe find someone on healthtap you feel comfortable with and request a consult. You will get their undivided attention and not be limited in your description of the problem. Hope that's helpful. ...Read more
Nope: The only pain killer that would help you enjoy your honeymoon is an air tight prenuptial agreement. ...Read more
Easy, but...: If you thought you're pregnant, just do HPT to prove it and you will get the answer to the question you're asking. So, HPT brings you double benefits. But, physiologically and of common sense, nature makes pregnant females calm & satisfied for achieving one step of biological duty to prepare nurturing the fetus conceived. That is nature we see. But, humans are distorted by political correctness... ...Read more
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But, take PDE-5Is such as Viagra (sildenafil) may provide temporary help. If more doubt, ask Doc timely. ...Read more
My girlfriend and I were thinking about making love, but I am disabled & have no feeling 'down there', so is it a good idea to risk it?
Good idea? Works: Hopefully you are able to achieve an erection. Some paraplegics can sustain prolonged erections. Your girlfriend can have aver pleasureable experience provided you have erections. The attempt will be futile if erections cannot be achieved, in which case you can try viagra (sildenafil) or cialis. So: go for it, just being intimate with your friend by kissing and caressing should be pleasant for both of you. ...Read more
Before I was making love 3 times in 1 night now I cannot do it even second time, and once a week more than that I cannot have errection what shd I do?
Consult with your MD: A good start would be to consult with your physician to rule out a medical problem. If everything is normal medically have your doctor give you a referral to a psychiatrist or psychologist, who can help you explore what other reasons might be influencing the change in your sexual functioning. ...Read more
I'm 29 yr old new married and he's 25 While making love his thing go down within 5 -7 mins though he has desire. Need to take daily vita or advice pls?
Possibly meds: You are only 31.You did not mention your partner's age. If he is in the age group for enlarged prostate, is he taking medication such as flomax (tamsulosin)? One of the side effects is called retrograde ejaculation.This means he actually does ejaculate but the semen backs into the bladder instead of going out. It comes out mixed in his urine.Other medicines in the same group can do this. Hope this helps ...Read more
When making love, I feel like I have hit climax, but I never produce an orgasm (squirt). What can I do in order to produce one?
UR in the majority: Most women do not squirt with orgasm, they secrete vaginal and "sex" juices whichh help to lubricate vagina and penis. Actual suirting is due to relaxation of the pelvic floor muscles with reflex bladder contraction causing urine to squirt. This can soak the bed or partner. Some find this very exiting, others do not. Perhaps you now might not want to squirt. ...Read more
While making love my organ touched her outermost part many times. She is virgin nd I didn't ejaculated. Can she be pregnent? Should I give her pills?
Here are some...: Your reported scenario, if all held true, should pose a zero odd to conceive in consideration of sperm fastidious survival requirement. But in reality, it's most advisable to do HPT in a wk after missing period and repeat it in another wk if the first test is (-) and still in doubt. More? Seek pro-evaluation and counseling. ...Read more
Few hours after making love to my fiance, some fluid start flowing out of her vigina. Its a little flow and it really disturb her. What is this fluid.?
Post-coital fluid: The most likely fluid to see from the vagina following coitus is semen...Yours! But the natural lubrication that accompanies sexual response in her is also likely. Whether women excreet fluid, like men do, with orgasm is controversial. She may be proof that it really does happen in some women. ...Read more
Common issue: You have several options and I suggest: spend 20-30 minutes of, prolonged foreplay without intercourse, comminicate to your partner what feels "good", use a water based (aqueous) sexual lubricant, use external stimuli like music, aromatherapy, sensual massage or adult video. If these don't work, get a GYN checkup. ...Read more
NO - thank goodness: Seizures can be triggered by many stimuli. Flashing lights, over breathing, sudden surge in blood pressure, excessive exertion, etc. Fortunately, it is rare that sexual activity causes seizures. The physiological reactions of the body during climax has been compared to a "seizure", but is more of a normal outpouring of response. If definite, pre-treatment with a seizure suppressant may help. ...Read more