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Love Shy Symptoms
Shyness is about....: Fear. Plain and simple. Just know that adolescent shyness is very common and can be overcome. Fear of being known, or embarrassed, or unable to speak, or being rejected. Overcoming shyness, or fear, requires acting "confident, non-fearful & outgoing, " believe it or not. You can do it! check this out: http://books.Google.Com/books/about/top_10_tips_for_building_friendships.Html?Id=_o2eotznbx8c. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Yes but...: A person with high functioning autistic spectrum disorders can feel romantic notions like any body eles but the level of emotional energy required to maintain a relationship can be exhausting for them and they have to work harder on their ability to continue to show emotions and communicate. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Very outgoing but avoid intimate, honest, close relationships (especially with girls) so I don't get embarrassed/hurt. Avoidant personality disorder?
Follow curiosity: It helps to go with a friend to an event where the two of you might meet people. Getting out of the house and participating in events will help. Hey, if you're at the event you already have something in common with others there that you might meet. Keep attending repeat events (such as taking a class) in order to become increasing familiar and comfortable with others. ...Read more
Depends on Severity: People with asperger's often become involved with romantic relationships, but this depends on how impaired they are in the area of social skills and relationships. Anyone who gets involved with a person with asperger's needs to be aware of their tendency towards quirky reactions along with a diminished awareness or regard for social cues. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Cbt and desensitazat: Although the two are similiar, irrational fears and phobias do differ. Irrarional fears are thoughts that may cause you to worry about a situation or perhaps contribute to you misperceiving a situation or an encounter. Unless you are delusional or psychotic, medication won't assist much with changing irration beliefs or thoughts. Cognitive behavioral therapy that teaches you to effectively. ...Read more
Counselor: You should talk to a counselor about your feelings before you take action and potentially ruin a marriage. ...Read more
Sir I am very shy.I feel shy to talk to girls.I feel shy when my frienfs make fun of me.How to cure my shy habit?
Various ways!: There is simple shyness and then there is a larger syndrome called social phobia or social anxiety disorder which includes more difficulties socially such as not even being willing to eat in front of other people and more. It may be very helpful to see a therapist to see where you are on this "spectrum". Medication can help. So can cognitive behavioral therapy. You can get so much better-get help! ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
25yo stay home, no friends. Anxious panic disorder. Feel way behind in life social skills life skills, hard to be alone. Had this as a child :( aspie?
Not necessarily: I am a neurologist and to my knowledge your description of things is not sufficient to diagnose Asperger syndrome though certainly some features may be present. Other things should also be looked at and ruled out. I would be happy to help direct you in this regard. Write me-www.healthtap.com/DR-Saghafi ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Can someone with schizoid pd seem outgoing and socially engaged, despite a lack of sincere emotional interaction? Do they bond with family members?
Schizoid PD: People with schizoid pd consistently lack desire for intimate human connection. They may have families and jobs, but keep people at a distance. They mostly appear cold and dull in affect. They would be unlikely to seem outgoing or socially engaged, but are able to respond to carefully selected others whom they need intensely. Some of these could be family. ...Read more
Transform vs Forget?: Our brains, if not our bodies, tend 2 hold on 2 memories of events/situations that caused or had the potential 2 cause us harm. I've yet to meet someone who has succeeded in forgetting such memories. But I have met/worked w/ many people who've been able 2 explore those painful memories & then have been able 2 transform them into force that has helped drive their lives in positive ways. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
Is it normal to feel many different emotions (Happy, Sad, Lonely, Confident, Excited, Irritated, Angry, Joy) in the course of minutes/hours everyday?
Possibly: It really depends on the intensity of the emotions, the context and if this is a consistent issue. Marked lability that occurs consistently is not normal. ...Read more
How can I start having more trust with my therapist having social phobia and avoidant personality disorder? Don't want to change therapist.
Work with your : Therapist to uncover the roots of your distrust from any difficult relationships from childhood on. It is only by exploring these in interpersonal therapy or psychoanalytic therapy that you will eventually gain an understanding of why you feel the way that you do and hopefully gradually learn how to trust. Best wishes. ...Read more
I am an introvert person. I don't feel comfortable networking with a crowd of strangers. I need to become more extrovert. How to overcome shyness?
Aspergers: Yes! they are a bit of a different breed. Here is my show on aspergers. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xg1ngp1ngds but be sure to buy this book on aspergirls. It is the best. http://www.amazon.com/aspergirls-empowering-females-asperger-syndrome/dp/1849058261. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
That is a lot going : On ; it doesn't sound like fun. Take on a little "can do" attitude. Encourage you to enlist the care of a good psychiatrist as well as a therapist/ psychologist. Alk about feelings ; address problems. Don't avoid them. Aim for 7.5 - 8 hours of sleep/ night. Daily physical activity is optimal in a green space. Eat healthfully. Cut out junk carbs, caffeine ; alcohol (or moderate). ...Read more
I don't feel any emotions. No sadness, no happiness, no anger. I can't connect with people on any level. And this strains myfriendships. People say that I'm cold, guarded, secretive. I don't think seeing a therapist will help. How can anyone fix this? I'v
Could be. Others?: Disliking affection - or even less intense levels of interpersonal involvement is likely to be a trait of schizoid pd. But it probably would not be the only one. If there are no big problems due to this, it might be better to use the less severe term personality trait and avoid the word "disorder". ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Seeing a Therapist: Not necessarily someone w/BPD, but anyone who has difficulty trusting or is somewhat paranoid can have difficulty seeing a therapist. He/she may find it hard to relate to the therapist and it is in the relationship that progress is made. It can be done, however. Peace and good health. ...Read more
I want to completely eliminate emotions such as anger, love, hatred, disappointment, empathy and sexual attraction. How can I achieve that?
All part of life: These emotions are a normal part of human life. I would ask you why you want to eliminate these feelings? Some people don't want these feelings because of past trauma or being hurt deeply by someone they trusted. If that is the case for you, i suggest talk therapy as a path to healing. You can find help here: http://www.Rainn.Org/get-help please do that for yourself. Be well, . ...Read more