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Lost sexsual desires. Dont have any urge for sex. Why?

Lost sexsual desires. Dont have any urge for sex. Why?

Doctor: It could be several reason from stress to depression. Talk to your doctor for evaluation and treatment. ...Read more

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Married good sex life but recently im addictive to porn and mastubate when i dont have sex with wife . I need to do it daily sex or mastubate suggest?

Married good sex life but recently im addictive to porn and mastubate when i dont have sex with wife . I need to do it daily sex or mastubate suggest?

Consult: Hi Amjad, you might check out this resource for information about porn/sexual addiction: http://www.psychguides.com/guides/porn-addiction/. The site includes a self evaluation and also lists and describes types of treatments. Strongly suggest that you contact a professional with expertise in this area as this problem, untreated, can exert substantial negative effects on your life. Hope this helps. ...Read more

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I have no sexual desire or sex drive i haven't ever since the first time I've had sex. I don't feel any physical pleasure either how can I get fixed?

I have no sexual desire or sex drive i haven't ever since the first time I've had sex. I don't feel any physical pleasure either how can I get fixed?

Low libido: Please see your doc who may test your hormones or refer you to a specialist. If you don't tell him/her the doc won't think to test you. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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No pleasure during intercourse,masterbation or oral.Im in love w/him so i fake it for his pleasure.I get aroused easily.4months since i lost virginty?

No pleasure during intercourse,masterbation or oral.Im in love w/him so i fake it for his pleasure.I get aroused easily.4months since i lost virginty?

A sex therapist: can help clarify what's going on. Some people are famously asexual (Richard Dreyfus) and others are at the opposite end of the spectrum. You may have physical issues--is there pain during sex? Check with your OB-GYN. How's the relationship "really/" Being in love doesn't guarantee happiness or enjoyment of sex. A relationship therapist can help with opening communication--the big one. ...Read more

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I don't desire being sexually pleasures and I don't become sexually aroused but instead I have strong desire to give sexual pleasure to others. Why?

I don't desire being sexually pleasures and I don't become sexually aroused but instead I have strong desire to give sexual pleasure to others. Why?

Get checked.: First make sure you are in good physical health. See your doc and explain. Make sure your hormone levels are normal. If there is no physical reason, see a psychologist or psychiatrist for help. It is great that you want to give pleasure to others! ...Read more

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My wife always complain i don't satisfy her sexually.Anytime we make love i ejaculate once and no more erection.What is the cause an what should I do.

My wife always complain i don't satisfy her sexually.Anytime we make love i ejaculate once and no more erection.What is the cause an what should I do.

Might be "normal": To assess if one's erections have weakened, he should visit a primary doctor, who can check for possible causes: stress, depression, diabetes, high blood pressure, low testosterone, artery disease, high cholesterol, smoking, older age, etc... Causes found can be treated to help make erections stronger, firmer, longer lasting. A urologist can be helpful. Meds like viagra, cialis, Levitra (vardenafil) can work. ...Read more

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I am 43yrs old and dont have any sexual desire i have'nt had a orgasm for over 2 yrs now and get no enjoyment from sexual intercourse. why?

I am 43yrs old and dont have any sexual desire i have'nt had a orgasm for over 2 yrs now and get no enjoyment from sexual intercourse. why?

Lack of libido.: There are many causes of lack of desire (libido). First, make sure you have no physical reason, like early menopause or thyroid problems. If not, the treatment is complex, and may involve counseling to explore possible reasons. But since safe, good sex is a cheap and very satisfying source of joy and pleasure in our difficult world, it is well worth exploring any cause and finding a way to fix it ...Read more

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I am 43yrs old and dont have any sexual desire i have'nt had a orgasm for over 2 yrs now and get no enjoyment from sexual intercourse. why?

I am 43yrs old and dont have any sexual desire i have'nt had a orgasm for over 2 yrs now and get no enjoyment from sexual intercourse. why?

Many Factors...: 43y/o female says says sexual desire low, no orgasm X 2yrs & doesn't enjoy intercourse. Many factors contribute to sexual satisfaction: Stress; Physical, Mental or Emotional. Environment. Partner Compatibility and how comfortable one feels. At 43, Hormonal issues, possible Peri-Menopause. Also Fear of contracting STD or Injury. Plus absence of Love can be significant factor. Good to talk to M.D. ...Read more

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Why do we have feeling of regret after having sex?

Why do we have feeling of regret after having sex?

Both parties??: The majority of the time, i suspect a sense of regret might result from some guilt or shame issue & those are commonly derived from cultural or religious expectations or "upbringing". Treated as a "gift" given, in a show of affection, within the context of a caring relationship, it would seem unlikely to result in any regret! sometimes "sexualizing" a friendship may be the wrong move... ...Read more

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I have never had a sex drive at all. I'm attracted to men but have no desire to be intimate and do not enjoy intimacy at all. What can I do?

I have never had a sex drive at all. I'm attracted to men but have no desire to be intimate and do not enjoy intimacy at all.  What can I do?

Sex: I would be inclined to have a consultation with your doctor in regard to your hormone levels. Perhaps an endocrinologist's examination of your blood work would be of benefit too. Please don't think i'm suggesting a "mental" problem, but i'd also consult a psychologist in regard to this dilemma. Best of luck! ...Read more

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I am 34 year woman, sexually active but never experienced orgasm. I have no sexual desire and i feel let down as I am not able to fulfill my partner

I am 34 year woman, sexually active but never experienced orgasm. I have no sexual desire and i feel let down as I am not able to fulfill my partner

Need more info: I wonder if u have had any experiences that make it difficult for you to enjoy sex? Is there abuse in your past? Did your family-of-origin express attitudes about intimacy that now make you feel guilty when you have sex? Have you had the chance to study/learn about human sexuality? Have u been evaluated by an md to rule out other problems? Counseling with a sex therapist might help. Good luck! ...Read more

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I have no partner, i still don't have sex with any one.How to control my sexual feelings?

I have no partner, i still don't have sex with any one.How to control my sexual feelings?

Female Sexuality: From a medical standpoint there is no reason to limit or interfere with your sexual feelings. These are natural, common and part of the human experience. Almost all female humans have these feelings but the expression of them may be dangerous or mistakenly thought to be inappropriate. This thinking is real but wrong. I often recommend to females: "our bodies our selves" a sexual health manifesto. ...Read more

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I would like to have suggestions for increasing sex drive. I have been married 12 years and just have no desire at all and we do there's no orgasm.

I would like to have suggestions for increasing sex drive. I have been married 12 years and just have no desire at all and we do there's no orgasm.

Libido: There several questions that you need to answer: are you overweight, are you diabetic, are you overtired, do you have a low testosterone level, check with your doctor. Are there marital problems, stress, anxiety? ...Read more

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Why do we have more desire for sex at night?Plz rply

Why do we have more desire for sex at night?Plz rply

Is it true?: I have several patients whose desire for sex does not seem to be connected to the time of day. Some people might find that sex has a soporific effect (a tendency to induce sleep) because it results in total-body muscle relaxation. That would be a good reason to prefer it at nighttime. ...Read more

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Why do I no longer have the urge for sex during perimenopause?

Why do I no longer have the urge for sex during perimenopause?

Sex and perimenopaus: Increased stress. Level and hormonal imbalance , which can be common at this time , can cause that. ...Read more

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Why do I have a stronger orgasm through masturbation and not sex?

Why do I have a stronger orgasm through masturbation and not sex?

Hand has help: When you masturbate, your brain gives you exact and perfect feed back as to how hard, how fast, where to rub, etc. During sex, even the best partner can only hope to know exactly what you need. In short, it is your brains ability to tell your hand what to do that makes your hand create the strongest orgasms. ...Read more

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I have strong sex drive but get bored with sex with new partner in weeks, even though I have orgasms. I can't wait for intercourse to end. Why?

I have strong sex drive but get bored with sex with new partner in weeks, even though I have orgasms. I can't wait for intercourse to end. Why?

Passion intimacy: The most critical and important aspect of a healthy sexual relationship is the presence of intimacy, communication and the trust two people have. The freedom to express ypur desires without judgement makes the sexual experience more intense. There can be no expectations is spontaneity is to happen and the simple gesture of the kiss is a measure of that intimacy that leads to passion. ...Read more

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How can I tell if i'm asexual or just have low libido? I rarely feel sexual attraction, don't want sex, & find sex boring, painful, and pointless.

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How can I tell if i'm asexual or just have low libido? I rarely feel sexual attraction, don't want sex, & find sex boring, painful, and pointless.

Libido: Factors involved in the libido change include biological, psychological or social, or combination of those. First step is to rule out physical attributes by physical exam and workup by your pcp. ...Read more

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What can I do to get an orgasam during sex i've been married 3years and i'm not finding sex exciting?

Many reasons : There are many reasons why you may have difficulty enjoying sex. If you are having any physical discomfort, i would recommend seeing a gyn for an exam. Otherwise, you might consider seeing a licensed sex therapist for guidance. ...Read more