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Losing Virginity For The First Time
Can you still lose your virginity, even though you didn't bleed your first time, but it still hurt? Want to clarify I'm alright thank you.
Yes to #1. No to #2.: The bleeding with first sex idea is overdone. Bleeding means there were little tears. If a woman has a healthy vulva, vagina, and hymen; if she is very stretchy; if she is happy and relaxed, with lots of natural lubrication; if a guy enters at a good angle, at the right spot; if he moves gently with small motions until all is well-lubricated and stretched out; there may not be tearing or bleeding. ...Read more
Can a girl lose her virginity without bleeding? And if yes is that rare? What other features can I know that it's the girls first time?
Hymen: It is certainly possible for a girl to lose her virginity without bleeding. It is possible to break the hymen through out childhood inadvertently. The hymen is a very thin membrane covering the vagina only. ...Read more
Dr. Says, I am unvirgin but can I lose virginity without any bleeding/pain in vagina after first time of sex with single boyfriend, who is still virgin?
Define virgin please: Most of us would agree that if you have had sex ;#40;penetrating vaginal intercourse;#41;, then you are no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if it was one time, with a virgin, and it doesn't matter if you had no pain or bleeding. If you haven't had sex, ever, then you are still a virgin. It does not matter what the doctor says. Every girl's hymen is different. Some are tighter than others. ...Read more
U ; Partner R ready: Right age is debatable, but probably from age 18 ; when both you ; partner feel you are ready. ...Read more
Can sex still hurt after losing my virginity? He stuck it in didn't move much. The next day our second time we tried again but it hurt. Still virgin??
Dyspareunia: There may still be some discomfort during intercourse after the initial occasion where the hymen is penetrated. It may take a few days for the area to heal. I also would suggest using a lubricant the next time which should help make things more comfortable. ...Read more
How can I lose my virginity without pain? I've tried loads of times with my partner and it just stops at a certain point and I can't handle it
Time for a visit: By your statement you have likely tried the common lubricants and things just don't work out. It is time to meet with a Gyn doc and have a genital exam. Some women have a thickened membrane (hymen) that may need a little surgical help for you to go forward. This can usually be done as an outpatient if needed. If that is not the case you are with those who can help you find out. ...Read more
Usually only few min: Stops very soon unless you have an unusual tear. ...Read more
I lost my virginity 2 days ago a d my boyfriend I tried it again yesterday and I bleed alot the first and second time is that normal?
Bleeding: You should not be bleeding a lot. I would suggest you see your doctor. ...Read more
Is it normal that the first period after losing virginity is for 1 day when it is usually for 6 days?
After losing virginity, does one experience a heigthen sexual desire, more than previously? Especially for women never masturbated before her 1st time
It depends: It may depend on whether the initial experience was pleasant or not. ...Read more
I already lost my virginity and I didn't bleed, but when I tried to do it again I bled. It it possible to not pop your cherry the first time?
Virginity: Yes it is possible that your hymen did not completely break with your first attempt at sexual intercourse, which is nothing to worry about. It sounds like it broke the second time around. Remember to always protect yourself from STD's by using condoms and if you are not wanting to get pregnant please consider using birth control ...Read more
Hi, I am a 23 years old guy who have a problem with staying hard during sex. I just lost my virginity last month, but the problem is, I cant stay hard when doing it. And I cant ejaculate at that time. At first I thought maybe because I was nervous, but in
Primary Anxiety: Your primary anxiety is based on performance. You first have a problem staying hard during sex and then you have secondary anxiety, i.e., you become anxious about becoming anxious! You project your mind (thought) into a future event that hasn't happened yet. For example, you are about to have sex and you say to yourself: "What if I can't stay hard during sex. Then you Awfulize about this event. ...Read more
I had unprotected sex for the first time Saturday and this whole week I've been feeling nauseous and really tired can it be cause I lost my virginity?
Maybe. Maybe not.: Many things can cause tiredness or nausea, regardless of whether or not a person is having sex. One's primary care doctor can evaluate, if the symptoms are persistent or worrisome. If wondering about pregnancy, a home urine pregnancy test, done correctly, gives a reliable result 3 weeks after sex (3 weeks after when conception might have occurred), or 1 week after missing a period. ...Read more
Should I be worried if I am spotting 3 days after losing my virginity? Hi, I recently just lost my virginity and I understand that when you first start having sex that you bleed.
Hello.: Hello. I cannot diagnose the cause of your spotting. Bleeding / spotting after sexual intercourse is called postcoital bleeding. It is not uncommon to have spotting the first time after having sexual intercourse. It can be the result of the hymen being torn with penetration. If the sexual intercourse was painful there could be some trauma to the tissues in or around the vagina. It is always very important to know your sexual partner well. If your partner has any sexual transmitted diseases that are transmitted to you, that can sometimes be a cause of vaginal bleeding. ...Read more
Hi, if a girl puts her finger in her vagina, for two times, not so deep a little bit pressing she didn't bleed, so she lose her virginity? Thank you
Interesting question: The definition of virginity varies with the culture and persons involved. Some confuse the term with chastity, where no level of sexual behavior is practiced. For most, one loses their virginity when they have any sexual encounter with another person. That includes same or separate gender encounters. A few look to the bleeding of a hymen as a virginity marker, but I would not. ...Read more
Lost my virginity yesterday. Used condom. Now I feel like I'm cramping. My period isn't due. What are normal symptoms after having sex for the first time?
Cramping is normal: Light bleeding, cramping, soreness, mild pain with urination are all common symptoms. ...Read more
I'm only 14 and lost my virginty to my boyfriend and I took the plan b the first time and then the second time we had sex it was protecteed, and a day after I had my period, could I be pergnant >???
If you had a period after sex and have not had sex since then, you are unlikely to be pregnant. If you must have sex, take contraception, all the time, every time. You are too young to deal with pregnancy.
Practice safe sex
Get HPV vaccine.
Talk to a trusted older relative or a counselor at school for advice. ...Read more
Virginity.: Don't expect it to be the way it is often portrayed in movies. If you are a female there may be some discomfort with penetration and there may be some spotting. It may be a positive experience or may be dissapointing. ...Read more
Yours or his?: This is always a big event in the life of a woman and should not be taken lightly. The consent must be mutual, the approach gentle and sweet, and not rushed. Do you desire this or are you being pressured. There is a lot less at stake for the man to lose his virginity. If the man is a virgin, however, there is a risk that he might be embarrased about awkwardness. ...Read more
No longer a virgin: Nothing happens to a male unles he contracts an std. Hymen usually tears in women when they lose their virginity and some bleeding may or may not occur. Nothing may happen if hymen is underdeveloped or already torn from tampon use or bicycle or horseback riding. ...Read more
Ask him!: Just like in women, the only way to tell if someone is a virgin is to ask. There is no other telltale sign upon physical examination to determine whether virgin or not. And if you want to play semantics, you can get specific as to virginity w/regards to oral sex vs vaginal vs anal vs? ...Read more