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Lose Virginity Losing
Hi i m 17 years old.(male).Is it right age to lose virginity or should I have more if no hw much should I wait?
Sexuality: This is a question that is beyond the bounds of medicine. Your doctor would have nothing to say about when you should or should not become sexually active. The only thing we can comment on is that if you choose to become sexual you take on the responsibility to protect yourself from stds and to protect your partner from unwanted pregnancy. ...Read more
Interesting question: For many women, the pain is brief and, if they are enjoying the sex, the sensual feelings take over and may be stronger than the pain. Many women know that after that initial discomfort, other episodes of intercourse don't hurt. I think it's like asking if you fall off the bike when you first try to ride, why would you try again?? Because it's fun and you get better at it!! ...Read more
When trying to lose virginity, i tense up my muscles a lot for fear of pain. Is this what's making trying to get it in hurt so bad?
Partly: All circumstances have to be perfect for good sex: lock the door, light candles, start the music, & set your stage. You could be smaller than average and your guy could be larger than average -- either way, a lot of foreplay is mandatory. (your masturbating will help you to know your own body, so do that if you haven't). Use lubrication and be sure to have a patient gentleman in the bedroom. ...Read more
I touched my vagina once, i heared that you can lose virginity by finguring, but i didn't have bleeding or any pain or feeling, have i lost it?
Examination: The concept of virginity is based upon a myth or old belief that the hymen in the vagina was somehow sacred. However about 20% of females do not have the hymen or it get's displaced for a variety of other reasons. If you cannot see your hymen then you need a professional to examine you if this is important. ...Read more
Dr. Says, I am unvirgin but can I lose virginity without any bleeding/pain in vagina after first time of sex with single boyfriend, who is still virgin?
Define virgin please: Most of us would agree that if you have had sex ;#40;penetrating vaginal intercourse;#41;, then you are no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if it was one time, with a virgin, and it doesn't matter if you had no pain or bleeding. If you haven't had sex, ever, then you are still a virgin. It does not matter what the doctor says. Every girl's hymen is different. Some are tighter than others. ...Read more
Definitions : Different people define virginity in different ways. ...Read more
Virginity.: Don't expect it to be the way it is often portrayed in movies. If you are a female there may be some discomfort with penetration and there may be some spotting. It may be a positive experience or may be dissapointing. ...Read more
One time event: You remain a virgin until your first sexual experience involving vaginal penetration, whether or not your hymen is torn. You become an ex-virgin after that. Whether anyone thinks it's bad depends upon their religious and/or social values and beliefs. The majority of women have lost their virginity by the time they get married. The decision is yours. ...Read more