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My wife drinks six alcoholic drinks a day, otherwise she is very healthy. Could this be ok?

My wife drinks six alcoholic drinks a day, otherwise she is very healthy. Could this be ok?

No, not healthy: Drinking this heavily means your wife has developed tolerance to alcohol, which can induce liver enzymes and eventually lead to cirrhosis. She's also at risk for anemia, various cancers, heart disease including cardiomyopathy, infections, depression, hypertension, gout, seizures, pancreatitis, dementia, and neuropathy -- to name a few. If you're drinking like this also, the same applies. ...Read more

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My wife is an alcoholic has been vomiting and haset eaten in 5 days . She won't go to the ER or dr. Is she dying?

My wife is an alcoholic has been vomiting and haset eaten in 5 days . She won't go to the ER or dr. Is she dying?

Needs help: Needs to eat and hydrate needs rehab after basic work up can have simple gastritis or portal gastropathy with gastric congestion due to cirrhosis ...Read more

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After alcoholic fatty liver reverses, is drinking actually dangerous? I don't see myself never having beers with the guys or wine with my wife.

After alcoholic fatty liver reverses, is drinking actually dangerous? I don't see myself never having beers with the guys or wine with my wife.

Potentially yes: Drinking leads to fatty liver, which is reversible once you stop drinking, if there is no scarring already. For you to know if there is scarring in the liver you would need a liver biopsy. Alcoholic fatty liver can then turn into cirrhosis, which is non-reversible. You can probably get away with a drink every now and then, but nothing on a daily / regular basis. ...Read more

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My wife is an alcoholic, but is now in a treatment program for 7 weeks. She is experiencing pain and soreness in all of her joints and fingers, help?

My wife is an alcoholic, but is now in a treatment program for 7 weeks.   She is experiencing pain and soreness in all of her joints and fingers, help?

Ask 4 help@treatment: If she is in a treatment program, there should be a doctor there or one they can refer you to to evaluate her pain. The most likely thing would be a cause unrelated to her alcoholism, and perhaps the drinking was masking the pain. Really this can only be evaluated by a thorough exam and possibly lab tests. ...Read more

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Dear doctor, in recent ultra sound of my wife 52 shows hepatomegely and moderate fatty liver infilteration, non alcoholic steato hepatitis, guide?

Dear doctor, 
in recent ultra sound of my wife  52 shows hepatomegely and moderate fatty liver infilteration, non alcoholic steato hepatitis, 
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NASH / NAFLD: Complicated. Need a very low fat diet and monitoring of blood to make sure there is no diabetes or high choleseterol that needs treatment. Depending upon lft elevation may need biopsy and routine monitoring of lft. Certainly need review of meds / alcohol use and immunization against viral hepatitis. ...Read more

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What makes one an alcoholic?

What makes one an alcoholic?

Its causes problems: Alcoholic is actually not a medical term, however people in aa call themselves alcoholics because for some reason or another alcohol causes problems in their life, health, relationships, legal trouble. Maybe they were just done having it rule their lives, it kept them stuck, from realizing their dreams, maybe they were robbed of their mind, body and spirit. Unfortunately some never see this. ...Read more

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Alcoholic dimentia symptoms ?

Alcoholic dimentia symptoms
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Confabulate: One of the manifestations is korsakoff psychosis, characterized by confabulation. ...Read more

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How do I know if i'm an alcoholic?

How do I know if i'm an alcoholic?

Mutual support helps: Consider attending a meeting of alcoholics anonymous and see if it fits. ...Read more

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How could you define an alcoholic?

How could you define an alcoholic?

Alcoholism: An alcoholic is a man or a woman who suffers from alcoholism - they have a distinct physical desire to consume alcohol beyond their capacity to control it, regardless of all rules of common sense. Signs of alcoholism are drinking alone, drinking in secret. Not being able to limit alcohol. Blacking out. Trouble with the law, relationships or work due to drinking ...Read more

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How can I help my alcoholic friend.?

How can I help my alcoholic friend.?

Help with what?: If you want your friend to stop drinking, he or she has to want to or it doesn't work. Alanon is a 12-step organization designed for friends and loved ones of people with alcohol problems, and can help you deal with your concern, anger, guilt and other mixed emotions. We often 'enable' drinkers to keep drinking in ways we dont always understand, and alanon can help reduce this.Don't nag-not helpful. ...Read more

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Can alcoholic cravings be hereditary?

Can alcoholic cravings be hereditary?

Absolutely: Alcoholic tendencies run in families.(type two alcoholism) it is unclear if it its a tendency to develop abnormal craving or an inability to inhibit behavior. However, since most of the identified behavior is substance related, i suspect the former. ...Read more

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Do alcoholics stop and restart a lot?

Yes: Many alcoholics have "gone on the wagon" many times. ...Read more

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How can someone become an alcoholic?

How can  someone become an alcoholic?

Alcoholism: Alcohol becomes a priority in life. They spend significant time obtaining, using or getting over effects of alcohol. Additionally, alcohol or it's effects may prevent them from family, recreational, occupational or other activities. There body develops a tolerance to alcohol. It takes more alcohol over time to get the same effect. They may drink more or for longer than intends. It impairs them. ...Read more

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What causes a person to get alcoholic?

What causes a person to get alcoholic?

Alcoholism is a: progressive condition that starts out as novel drinking, then habitual drinking, then compulsive drinking. It can be chronic or binge in nature and can take weeks or years to develop this pattern. Some say its a bad habit (Rational Recovery) while others say its a disease (Alcoholics Anonymous). Go to a psychologist or perhaps an AA meeting for more information. ...Read more

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Does tough love work with an alcoholic?

Not always: Nothing works in every situation. Many experts indicate that an alcoholic must "hit bottom" or have nothing else to lose before they are willing to seek help. There may come a time when family and friends have done all they can and have to sever ties with the alcoholic to prevent themselves from being harmed. ...Read more

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How to know is someone is an alcoholic?

Depends: Some people with alcoholism are almost always intoxicated, lose family and friends, can't hold a job, and have every area of their life ruined by their drinking. Other people are very skilled at hiding it, drink alone and can still maintain work and family, but usually it catches up to them. It is less a matter of how much or how often people drink than what bad things alcohol does in their lives ...Read more

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How could i get sober if i'm alcoholic?

How could i get sober if i'm alcoholic?

Stop drinking: First and foremost, and this can be dangerous in smoke drinkers - if you get morning shakes or severe anxiety, you may need medical help. Use of support groups, including aa, smart recovery, women for sobriety, lifering secular recovery and others. Many people need formal treatment programs which are available in most places. Talk to your doctor about a referral. Your family may need its own help. ...Read more

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Can you be fired for being an alcoholic?

Can you be fired for being an alcoholic?

Good question: Can you be fired for having a disease. They answer would be no, you can't, that discrimination. Can you be fired for your behavior, absolutely. Alcoholism is a disease, yet many alcoholics have done horrific things, they have killed people while driving drunk, there are consequences for this. Having alcoholism explains a lot of bad behavior, however it does not excuse it. ...Read more

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