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L Hate My Life
I hate to become an adult l want to stay a kid it's very hard I hate to see my life changing I feel I am dieing plz help? Thanks drs
Need a re-set button: I've seen those lyrics, and dr. Friedlander also provided a link for you. The song seems doubly sad to me, because the band itself has a good musical sound! For me the lyrics are about blaming others for your misery; and hating those you think have something better. Here's a reset button: brendon burchard's book, "the charge." read & see what you think! Please let us know. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Suspect it: Is about $. Suspect that some people find the music by theory of a deadman (like the last song) to be deep & morose. As long as people pay $, this type of music will be produced. I personally see it as toxic to the mind and soul. ...Read more
Resolve...: ...to make some changes in your life. You would do best to see a therapist who could help you look at your life, help you figure out what you hate the most about your life, and help you work on a plan to make some changes. You may feel better as soon as you start talking about this with someone who can help you see that change is possible and help you can go about it. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Get help ASAP: A psychiatrist can help you sort out this grave difficulty. Please call the suicide hotline if you are considering suicide. Life is a journey and is full of challenges mostly involving making good choices even when they are difficult. Your doctor will help you develop this stategy, you will notice life usually improves when you give and do for others. Avoid drugs and alcohol and seek help ...Read more
YES: There are many studies that show that mode improves with exercise. You should exercise sensibility and not over do it. Start out slowly and build up to your comfort level. It does not matter that you may be doing less than someone else, as long as you are doing it and find joy in your chosen exercise. This joy may not come at first. Walk, bike, roller blade, swim etc, what every you enjoy doing. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Psych evaluation NOW: From your remarks, it is impossible to tell whether you have a true depressive illness (depressed mood, low self-esteem, poor judgment); or a personality disorder (self-dramatizing, histrionic behavior, poor impulse control). However, whenever someone says that he doesn't want to live, a psych assessment of suicidality is indicated - immediately. Active suicidal ideation usually means hospitaliz'n. ...Read more
I feel weird like I'm really bored and there's not really anything worth doing. I feel like I hate life. Help?
VERY SERIOUS: Please see a physician asap. Personality changes like that are not to be ignored. ...Read more
If I could leave my wife and teenage son financially safe I would end my life as I feel totally worthless and a complete failure, I hate looking me?
Go to nearest A&E: You're describing severe depression & suicidal ideation. You need to seek immediate medical attention. Do not delay. You are not totally worthless nor are you a complete failure. No one's perfect so don't compare yourself to anyone else. But I can't overemphasize: go seek emergent medical attention now. Do not wait another minute. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
You should get Help.: You had the courage to write in. There is hope. Life can be better. There is excellent treatment available. To start- you can either see your physician and candidly discussthe problem or you can see a behavioral health provider (like a psychologist or a psychiatrist). Either way you go, it is taking a first step towards healing. Recovery is one step followed by another. Take care. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
There is help: Aspergers is an autism spectrum disorder, characterized by varying levels of impairment in social interaction (ability to read social cues), social imagination, and language. However, there are tons of resources, websites, centers and others that provide invaluable help, treatment and support. There is treatment, please seek help at a local center. Www. Aane. Org & nimh aspergers page ...Read more
Get counseling: If there is something in your experience that is ruining your everyday life, you may need help to create coping mechanisms. There almost always is a way to avoid the situation that is bothersome, or to learn how to manage and control your reaction to it. Seek counseling by talking to you doctor or a clinical psychologist. ...Read more
My boyfriend shouts out that he hates himself or his life involuntarily. He can control when he does this and usually does it when alone.
Confusing?: If your boyfriend can control his behavior, then his shouting is not involuntary. However if he has a syndrome called tourette's, the shouting may be a form of a physical tic. Sometimes people can suppress thses impulses with practice which may explain his behavior. At any rate, your boyfriend should be evaluated by a psychiatrist, neurologist, or a neurodevelopmental specialist. ...Read more
I'm feeling angry and emotional all the time and im very unhappy and have been my whole life and hate everyone and everything! What's wrong with me?
Important to address: First of all, no one should live in an unhappy and/or angry state all of the time. Seeing a professional - a psychologist - is the best place to start. The professional can then best assess what is going on and which of the treatments would best address your issues. Talk therapy at the very least would be effective to offer an understanding, as well as behavior techniques. ...Read more
I'm sinking in quicksand w/ my life personally & professionally. I've rebuilt my life 3 times & don't have the mental/physical energy. I hate myself.
Iam 16 and my height is very Tall and I hate my life can anyone tell me plz how to stop hieght growth how stop harmon that grow my height plz help me?
Nothing to do: You did not mention your sex or height but assuming you are female it is unlikely that you will grow any more, Growth generally stops a year or so after the first period so if you are there try not to worry and accept your tall stature as it is. If you have not started your periods I would see a specialist ...Read more
I'm feeling sometimes that my life is boring (or routine knowing that I don't hate routine)& I don't have the excitement to do what I like....what 2do?
Depression?: These feelings can be a sign of emotional problems, such as depression. Try to get enough sleep, eat healthy foods, and get regular exercise. Joining a gym or exercise class can help. Meeting new people who share your interests can make life more exciting. Join a club, attend your church, and try new activities. If this feeling persists, talk to a trusted older friend, or your doctor. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I am working out and really watching what I eat, why am I not losing weight I just started 3 weeks ago and I been really busting my but why can't I drop weight, I been big all my life and I hate it, what am I doing wrong?
Patience: It can take time but would still look really closely at your eating habits. When you work out a lot, you will likely feel hungry as your body is burning more calories. The increase in appetite can lead to consuming more calories. Really need to ensure that you are burning more calories than you are taking in and you will lose weight: cut back on carbohydrates. Focus lean protein, fresh veggies. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I have always felt I am female in the mind but I am male an I hate my life should I remain male to not hurt others or change my sex?
Talk to therapist: You face some difficult decisions. These are best discussed with a therapist with experience in this area. Befor undergoing major surgery such as you suggest it is best to be certain and a therapist can help you with this. It is good that you are doing something to address the unhappiness in your life, these are not issues you should ignore. ...Read more