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Doctor insights on: Kidney Boyfriend Fingering

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Kidney (Definition)

The kidneys are paired organs that lie on either side of the vertebral column. Part of their critical functions include the excretion of urine and removal of nitrogenous wastes products from the blood. They regulate acid-base, electrolyte, fluid balance and blood pressure. Through hormonal signals, the kidneys control the ...Read more


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Can you get a kidney infection from your boyfriend fingering you?

Can you get a kidney infection from your boyfriend fingering you?

Possible: Excellent local hygiene and washing hand before relationship would prevent this however. ...Read more

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My boyfriend was fingering me and now I have some pains happening daily that feel like cramps. I don't know why. It was my first time?

My boyfriend was fingering me and now I have some pains happening daily that feel like cramps. I don't know why. It was my first time?

Gyn exam: See physician, Gyn or PCP-should have pelvic exam to
rule out trauma, infection, etc. Good luck-be diligent and have this checked out. ...Read more

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Why does just fingering hurt? I'm a virgin and when my boyfriend fingers me with just one finger slowly, it hurts even though im fully wet

Why does just fingering hurt? I'm a virgin and when my boyfriend fingers me with just one finger slowly, it hurts even though im fully wet

Difficult: The nervous system is very variable. There are times when you can't feel enough and times when touch is over amplified. Sexual contact is especially sensitive to mood and excitement. It helps to increase your urge to be touched by working up to it, teasing in areas around the genitals like the stomach and inside the legs. It's all about backing off and moving forward. You are willing to talk. Good. ...Read more

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Can my boyfriend pusher my iud copper deeper inside after rough fingering? I can't seem to find it am a Lil bit worried no sex just fingering

Can my boyfriend pusher my iud copper deeper inside after rough fingering? I can't seem to find it am a Lil bit worried no sex just fingering

No: The IUD is not pushed deeper in to the uterus with fingering. However, if you are not able to feel the strings then you should be checked. It is possible the IUD is still in place and the strings have just been retracted in to the cervical canal, or the IUD may have be expelled, . Rarely, the IUD may be misplaced, displaced, migrated, perforated, all these latter situations are rather uncommon. ...Read more

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My boyfriend wants to do fingering me in my vagina. Are there any disadvantages of that? Pls tel me a.S.A.P

My boyfriend wants to do fingering me in my vagina. Are there any disadvantages of that? Pls tel me a.S.A.P

Sex and Doctors: Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on your perspective, doctors are not to have any opinion on who you have sex with, how you have sex, or when you have sex. There are very strict ethical guidelines here. You get to make this decision on your own. This very common sexual activity is not of any health concern. ...Read more

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My boyfriend occasionally gets this verryyyyy tight squeezing feeling in his back where his kidneys are what could it be?

My boyfriend occasionally gets this verryyyyy tight squeezing feeling in his back where his kidneys are what could it be?

Back pain: Squeezing pain lower back can be either muscle spasm, kidney stone or pinched nerve. Passing kidney stone also associated with groin pain and sometimes blood in the urine and usually need medical attention. Muscle spasm or pinched nerve usually associated with recent injury and relief with anti inflammatory and rest. ...Read more

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My boyfriend has been fingerings me for a while and just recently he did it and there was a discomfort/pain in my vagina. Help?

My boyfriend has been fingerings me for a while and just recently he did it and there was a discomfort/pain in my vagina. Help?

Local trauma: He probably either traumatized your vaginal wall, or possibly touched or traumatized your cervix. If pain or bleeding persist, go see your OB for a pelvic exam to see what may have happened ...Read more

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My boyfriend drank a few beers last night and now is complaining of kidney pain. This always happens afterwards. What is the problem causing this pain?

My boyfriend drank a few beers last night and now is complaining of kidney pain. This always happens afterwards. What is the problem causing this pain?

Kidney pain: Kidney pain that occurs after drinking alcohol or caffeine (both mild diuretics) in a young person is suggestive of a specific condition called ureteropelvic junction (upj) obstruction. Pain occurs due to distension of the kidney's drainage system when larger amounts of urine are produced. I suggest that he have an ultrasound of his kidneys, and he may need to see an urologist. ...Read more

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My 16 yo boyfriend has kidney stones and he is in really bad pain. What is it exactly and what should he do?

My 16 yo boyfriend has kidney stones and he is in really bad pain. What is it exactly and what should he do?

See: A urologist for help with the stones. In addition, if you are truly 32 years old and your boyfriend is 16 years you should consider why you are in a relationship with someone so young. You may do real harm to him in this situation. ...Read more

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My boyfriend has kidney stones he doesn't know what kind he has if they are oxlataes or acid ones what type of foods can he eat and not eat?

My boyfriend has kidney stones he doesn't know what kind he has if they are oxlataes or acid ones what type of foods can he eat and not eat?

Water: The most important thing is to drink plenty of water and lemonade throughout the day (more than 2.5-3 liters), maintain a low salt and a balanced diet. Cutting down animal protein also can help.
Next time he passes a stone, make sure he tries to retrieve it to get it analyzed.
A 24 hour urine collection for a stone panel also may help identify some of the problems. ...Read more

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Hello Dr. I have few queries related to sex. (1)After my boyfriend did fingering, since next day morning I m feeling pain in my hips bone, f?

Hello Dr. I have few queries related to sex. (1)After my boyfriend did fingering, since next day morning I m feeling pain in my hips bone, f?

Question?: Your question was cut off, so please re-ask it and maybe a Doctor can assist you. As far as the fingering, unless you developed a serious infection that rapidly progressed to cause a pelvic inflammatory disorder causing your hip pain,,, but that would be unlikely. If the pain persists, see the Doctor to be safe and get examined and properly diagnosed for your hip pains. Best wishes. ...Read more

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My boyfriend took the medication for chlaymdia two days ago and today he touched his penis and then started fingering me. Will I end up getting it?

My boyfriend took the medication for chlaymdia two days ago and today he touched his penis and then started fingering me. Will I end up getting it?

No risk, no worry: Even without treatment, chlamydia or other STDs are almost never transmitted by fingering; this circumstance was zero risk even if he hadn't been treated. Also, anti-chlamydia antibiotics probably prevent transmission within 24 hours. Best to continue to avoid all sex until you both have finished treatment, but essentially no risk from this particular event. ...Read more

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Is there any chance of pregnancy if my boyfriend washed his hands before fingering me?

Is there any chance of pregnancy if my boyfriend washed his hands before fingering me?

Not normally: There should be no chance of fertilization unless you have an ovum and a spermatzoa meet in the distal third of your fallopian tube. If your intimacy is restricted to fondling than the chances of pregnancy are nill, however if the fondling leads to copulation you will most certainly get pregnant if the timing is right, i.e. Ovulation and romantic enviornment etc. ...Read more

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My boyfriend has kidney stone pain but when he went to the hospital they said it was nothing?

My boyfriend has kidney stone pain but when he went to the hospital they said it was nothing?

The Question is?: I am sorry but that means that there is no kidney stone seen on their exam or X-rays and that his pain is not caused by a kidney stone. ...Read more

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What dosage of amoxicillan would my boyfriend take for kidney stones and how many times a day?

What dosage of amoxicillan would my boyfriend take for kidney stones and how many times a day?

Question why: Usually antibiotics do not help kidney stones unless there is an infection with the stone. If the urine culture grew out an organism and it was sensitive to amoxicillin then it would be appropriate. Amoxicllin does not dissolve stones and some take it before a procedure to prevent an infection. If you do take it the dosage is three times a day ...Read more

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My Boyfriend is experiencing full body convulsions. He had a kidney transplant about 4 years ago. Wondering if this is a side effect?

My Boyfriend is experiencing full body convulsions. He had a kidney transplant about 4 years ago. Wondering if this is a side effect?

Kidney transplant: Are seizures a side effect of kidney transplant 4 years ago. ANS: no if he is seizing now call 911. If new onset consider kidneys stopped working, brain infections related to immunosuppression or bad high blood pressure-perhaps due to blockage of artery to transplanted kidney. Specialize in this and available for 2nd opinion now. ...Read more

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I was having sex with my boyfriend today in a way I don't lose my virginity! Then he was fingering me and we saw blood! What does that mean?

I was having sex with my boyfriend today in a way I don't lose my virginity! Then he was fingering me and we saw blood! What does that mean?

Blood=tissue damage: You only get bright red blood after you injure/tear tissue. If he was fingering you in your vagina that likely means your hymen is torn. ...Read more

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Why do I bleed after I get fingered? My boyfriend and I had sex two months ago and we had our second time a few weeks after. He pop my cherry I kow he did. But everytime we try having sex again and he was getting started to where he's only fingering me I

Why do I bleed after I get fingered? My boyfriend and I had sex two months ago and we had our second time a few weeks after. He pop my cherry I kow he did. But everytime we try having sex again and he was getting started to where he's only fingering me I

There: There are a few different possibilities here. One is that your hymen ("cherry") was only partially torn during your first two times having sex and therefore is still partially intact and bleeding when manipulated (during sex or when a finger is introduced into the vagina).
On the other hand you need to rule out an infectious cause. Bacteria, yeast, and std's can make the vaginal mucosa (inside of the vagina) very sensitive and prone to bleed.
I recommend you see your doctor for a complete medical evaluation. If you are under 18 and do not want to tell your parent, there are many free family planning clinics in every state that can address an issue such as this one.
Best of luck. ...Read more

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Would it be possible that a girl get pregnant due to fingering in her vagina by her boyfriend?

Depends: This depends on whatever else happens in the encounter. The fingering by itself will not cause pregnancy, but a finger loaded with sperm from the excited leakage of a penis might do the trick. It is a lot less likely than real intercourse, but it only takes one fertile sperm getting inside to do the job. ...Read more

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My boyfriend just got diagnosed with kidney stones, is it okay for us to have sex? If not, when is?

My boyfriend just got diagnosed with kidney stones, is it okay for us to have sex? If not, when is?

Okay: It is okay to have sex as and when your BF is ready as that will not affect the stones. If you do not wish to be pregnant, use contraception all the time, every time. ...Read more