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Is It Normal To Vaginismus
My gyne diagnose that i've vaginismus.he just advise me to use dilators.i feel not normal.i want to enjoy sex,but it looks like i wont have the chance?
Not true. Use dila: tors and be patient. This therapy may work. ...Read more
How long is a normal pee supposed to last? I have vaginismus and sometimes it's hard to go and i go a lot. I pee for 3 seconds. Is that bad?
Vaginismus: First, find the cause. A visit to your gynecologist ought to be helpful to start. If the cause is physical, he/she can recommend treatments, such as exercises, medications, or surgery (if warranted). If the cause is not physical but primarily psychological, work with a qualified sex therapist or therapist adept at sexual dysfunction may prove useful. ...Read more
Patience & info: Vaginismus requires that you communicate that information to the examining doctor prior to the exam. Additionally, you can assist the MD by using a lubricated tampon at home to help the vaginal opening get used to penetration. The well versed GYN MD has a responsibility to you to be gentle, and take the time with patience to exam you with your feedback as to what is problematic and what isn't. ...Read more
Get treated: This is common and any physician can explain the treatment to you, probably best as a couple. The key is education, desensitization and some graded exercises that are generally highly successful in solving this problem. I hope you will be able to work together on this as a couple and save your marriage. Good luck. ...Read more