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I want to know if I should have sex with my friend. He has many others at 75?

I want to know if I should have sex with my friend. He has many others at 75?

Why not: You obviously are considering it. Realizing that he is somewhat of a don juan, you will be under no illusions that you are his one and only and avoid getting upset that there are other women in his life. Make sure you use protection and empty your bladder afterwards. Good luck. ...Read more

Sexual Intercourse (Definition)

Couples often worry about having sex during pregnancy. They may be afraid that having sex could cause a miscarriage or harm the baby. It is best to talk to your doctor or nurse midwife about your specific situation to make sure you are considered at low risk for complications such a ...Read more


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Me and my fiancé have been together for 2 years and lately he would rather watch porn then have sex with me what can I do to change this?

Me and my fiancé have been together for 2 years and lately he would rather watch porn then have sex with me what can I do to change this?

Alone?, Not much.: Together as a couple? Much more. During a 1st pregnancy, it is not unusual for couples to have sexual problems. There are too many reasons to state them all - but couples-sex therapy can really help. Much is educational. Info can abate fears and myths and any 'yuck' factors. Roles are in flux and co-directing the ones you each play can be crucial for your family's happiness. Be compassionate! ...Read more

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Are you suppose to tell your boyfriend you have HPV before you have sex with him? I guess i can say my situation is a little diffrent i been dating this guy for 7 months and I have never had sex with him not because i don't want to but i became a christia

Are you suppose to tell your boyfriend you have HPV before you have sex with him? I guess i can say my situation is a little diffrent i been dating this guy for 7 months and I have never had sex with him not because i don't want to but i became a christia

Sexual health: Talking with someone about your sexual health can be difficult, but really necessary. Before you have sex with him, sit down and talk about HPV- get good info from the CDC.gov website to help answer his questions. Do use condoms (not 100% effective against HPV, but they will help prevent other STDs). My "rule" is "If you can't talk with someone about sex, you shouldn't be having it with them"! ...Read more

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My son and I are traveling so he can see friends he has not seen in a year. They assume we all will meet briefly. I think he is ashamed. What should I do?

My son and I are traveling so he can see friends he has not seen in a year. They assume we all will meet briefly. I think he is ashamed. What should I do?

Friends: I think its healthy for kids to have variety of friends given the flattening and globalization of our ever connected world today. As long as these friends are providing positive and growing environment vs. Negative one (illegal activity, bullying, etc.) then its perfectly normal. ...Read more

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I'm a female whom has just broken her back and am wanting to have sex with my partner. Am I safe to do so also how would I go about this ?

I'm a female whom has just broken her back and am wanting to have sex with my partner. Am I safe to do so also how would I go about this ?

Bak injury: It is a difficult question. Depends when you had the fracture and how bad the injury was. also if there was any neurologic deficit and if you had any surgery for the fracture. if it was a stable injury and you are symptom free ,you should fine. But the impotent issue-- do not have rough sex, be passive partner and slowly see what your comfort level is. ...Read more

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I have been diagnosed with genital herpes I am 17 years old I believe my boyfriend has given it to me but how do I know if I already had it I have been with no one else but he has no symptoms also how do we behave sexually if he has given it to me then we

I have been diagnosed with genital herpes I am 17 years old I believe my boyfriend has given it to me but how do I know if I already had it I have been with no one else but he has no symptoms also how do we behave sexually if he has given it to me then we

Herpes: The likelihood is that if you have not had sex, either intercourse or oral sex from another boy, that your boyfriend gave this to you. Once you both have it, there is no further risk to continuing sex, except that if he has had one sexually transmitted disease he may have others that have not been detected, and you should both be tested. ...Read more

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What to do if my mom got angry if I got late for an appointment we have or similar cases? she have diabetes&high hba1c(9 mg/dl)so she shouldn't angry

What to do if my mom got angry if I got late for an appointment we have or similar cases?
she have diabetes&high hba1c(9 mg/dl)so she shouldn't  angry

Diabetes : Your mother needs to see a diabetes doctor or nurse. It seems your mother doesn't understand that she can be helped to get rid of diabetes. Will take some time but well worth it. Feel free to write to me and I will help your Mother's diabetes. ...Read more

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She is my doctor I have been to her office 9 times this year. I feel as if she is becoming a friend to me tho and i don't know if she realizes this. Do i tell her how i feel? Ethically we can be frie

She is my doctor  I have been to her office 9 times this year. I feel as if she is becoming a friend to me tho and i don't know if she realizes this. Do i tell her how i feel? Ethically we can be frie

Friends: A good doctor is your friend. They are your partner in your healthcare. Your feelings represent trust developing. Your physician will know her boundaries well. This is normal when you have a good physician. ...Read more

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What do you suggest if my father has ptsd and I'm just wondering will he ever be normal again?

What do you suggest if my father has ptsd and I'm just wondering will he ever be normal again?

Good info: Start by learning about PTSD at the National Center for PTSD web page http://www.ptsd.va.gov/ If your Dad is a veteran, some good books are out there. "Thanks for your service" by David Finkel is excellent. With good treatment, your Dad has the potential for progress. Let him know you're interested and encourage him to seek expert help. It makes a difference that you care! ...Read more

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I'm sixteen and I have had sex with a twenty three year old man more than once could I be pregnant and my parents know this guy really well and I don't want my parents to find out what we did how can I tell them and keep him out of jail,at the same time?

I'm sixteen and I have had sex with a twenty three year old man more than once could I be pregnant and my parents know this guy really well and I don't want my parents to find out what we did how can I tell them and keep him out of jail,at the same time?

Need info: You need information that we cannot provide. A urine pregnancy test can be found in many dollar stores and begins to show positive by the time you miss a period (although it may be falsely negative early in pregnancy).You need to find the "age of consent" which is a legal term.In some states it is 16 and the guy would not be in legal trouble. If pg, you won't be able to hide it long. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I used to have an extremely healthy sex life but because of a serious test he's studying for he doesn't ever seem to want to, should I just be patient?

My boyfriend and I used to have an extremely healthy sex life but because of a serious test he's studying for he doesn't ever seem to want to, should I just be patient?

Be patient : If u care about him of course u need to be patient . After all if u have a serious relationship passing his test is for the benefit of both of u. ...Read more

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I'm scared i want be able to have kids now that my boyfriend has warts an i don't! he has been treated! are kids possible in our future?

I'm scared i want be able to have kids now that my boyfriend has warts an i  don't! he has been treated! are kids possible in our future?

Many do: If you get genital warts and are shedding virus during delivery, the the baby may acquire the germ and have perianal or other lesions show up in the first 2 yrs or so.As far as i know this only applies to those strains that produce the visable genital warts. Some elect to have a scheuled c-section if their visable warts are active at the time of delivery which avoids the risk. ...Read more

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My husband and i haven't had intercourse for 6 years +. He claims to not know if he can get an erection nor if he wants to. We are in our early 50's?

My husband and i haven't had intercourse for 6 years +.  He claims to not know if he can get an erection nor if he wants to.  We are in our early 50's?

? Hypogonadism: 1 in 4 men experience "hypogonadism" (male "menopause"/"menopause"/viro pause/....... In their lifetime (compared to every woman who will experience menopause). He should consider checking a testosterone panel. ...Read more

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What to do if I have some questions in regards to the statement: well he would have never gotten divorced if he treated her right!?

What to do if I have some questions in regards to the statement: well he would have never gotten divorced if he treated her right!?

Try this fact...: An older couple is more likely to divorce if the wife gets seriously ill, but not if the husband does, a new study finds. University of Michigan researchers looked at 20 years of data on 2717 marriages of couples age 50 and older. Even though more husbands fell ill during this time, there were significantly more divorces when the wife got sick. (Ref: aarp.org/bulletin) ...Read more

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Girlfriend are 2 months together, and i want to know if she has aids or hiv+. How can I know if she has aids?

Girlfriend are 2 months together, and i want to know if she has aids or hiv+. How can I know if she has aids?

GET TESTED: When in doubt get tested and have a backup plan if is the first test for repeat in 1 year. ...Read more

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What to do if I have lost my brother to christianity, I can't even have a normal conversation with him any more without losing my temper with him?

What to do if I have lost my brother to christianity, I can't even have a normal conversation with him any more without losing my temper with him?

Think about it: If life's taught me anything, it's that relationships are more important than being right. If your family is from a faith that "hates" Christianity in any form, and your brother is not actively proselytizing you, then perhaps you can find roots of religious tolerance in your own faith. If your brother's trying to shove his new faith down your throat, be candid and talk about other stuff if you can ...Read more

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If I was diagnosed with hsv1 should my boyfriend get tested too? We haven't had sex but we wanted to & now I'm afraid to even kiss him or someone else. I've never had cold sores or any symptoms Is it still OK to perform oral sex to my boyfriend? If I k

If I was diagnosed with hsv1 should my boyfriend get tested too? 
We haven't had sex but we wanted to & now I'm afraid to even kiss him or someone else.
I've never had cold sores or any symptoms
Is it still OK to perform oral sex to my boyfriend?  
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Probably safe: Just a positive blood test for HSV1, right? Without any symptoms of oral or genital herpess? If so, there is little risk to your partner. 20-50% of adults in the US have postive HSV1 tests and most part don't transmit the virus to anyone. If you ever have a possible outbreak (an otherwise unexplained oral or genital sore), don't expose your partner at that time. Otherwise don't worry about it. ...Read more

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I used to have sex with my gf, we stop for now! but i so want to have sex with her! but she says no, what to do? and how to stop myself?

I used to have sex with my gf, we stop for now! but i so want to have sex with her! but she says no, what to do? and how to stop myself?

You have to respect: her wishes. Seek couples counseling if you two have a long-term commitment. If not, seek individual therapy. ...Read more

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How should I handle depression? I'm a 15-yr-old girl struggling with depression. I have suffered from family problems such as being abused and raped. I don't have anyone to go to and talk to. I don't want to tell my friends either. I told my mother i need

How should I handle depression? I'm a 15-yr-old girl struggling with depression. I have suffered from family problems such as being abused and raped. I don't have anyone to go to and talk to. I don't want to tell my friends either. I told my mother i need

Hello. : Hello. It sounds like a lot has happened in your life. I would let your father know about how depressed you feel as well as letting him know about your cutting. You do need to talk with a professional. On line resources are not a substitute for therapy. Please let your dad know and ask for him to arrange for you to see a psychiatrist. If this doesn't work, most schools have counselors and i would ask to talk with one. If you are having thoughts about killing or hurting yourself again, it is very important that you get help right away. That is serious. Give your dad a chance to be your dad by asking for his help take care. ...Read more

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