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Doctor insights on: I Have Never Had An Orgasm How Do I Make Myself Have One

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My clitoris has no sensation. If am aroused i feel nothing at all. I never had an orgasm and I would like to experience one. Whats wrong?

My clitoris has no sensation. If am aroused i feel nothing at all. I never had an orgasm and I would like to experience one. Whats wrong?

Simple....: Change your utensil.....means your partner, you have no emotional attachment with the person you are having sex/if you are using mechanical devise. ...Read more

Orgasm (Definition)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more


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I've been sexually active for years now but I've never had an orgasm. I only have one by masterbating. Why? Is it normal? And how can I change that?

I've been sexually active for years now but I've never had an orgasm. I only have one by masterbating. Why? Is it normal? And how can I change that?

Common: According to planned parenthood statistics, as many as 1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex. And as many as 80 percent of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. In other words, there is nothing abnormal about your experience. ...Read more

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Why don't I have an orgasm during sex? My boyfriend and I have been having safe sex for about 3 years now, and I have never had an orgasm (or felt close to having one but I do get one if he fingers me). We have tried different positions, and even used som

Many : Many women do not experience orgasms. Of the women that have orgasms, most are from clitoral stimulation. The movies make it seem like partners simultaneously reach orgasm during deep thrusting. Remember that is the movies. In real life, partners often achieve orgasm at different times and women often require clitoral stimulation. What is most important is that you are able to enjoy sex; not if you have an orgasm. Lack of foreplay can be a culprit as well as lack of clitoral stimulation. ...Read more

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I'm 41 and never experienced an orgasm. What can I take or do to have one?

Time and patience: With some effort, you can learn to reach orgasm. There really isn't anything you can take to help however. One thing you could do is see a sex therapist. They can help you and your partner to figure this out if the first thing you try doesn't work. There are many good books out on this. I recommend "the multiorgasmic woman", written by my friend, rachel abrams, md. ...Read more

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Is it normal to never have an orgasm? And why can't I have one?

Be seen: Some people cannot, but most can. You need to learn to know yourself first, however. ...Read more

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Im a female having trouble with having orgasms... I've never had one before and I really want to expierence having one. what's wrong with me?

Im a female having trouble with having orgasms... I've never had one before and I really want to expierence having one. what's wrong with me?

Probably nothing: Many women have trouble learning how to experience orgasm. Many don't even recognize it when they do. Stay calm and don't feel abnormal - it's very common. You can learn more on your own if you feel comfortable exploring yourself with a mirror and lubricant. There is info online or at libraries or women's clinics and Dr's offices. Gently play w/ your fingers to find and stroke your clitoris.Best! ...Read more

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My bf was fine getting orgasms 3 mos ago, but now cannot acheieve one. He is 45. He masturbates to try but cant. It makes me feel ugly when he does it?

My bf was fine getting orgasms 3 mos ago, but now cannot acheieve one. He is 45. He masturbates to try but cant. It makes me feel ugly when he does it?

No O: The most common causes would be: medication, alcohol/substance abuse, low testosterone, depression, performance anxiety, issues in the relationship, pornography, or possibly a sleep disorder. If he is diabetic, has peripheral vascular disease, or is on high blood pressure medications this could be responsible as well. A thorough medical work-up may be in order. ...Read more

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Do girls release a chemical during sex that make them want to continue after the first orgasm or is one time usually enough?

Do girls release a chemical during sex that make them want to continue after the first orgasm or is one time usually enough?

Highly variable: The response that people have after sexual release is highly variable, and often tied to the overall level of "sex drive" this may change over time. Classic teaching is that men have a maximal drive in late teen and early 20s, whereas women's sex drive may reach a peak in the mid thirties. Each individual is unique. ...Read more

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