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I have a hard time ejaculating. What can I do to help this happen?

I have a hard time ejaculating. What can I do to help this happen?

Depends: Delayed ejaculation is defined as prolonged time to ejaculation despite desire, stimulation and normal erection. Causes include medications, medical disease causing neuropathy (diabetes) and pyschological. Treatment depends on cause but may include stopping/changing medication, treatment of medical disease or counselling. You should discuss this further with your physician/urologist. ...Read more

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I'm having a hard time lasting long in the bed, and sometimes after I ejaculate the first time I can't get it back up. Help?

I'm having a hard time lasting long in the bed, and sometimes after I ejaculate the first time I can't get it back up. Help?

Common issue: Premature ejactulation is a common issue and one where the medication some try is actually an antidepressant where it is used for the sole purpose of the side effect of delaying ejactulation, not for depression. Otherwise, kegel exercises and working with your partner on start and stop techniques before you get to climax are other options.Other issue is natural response, called refractory period. ...Read more

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Hi i want hard erection of my penis during sex. But it is soft and ejaculates in no time... ?

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i want hard erection of my penis during sex. But it is soft and ejaculates in no time...  ?

ERECTIONS: At 25 y/o there are a few rare vascular issues that can be the cause. Have a physical with a primary care doctor and be sure to bring it up to help him determine what the problem is. ...Read more

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Hi, i am a 23 years old guy who have a problem with staying hard during sex. I just lost my virginity last month, but the problem is, i cant stay hard when doing it. And i cant ejaculate at that time. At first i thought maybe because i was nervous, but in

Hi, i am a 23 years old guy who have a problem with staying hard during sex. I just lost my virginity last month, but the problem is, i cant stay hard when doing it. And i cant ejaculate at that time. At first i thought maybe because i was nervous, but in

Primary Anxiety: Your primary anxiety is based on performance. You first have a problem staying hard during sex and then you have secondary anxiety, i.e., you become anxious about becoming anxious! You project your mind (thought) into a future event that hasn't happened yet. For example, you are about to have sex and you say to yourself: "What if I can't stay hard during sex. Then you Awfulize about this event. ...Read more

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Since i began having sex with my gf, i ejaculate s3 minutes after intercourse.Im worried and nervous.Nd last time i cdnt get hard cz i was nervous.Help?

Since i began having sex with my gf, i ejaculate s3 minutes after intercourse.Im worried and nervous.Nd last time i cdnt get hard cz i was nervous.Help?

Don't worry: Fear is the enemy of sex. Intercourse is not absolutely necessary for good sex. Learn to relax and focus your attention on your 5 senses instead of ruminating about possible failure. If this doesn't work, you can see your physician about possible medications to acherectileeieve and maintain erections. ...Read more

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Sexual side effects from Effexor (venlafaxine) I'm taking Effexor (venlafaxine) for headaches and i can no longer ejaculate unless i try really hard for a long time and it's exhausting. Normally i can ejaculate within a minute now it's taking 10 or more.

Sexual side effects from Effexor (venlafaxine) I'm taking Effexor (venlafaxine) for headaches and i can no longer ejaculate unless i try really hard for a long time and it's exhausting. Normally i can ejaculate within a minute now it's taking 10 or more.

Do : Do you have a specific question? I'd probably be bothered by the symptoms you are describing, which are definitely possible from taking effexor (venlafaxine). I'd recommend going back to the physician prescribing this medication and discuss alternatives. ...Read more