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I Hate My Life So Much I Want To Die
You should get Help.: You had the courage to write in. There is hope. Life can be better.There is excellent treatment available. To start- you can either see your physician and candidly discussthe problem or you can see a behavioral health provider (like a psychologist or a psychiatrist). Either way you go, it is taking a first step towards healing. Recovery is one step followed by another. Take care. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Psych evaluation NOW: From your remarks, it is impossible to tell whether you have a true depressive illness (depressed mood, low self-esteem, poor judgment); or a personality disorder (self-dramatizing, histrionic behavior, poor impulse control). However, whenever someone says that he doesn't want to live, a psych assessment of suicidality is indicated - immediately. Active suicidal ideation usually means hospitaliz'n. ...Read more
Don't know what the : Issue is regarding school. This lists you as 45 years old- if accurate i would suggest that you either make the decision to deal head on with your dislike of school or you re-evaluate your degree of commitment to attend school. ...Read more
Its not normal to want to die this bad. I talk to myself so i don't feel lonely. I want to cut again. Im going crazy.
Get help.: I suspect that your family would be devastated if you took your own life. Please see your doctor for a medical workup. He or she may refer you to treatment by psychologist & /or psychiatrist. If you are having active thoughts about killing yourself, get seen at the nearest emergency room now. Have a friend or relative drive you or call 911 for emergency services for transport. You can call the > ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Depression: Please go to your nearest emergency room and ask for a mental health evaluation. In your present state of mind you probably think you can't be helped, this is very common when depressed, please give yourself to see yourself clearly as you will likely experience when your mood lifts. Best. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I am so depressed. I want to die! but i'm too scared to do anything, just careless. I don't know what to do?
Get help now.: Start with a medical evaluation to rule out medical causes of your symptoms. Medications are sometimes indicated. Talking therapy to include Cognitive Behavioral therapy or psychotherapy can be effective. Aim for daily exercise, 8 hours of sleep per night & good nutrition w 5 servings of veggies & 4 of fruit per day. Try tai chi, yoga, Qi Gong, progressive muscle relaxation, deep breathing > ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Stop procrastinating: Sounds like you know what your issue is...Not your age but your procrastination. (sounds like those around you recognize it as well.). ...Read more
If I lost the love of my life cuz i cheated in him ( it happens while i was breaking down and I want him back what should i do ? I want to kill myself i cant live without him i cant i donna what to do im not a cheating person im not :((((((
Below: you should see a psychologist to start. Also try to regain communication with him. ...Read more
Specialist: Get a specialty counselor that works exclusively with gambling addiciton. In the meantime: make yourself stay out of the casino and off of gamblng websites. Find something enjoyable and productive to engage your mind in to help keep you from thinking about the gambling. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
So im frustrated because I can give the best advice.to people when they need it. Like I saved my friends life tonight yet my brain shuts off when I get upset? And I say stuff I regret.
Calm discussion best: Sounds like you are human like the rest of us. That's wonderful that you listen and have the wisdom to give good advice when needed. It is true that rational thinking can be difficult while upset. It is difficult though, to engage the logical portion of your brain with Sudoku, math, or other scholarly problem-solving pursuits and remain in emotional upheaval. The converse is also true. ...Read moreSee 3 more doctor answers
I don't know the : Answer to your question. I don't know the specific reasons that you cut. Someone who feels empty inside may cut to feel "something". Someone who is hurting emotionally may cut so that the physical pain will distract them. Some cut to punish themselves. One may cut in the belief that they will let out negativity or evil. Regardless of why you use cutting to cope it is unhealthy. Please obtain. ...Read more
You learned: If you had an abusive parent who kept bringing up mistakes you made years ago, it may be very hard to get used to the idea that mistakes can be forgiven -- by you & others. Some cbt or an rx may help u recognize why you can't let go. And having made more than your share of mistakes (as i have) is how you learn. Make amends where you can, plan to be better, talk with a spiritual guide who's decent. ...Read more
Several things: If you're stressed out, obviously finding the reason for it and making sure there's no medical reason behind it (high thyroid function or sugar metabolism problems like hypoglycemia). Yoga, meditation, as well as cardio exercise are excellent ways to get control of your mind and heart and relax. Also daily commitment to deep breathing will help as well. ...Read more
Get help ASAP: A psychiatrist can help you sort out this grave difficulty. Please call the suicide hotline if you are considering suicide. Life is a journey and is full of challenges mostly involving making good choices even when they are difficult. Your doctor will help you develop this stategy, you will notice life usually improves when you give and do for others. Avoid drugs and alcohol and seek help ...Read more
How many aspirin would it take to kill you? I love my life very much, but my sister not so much. I want to manke sure I dont give her to much in a day
Your age?: We need to know your age. Please put it in your public profile. We cannot answer questions from minors. Knowing your country or state helps, too. Age, location, and gender, can affect our answer, since some conditions are more likely in different places or in different age groups. Be honest! You expect if of us, & we expect it of you! List any meds you take, & any chronic medical problems, too. ...Read more
I think i am really depressed. I cry the whole day. My head aches then whole time. I hate being with people. I hate to go to college. I hate my life?
Depression: Does your college have a counseling center? If so, make an appointment and go there. If not, find a mental health professional elsewhere to work with. See your doctor for an exam to rule out medical conditions, hormonal imbalance, etc. Think about what you don't like and set goals for something else. Life takes work but you can do it. Peace and good health. One step at at time. ...Read more
Dear Depressed: I think that it may seem that losing memory of painful times might help - avoidance and forgetting is not the answer. If you are depressed enough that you are considering self-harm then you need help. Start with a medical evaluation to rule out medical causes of your symptoms. Medications are sometimes indicated. Talking therapy to include Cognitive Behavioral therapy or psychotherapy can be ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I think my mom secretly hates me. How do I cope with this when it puts me down? I don't want to fix our relationship.
Talk to someone: I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. No one should ever have to wonder if their mother hates them. You should find an adult you can talk with and ask them for help dealing with this. Is there a teacher you could approach, or a school counselor or nurse? How about going to a planned parenthood or other clinic? There are lots of people who would love to help if you just ask. ...Read more