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I Hate My Life And I Wanna Die
I think i am really depressed. I cry the whole day. My head aches then whole time. I hate being with people. I hate to go to college. I hate my life?
Depression: Does your college have a counseling center? If so, make an appointment and go there. If not, find a mental health professional elsewhere to work with. See your doctor for an exam to rule out medical conditions, hormonal imbalance, etc. Think about what you don't like and set goals for something else. Life takes work but you can do it. Peace and good health. One step at at time. ...Read more
You should get Help.: You had the courage to write in. There is hope. Life can be better.There is excellent treatment available. To start- you can either see your physician and candidly discussthe problem or you can see a behavioral health provider (like a psychologist or a psychiatrist). Either way you go, it is taking a first step towards healing. Recovery is one step followed by another. Take care. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I live with my mom, but she doesnt really know i do drugs im 19 years of age. I just need help its messing up my social health and i wanna cry alot. ?
Visit: Glad that you are reaching out and identifying your concern. This is a vital step on your road to recovery. I would see your doctor as soon as possible. There are crisis lines in your area which can give you support groups. Please don't hesitate to consider talking to your mom so that you can get help. If worsening symptoms you can go to the hospital emergency room if you feel withdrawal symptoms. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I am 34 years old and i don't hsve baby not yet.because that i hate my life snd i hate who have babies.i want to mske IVF in october but i am affraid!
IVF: If you have already been checked by a doctor for fertility , then IVF is a good option for you. Women with top chances of IVF success have per-cycle success rates of 40% which is quite high compared to couples trying naturally to get pregnant -their fertility rates per cycle are 15-20%. I suggest some counseling as well for the health of your mind so you don't feel too overwhelmed by this. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers
Why do I every day have fear of dieing it is ruining my everyday life im constantly fear the worst I have 3 children and im scared im going to die?
This lists you as: Having an anxiety disorder. Do you have an obsessive compulsive disorder or generalized anxiety disorder? It also shows that you receive behavioral therapy but doesn't specify further ; show no medications. If you have not worked with a therapist who does cognitive behavioral therapy - that may be quite beneficial. Also consider seeing a psychiatrist for medication if therapy alone isn't working. ...Read more
I am always stressed about my future. I overthink and I get depressed. I am unhappy with my life. I don't feel like being with people anymore. help?
At your age: It is normal to feel a sense of chaos and uncertainty. One of the skills necessary to navigate this very normal phase of life is to develop the ability to be comfortable with uncertainty, sure in the one certain fact that you are on the path you are meant to be on and you will know why later. Try to take each day, each moment as important in it’s own right and do your best at whatever you are doing, even such tasks as washing a dish or cleaning a floor. Make it a point to be with others and observe that they, too feel confused and unsure. Overthinking can lead to paralysis and prevent you from doing what you need to do in the moment. If you cannot shake the depression, please see a doctor. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I had my baby almost 7 months ago and I just don't feel right. I'm often mad, angery and sad. I also feel like I hate my husband. What do I do?
That's very sad: Hi. How is your marriage? Do you and your husband love each other? Post-partum depression can present in myriad ways. But maybe your feelings are legitimate. I suggest you talk with a counselor and face what's bothering you, to see if there are feelings you're suppressing. Communication may not fix the problem, but introspection and honesty with yourself and your husband are key. Good luck. ...Read more
My bf and mom tell me I'm pretty. I don't think I am. How do I become comfortable in my own skin??
If I lost the love of my life cuz i cheated in him ( it happens while i was breaking down and I want him back what should i do ? I want to kill myself i cant live without him i cant i donna what to do im not a cheating person im not :((((((
Below: you should see a psychologist to start. Also try to regain communication with him. ...Read more
Follow treatment: Asthma can last a long time, and smoking or being around smoke will almost always make it worse. Some people are sick a lot of the time with it, others only a little. There's no total cure, but medicine can control the problems you have. Talk to your doctor about your breathing. They can decide how big a problem the asthma is and the best treatment for it. ...Read moreSee 3 more doctor answers
Hello sir, I am getting married in febuary. I lost my virginity before.How can I get it back? I m 22.If i ll not get it my fiance will leave me.Urgent
Virginity: Sorry to hear of your ordeal. Best to talk to ob/gyn for advice. ...Read more
When I was 12 I am addicted to hastmauthain. Now I am 27, I feel weak and lose of confidence. Now what can I do?
Don't know if they: are related. Masturbation is extremely common, and unless it ultimately interferes with an individual achieving successful relationships with others, is not generally harmful. A psychotherapist can get a more complete history and better picture of who you are and how you got this way, and can help you with your issues. There are some who specialize in sexual issues (paraphilias). ...Read more
So im frustrated because I can give the best advice.to people when they need it. Like I saved my friends life tonight yet my brain shuts off when I get upset? And I say stuff I regret.
Calm discussion best: Sounds like you are human like the rest of us. That's wonderful that you listen and have the wisdom to give good advice when needed. It is true that rational thinking can be difficult while upset. It is difficult though, to engage the logical portion of your brain with Sudoku, math, or other scholarly problem-solving pursuits and remain in emotional upheaval. The converse is also true. ...Read moreSee 3 more doctor answers
Very Carefully: Try and limit your conversation with your mother to "i" statements. That is, say how you feel without adding the word you and refering to your mom. It is hard to do. If you say you, your mom may become defensive and the conversation end up to be non-productive. You may say: "i feel unappreciated, " "i feel lonely, " "i feel sad, " "i feel unwanted, " your mom won't be able to disagree w/your feelings. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
With Help.: It is a big + that you are aware that this is not a normal way to think. These thoughts must cause you considerable anguish. Please see a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist for professional help. ...Read more
Ever since i been with my bf i feel sad & depressed a lot at times i want to leave him but I am scared to lose him forever. Is that bad for my health?
Yes...: Hmm. Is this healthtap or dear abby? Clearly it's bad for your mental health. Sounds like you already know what you want to do and seek "permission." healthiest thing you can do is trust your instincts. Your fears are roadblocks to happiness you've created in your mind. Doing what you need to do despite your fears is the key to personal growth. But some do need help with this (=therapy). ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I feel depressed whenever i remember how my husband left me and my kids for another woman right after i gave birth to our 2nd baby. How can I cope?
It is always hard: To recover from an unwanted divorce. Have you spoken with a therapist about what happened? Given that you had just given birth you may not have had a chance to work through your feelings about what happened. It is important for you and your children to process the divorce better. Good luck and let us know if you have other questions. ...Read more
I think I have depression and i told my mom and she's mad at me. My school doesn't have a counselor so i don't know what to do. I'm crying right now:(?
I stopped treatment because I fear that my dr and pysch hate me and think I am a bother. , I worry what they think and don't know why and want to die?
Depression: David you are very depressed you need to find a physician that you can trust as soon as possible and continue to take your medicine ...Read more
Get immediate help: No one should struggle with depression on their own. Please seek the immediate attention of a psychologist or psychiatrist. They can help you diagnose your depression and offer treatment suggestions. Do it for yourself as well as your children. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers