Top
40
Doctor insights on: How To Deal With Sex Drive Of Younger Girlfriend

Share

Libido (Definition)

Libido is more commonly thought of as sexual desire. Still more specific definitions described libido as the free creative, or psychic energy an individual has to put toward ...Read more


3

3
How do I deal with the situation in which my wife who has no sex drive due to an antidepressant she takes?

How do I deal with the situation in which my wife who has no sex drive due to an antidepressant she takes?

Talk to her: And see if she is willing to talk to her dr about it. A change of medication may help or if the current med has not been on board for at least 3 or 4 weeks, wait for that time and then seek help if needed. If the problem existed before there was any depression even successful treatment may not change that. If that is the case specific professional evaluation for low sex drive is in order. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
4

4
I have no sex drive because of my depression meds, how can I learn to live with this?

I have no sex drive because of my depression meds, how can I learn to live with this?

Talk w/ your doctor: Certain antidepressants can cause a loss of sex drive. Speak to your doctor as there may be other medication options. Some women have also found medications such as viagra (sildenafil) to be beneficial. In addition, "spice up" your sex life by trying new things: different location or environment, new positions, start with a massage, sexy lingerie, role playing, etc. Just be safe (and legal). ...Read more

See 2 more doctor answers
5

5
How can I fix my lack of sexual stamina as a male with previously high sex drive?

Low sex drive: The fix depends on the cause of your decreased stamina or sex drive. There are many causes. The best advice is to call your doctor for an examination to determine the cause and then you can have proper treatment. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
6

6
What ways to increase sex drive for a married 33 year-old woman with 2 children?

Healthy lifestyle: A low sex drive is a common complaint. Things have to be well between you and your spouse. If you are stressed out worrying about the kids or finances, your libido will be low. Sometimes he has to wine and dine you. Flowers! if you love each other and are considerate of each other, and keep your life in balance, a healthy sex life usually happens. Rarely a sexual counselor can be helpful. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
7

7
How to overcome low sex drive with 5htp?

How to overcome low sex drive with 5htp?

5htp- low sex drive: Go to your favorite National Park and Reflect on good intimate sexual experiences. Have Heart to Heart Talk with your partner about each other’s sexual desires, needs and expectations to improve • Emotional Intimacy • Physical Intimacy • Sexual Intimacy ? Discuss with Physician about Omega-3 fatty acids and Magnesium ? Seeing a Therapist for Individual and Relationship Therapy will help. ...Read more

8

8
How do older people with negligible sex drive manage their health without sex?

Same as young people: Sexual appetite varies tremendously without regard to age. Health is not sex and vice versa. Some feel perfectly healthy without sex and never have it. Witness many religious orders. Some give up sex when older, sometimes due to medical condition and sometimes for a variety of psychologic reasons. Bottom line: health is managed to optimize function. If that includes sex, great. If not, great. ...Read more

9

9
How does sex feel to a woman with guy with erectile dysfunction?

How does sex feel to a woman with guy with erectile dysfunction?

ED: If you can't get an erection sex is quite difficult...Partner clearly notices if you are not hard enough to penetrate. ...Read more

11

11
Can you get bored by having sex with same partner for 15 years, can too much sex and ejaculation weaken the penis ?

Can you get bored  by having sex with same partner for 15 years,  can too much sex and ejaculation weaken the penis ?

Too much sex?: SaMM ! I at age 33 your 15 year itch takes you back to a fortuitous 18years of age at commencement of your monogamous r'ship, so ALL augur well for your future with your partner! Contrary to what the scions of the Church may say, its impossible to have too much sex (!) as long as your partner is as eager and willing, but get creative now, and involve your partner! :-))) ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
12

12
I fantasize fat girls n my wife is skinny hence no sex drive and ed. How can a psychologist help me. As m not able to get satisfied with her sexually?

I fantasize fat girls n my wife is skinny hence no sex drive and ed. How can a psychologist help me. As m not able to get satisfied with her sexually?

Skinny vs fat: It sounds like you're making it your wife's problem [being 'skinny'] that you feel "no sex drive and ed" with her. A psychologist or sex therapist might be able to help you understand that there's more to sexual attraction than the shape or size of one's body. Was your wife heavier when you first met her? It seems you have plenty to discuss in therapy, and perhaps your relationship could grow. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
13

13
How can I deal with sexual needs as a teen girl.?

How can I deal with sexual needs as a teen girl.?

Sexuality: This article explains what's going on in your body. Find an adult that you are comfortable with, and talk to them. Like a school counselor, of course a parent is always a good choice. We've all been there. Hope this helps. http://www.newportacademy.com/teenage-hormones-and-sexuality/ ...Read more

14

14
How do you deal with flash backs of sexual assault?

How do you deal with flash backs of sexual assault?

See an expert in SA.: I'm so sorry you were assaulted. The fb's are one of the worst parts and leave most feeling out of control. You need to work with a therapist who specializes in sa who can help you learn some coping skills for this and all residuals of the assault. Some things my patients have found helpful are completely concentrate on something as a distraction, figure out what the triggers are to avoid. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
16

16
How do I deal with a partner who has anger issues?

How do I deal with a partner who has anger issues?

If the anger issues: Become physical or cause you to fear for your safety, would give yourself permission to put safety first. Leave before a situation escalates into violence. Call 911 if needed. Your partner would need to be willing to change for the situation to change. An anger management class may be helpful if he or she is amenable. ...Read more

17

17
I'm dealing with depression and my boyfriend is bi polar.How do we handle this together?

I'm dealing with depression and my boyfriend is bi polar.How do we handle this together?

Don't even try.: You need to be supportive of one another, but you are individuals with individual problems. You are not likely to be ready to improve at the same time, nor to respond at the same rate. Tying your improvement to his, or vice versa, compromises both.Each must get strong/well for the relationship to be healthy. But when the 1st one improves, the other has a better chance. Just get started on yourself. ...Read more

See 2 more doctor answers
18

18
The partner that i'm with forces me to have sex with him. His family dreamed a baby and know i'm 12weeks pregnant, i don't want it and want to termin?

The partner that i'm with forces me to have sex with him. His family dreamed a baby and know i'm 12weeks pregnant,  i don't want it and want to termin?

Who can help you?: I'm really concerned about you. If your partner forces you to have sex, it sounds like an unsafe relationship. If you have a friend or family member you can trust, talk to them. You still have the option to terminate the pregnancy, but it might affect your safety if your partner finds out. 408-683-4118 is the gilroy women's shelter. Please call and see if they can help. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
19

19
Should i seek a therapist to cope with husbands low sex drive?

Should i seek a therapist to cope with husbands low sex drive?

It all depends: Yes. If his sexual libido is bothering you and he won't discuss it, then getting into a therapeutic situation can be helpful. If he is willing to talk to someone i would hope he would seek a full medical evaluation for his troubles. Men have a difficult time admitting they struggle with libido, even when this is common and easily addressed. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
20

20
How does foreplay lead to better sex in senior men?

How does foreplay lead to better sex in senior men?

Here's some ways...: Time spent flirting, touching, caressing & kissing is time well spent. 1) longer foreplay is needed to accomplish strong & solid erection as men age. 2) penetration isn't all there is to good sex, nor is it even necessary. See how a session of non-intercourse sex works for you. 3) oral sex is a form of foreplay too! 4) adopt a fun mindset: have fun with your foreplay! fun leads to good sex. ...Read more

21

21
How to deal with sex drive of younger girlfriend?

Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis and: Enjoy it whilst you can, or quit if you can't keep up. ...Read more

23

23
If an woman married a man 14 years younger will there be a biological problem reg sex drive later to her n hw long cn both te gendrs b sexually active?

If an woman married a man 14 years younger will there be a biological problem reg sex drive later to her n hw long cn both te gendrs b sexually active?

For now, fine: Things might be fine for now, but the woman will age sooner than the man. They can certainly enjoy sex as long as both want to, as dr. Chand says. Other kinds of incompatibilities could still develop, though. Think demi moore and ashton kutcher, maybe. Not all have to go that route, but it happens. Be well. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
24

24
How can I deal with this lack of sex drive while i'm pregnant?

Libido: Its not unusual to have lack of libido during pregnancy, it usually transient. ...Read more

25

25
How do I deal with the situation in which my wife who has no sex drive due to an antidepressant she takes?

Talk to her: And see if she is willing to talk to her dr about it. A change of medication may help or if the current med has not been on board for at least 3 or 4 weeks, wait for that time and then seek help if needed. If the problem existed before there was any depression even successful treatment may not change that. If that is the case specific professional evaluation for low sex drive is in order. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
26

26
Girlfriend has 0 sex drive not on meds what tests and drugs can help?

Girlfriend has 0 sex drive not on meds what tests and drugs can help?

No meds yet: check for hormonal disorders including total testosterone and free testosterone levels and if low in testostetone she may need testosterone prescription. Check for low thyroid ...Read more

27

27
I'm wondering what pill can I use to get my girlfriends sex drive back?

I'm wondering what pill can I use to get my girlfriends sex drive back?

Searching in vain: There is no magic pill to do that - sorry - if there were - the folk who sold it would be very rich. The possible causes of her low libido are too wide ranging to guess. She might benefit from a physical exam if she doesn't feel well. Or therapy - individual and/or couples sessions might help pinpoint a problem. Be patient and brave. It may not be a quickie but if you love each other, worth it! ...Read more

29

29
What meals can I make for my girlfriend they will increase her sex drive?

What meals can I make for my girlfriend they will increase her sex drive?

Vacuuming: A german study a few years back showed men who vacuum and do housework have way more sex than men who don't help around the house. So get scrubbing! ...Read more

See 2 more doctor answers
30

30
Need advice on what i can do about a girlfriend with no sex drive at all?

Here are ...: If you really love her, you need to bring her for a comprehensive professional evaluation & counseling for possible mental & physical underlying and precipitating factors. So, go with her for such so to identify what can be corrected, adjusted, modified, and changed & to give her body to have best possible inside & outside environments for optimal self-healing leading to optimal recovery with... ...Read more

31

31
Why does my girlfriend have such a low sex drive? She's 20 & very active. And I know i'm attractive.

Why does my girlfriend have such a low sex drive? She's 20 & very active. And I know i'm attractive.

Ask her, gently: There are a lot of possible reasons a woman may not appear interested in sex. Many have to do with the relationship itself, and how she's being treated within it. Healthy relationships consider both people as equals. Each has a voice in how and when things are done. Also, hygiene and circumstance can make a big difference in both partners' desire to have sex, even with normal libido in each. ...Read more

32

32
My girlfriend and I used to do sexual things all the time now we rarely do anything sexual. What's wrong? Could it be her sex drive?

My girlfriend and I used to do sexual things all the time now we rarely do anything sexual. What's wrong? Could it be her sex drive?

Yes: Yes, it could be due to sex drive, but ask yourselves what is behind the decrease? Look into how the relationship is in general and what factors can be helped to stimulate the relationship. She could also have low thyroid or other medical problem behind. Her doctor could help her sort this out. ...Read more

33

33
I am a 34 year old male with an extremely high sexual drive and my girlfriend has a lot of issues with her back and hips and isn’t really up for sex v?

I am a 34 year old male with an extremely high sexual drive and my girlfriend has a lot of issues with her back and hips and isn’t really up for sex v?

Low sex drive?: Sexual activity in women is dependent on many factors other than hormonal urgency, and the psychological reaction to a partner is extremely important. Decreasing the demands on a partner and allowing her to dictate the pace of such activity will definitely improve your relationship, and provide confidence that you are listening to her. ...Read more

34

34
My girlfriends sex drive is non existent and has been for years, she also doesn't physically feel pleasure during sex? Its destroying us

My girlfriends sex drive is non existent and has been for years, she also doesn't physically feel pleasure during sex? Its destroying us

Depression: I understand your sadness and frustration Your health is precious! Care for your health as you are on Holtermonitor Use Breathing Relaxation, Visual Imagery, Tai Chi, Yoga, Meditation Have heart to heart talk with your girlfriend about having emotional understanding of each other’s feelings, need and expectations, physical and sexual intimacy See a Psychiatrist for stress and relationship Therapy ...Read more

35

35
I am 31, & my low sex drive is driving me & my girlfriend crazy. Can you please help & or suggest something that i can do or take to improve things?

I am 31, & my low sex drive is driving me & my girlfriend crazy. Can you please help & or suggest something that i can do or take to improve things?

Need evaluation : You should have a complete physical exam and laboratory tests including testosterone and other hormone assays. This can be accomplished by a urologist or general internist. If all tests are normal, psychiatric evaluation is in order. ...Read more

See 1 more doctor answer
37

37
Is it normal that my girlfriend's sex drive has dramatically increased during pregnancy? Shes constantly cheating with multiple guys

Is it normal that my girlfriend's sex drive has dramatically increased during pregnancy? Shes constantly cheating with multiple guys

Maybe, but: That type of promiscuity during pregnancy is certainly not safe because of the potential exposure to many sexually transmitted diseases which could certainly put the fetus at risk not to mention your relationship. Whether of not pregnancy is the cause she needs some impulse control for her own well being. ...Read more

38

38
Hello Drs. I am a healthy soon to be 58 year old. I can't have sex with my girlfriend because I think I lost my sex drive. Is this due to my age?

No. : It is not normal for sex drive to diminish much with age. The reasons could range from depression to hormonal imbalances. Best to see your doc. ...Read more

40

40
Hi, my girlfriend has a dry white clumpy discharge that looks like wet toilet paper. shes also extra dry and has no sex drive! but shes only 33. why?

Hi, my girlfriend has a dry white clumpy discharge that looks like wet toilet paper.  shes also extra dry and has no sex drive!  but shes only 33. why?

Urge an exam: She might have an infection and it needs to be Dx'd and Tx'd. It might be very simple but will not get better w/o attention and might be contagious - so you may want to be careful too. Don't worry but do have an exam. It's nice that you care! ...Read more

Sexual Drive (Definition)

Sexual drive, often referred to as libido, means sexual desire. The amount of desire that a person has on a consistent basis is referred ...Read more