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Doctor insights on: How Painful Is Losing Your Virginity

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Is losing your virginity very painful?

Is losing your virginity very painful?

Not necessarily: Pain after rupture or tearing of hymen with loss of virinity can be very variable. ...Read more

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Should losing your virginity be painful?

Not necessarily: Depends upon status of your hymen. Will not be painful if hymen is already ruptured. Might be minimally uncomfortable if hymen is flimsy ; thin. Could be painful if hymen is thick ; difficult to rupture, or hymen only has a very small opening. ...Read more

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Is there any way to make losing virginity less painful and more pleasureable?

The right man: Thanks very much for asking this question. Hopefully you live in a country where you can choose who you marry / go out with -- I can imagine few things worse than being sold to a man you do not love. My hope for you is that you'll wait until you truly know that this is the right time and this is the man you want to love you for the rest of your life. Even if it hurts some, it will be fantastic. ...Read more

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Does it hurt when the hymen breaks? What's the most painful way to lose your virginity?

Does it hurt when the hymen breaks? What's the most painful way to lose your virginity?

A little bit, maybe: The hymen isn't like the paper seal on a jar of instant coffee; it's an elastic membrane that has some capacity to bend. Different women report different experiences with first intercourse. But your first time should be wonderful, something you've waited for and planned for. The right man will put you at ease even if it is also his first time. When (if) it happens, may you remember the joy always. ...Read more

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Can intercourse still be just a bit painful after losing virginity? If so for how long as well? Want to have babies very soon but it's hard again.

Can intercourse still be just a bit painful after losing virginity? If so for how long as well? Want to have babies very soon but it's hard again.

Painful intercourse: Intercourse can often times be uncomfortable and/or downright painful at times. If wanting to have babies soon, I would assume you're in a healthy monogamous relationship. So talk with your partner openly and discuss taking things slowly, use of a lubricant or other intimacy aid. If continues then a visit with your gynecologist would certainly be in order. Good luck! ...Read more

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I just found out females have a hymen? Does it break? Is it painful? When having sex? Losing virginity? While exercising? I don't understand..

I just found out females have a hymen? Does it break? Is it painful? When having sex? Losing virginity? While exercising? I don't understand..

Many questions: The vagina starts (ends) in a thin wall of tissue that usually has a central opening 1/4-1/2 inch in diameter to allow menstrual flow. Like most tissues, it has nerve endings, and tearing it with sex or a sex toy will produce transient discomfort and bleeding. In some, the hymen never forms or is lost in non sexual events in childhood. Exercise doesn't effect it. Penetration does. ...Read more

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How to lose male virginity without sex?

How to lose male virginity without sex?

Wrong question: Definition of virginity is person who hasn't had sex. In my opinion, sex includes oral, vaginal or anal sex, but does not include masturbation. ...Read more

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What expect when u lose your virginity?

Virginity.: Don't expect it to be the way it is often portrayed in movies. If you are a female there may be some discomfort with penetration and there may be some spotting. It may be a positive experience or may be dissapointing. ...Read more

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Want to ask about man losing virginity?

Want to ask about man losing virginity?

Yours or his?: This is always a big event in the life of a woman and should not be taken lightly. The consent must be mutual, the approach gentle and sweet, and not rushed. Do you desire this or are you being pressured. There is a lot less at stake for the man to lose his virginity. If the man is a virgin, however, there is a risk that he might be embarrased about awkwardness. ...Read more

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What happens when you lose your virginity?

What happens when you lose your virginity?

No longer a virgin: Nothing happens to a male unles he contracts an std. Hymen usually tears in women when they lose their virginity and some bleeding may or may not occur. Nothing may happen if hymen is underdeveloped or already torn from tampon use or bicycle or horseback riding. ...Read more

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What to expect when you lose your virginity?

What not to expect: How about what not to expect. Don't expect it to be like what you read about in romance novels or as portrayed in movies. ...Read more

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How can u tell if a male loses his virginity?

How can u tell if a male loses his virginity?

Ask him!: Just like in women, the only way to tell if someone is a virgin is to ask. There is no other telltale sign upon physical examination to determine whether virgin or not. And if you want to play semantics, you can get specific as to virginity w/regards to oral sex vs vaginal vs anal vs? ...Read more

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How to break virginity in a less painful way?

Anesthetic gel: Liberal application of nesthetic jelly such as 2% xylocaine (lidocaine) jelly or lmx 4% cream applied 30 minutes ahead of time can virtually remove any pain ahead of time. ...Read more

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What happens to a man when he loses virginity?

Virginity: Nothing really - he has just had sex for the first time. What could happen if he was not careful is that he may get HIV or std. ...Read more

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How to be less scared about losing my virginity?

How to be less scared about losing my virginity?

Become knowledgeable: About sexuality, pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Make sure that you are emotionally ready to have sex (i.e. Don't rush into it). Use proper protection if you are not ready to become pregnant. ...Read more

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Can a medical test cause you to lose your virginity?

Medical tests: Don't cause loss of virginity. However, there could be some tearing of the hymen with some medical procedures. ...Read more

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When is the right time for a guy to lose his virginity?

U ; Partner R ready: Right age is debatable, but probably from age 18 ; when both you ; partner feel you are ready. ...Read more

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How should I know if my boyfriend loses his virginity?

How should I know if my boyfriend loses his virginity?

Ask him: If you have a trust based relationship he may tell you the truth ...Read more

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What happens after you lose your virginity to your body?

What happens after you lose your virginity to your body?

Nothing: Other than bleeding (immediately with penetration) from possibly breaking the hymen, nothing dramatically changes on you body. ...Read more

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Is true that when you lose our virginity your body changes?

There may be: Some tearing of the hymen but there aren't really any major changes that happen to the male or the female body related to having had an episode of vaginal intercourse. If the female becomes pregnant - there would be many bodily changes. ...Read more

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What can I do to help my girlfriend when losing our virginity?

What can I do to help my girlfriend when losing our virginity?

Don't know age: Of you or your girlfriend. However, I would ensure that you are both mature enough to take on this major responsibility. This means protection against std's and undesired pregnancies. It also means that both of you should fully educate yourself about sex, std's, pregnancy etc. It is important that neither of you pressure the other to have vaginal intercourse. ...Read more

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Tips for losing virginity? We're both 16 I'm a virgin he isn't how much will it hurt?

Well, it would be: Irresponsible for me as a physician not to advise you that I believe that you are both too young to take on this responsibility. Having sex means that you are responsible to ensure that there are no unintended pregnancies and that std's are not transmitted. Loss of virginity can sometimes be painful for a female but the amount of pain is variable. ...Read more

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Which age is the best for losing virginity and is the absence of regular sex then bad for health?

Which age is the best for losing virginity and is the absence of regular sex then bad for health?

No age limit.: For losing your virginity. Absence of regular sex or celibacy is not bad for health. Benefits of celibacy includes protection from hpv which can lead to cervical cancer,
reduce risk of other stds such as herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, genital warts
reduce risk of unwanted pregnancy
reduce risk of marrying someone solely because of an unwanted pregnancy. ...Read more

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How do you prepare to lose your virginity? We're both 16 I'm a virgin he isn't how bad does it hurt?

If a female feels: Pain, the amount of pain is variable. Isn't 16 young to give away something as valuable as your virginity? What I would say to prepare a couple to have sexual intercourse for the 1st time is that they are responsible not to have an undesired pregnancy. They are responsible also to ensure that they don't transmit std's. They are also responsible to educate themselves about sexuality before hand. ...Read more