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Dr. Heidi Fowler
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Is there any way to make losing virginity less painful and more pleasureable?

Is there any way to make losing virginity less painful and more pleasureable?

The right man: Thanks very much for asking this question. Hopefully you live in a country where you can choose who you marry / go out with -- i can imagine few things worse than being sold to a man you do not love. My hope for you is that you'll wait until you truly know that this is the right time and this is the man you want to love you for the rest of your life. Even if it hurts some, it will be fantastic. ...Read more

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Is losing your virginity very painful?

Is losing your virginity very painful?

Not necessarily: Pain after rupture or tearing of hymen with loss of virinity can be very variable. ...Read more

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Should losing your virginity be painful?

Should losing your virginity be painful?

Not necessarily: Depends upon status of your hymen. Will not be painful if hymen is already ruptured. Might be minimally uncomfortable if hymen is flimsy ; thin. Could be painful if hymen is thick ; difficult to rupture, or hymen only has a very small opening. ...Read more

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Does it hurt when the hymen breaks? What's the most painful way to lose your virginity?

Does it hurt when the hymen breaks? What's the most painful way to lose your virginity?

A little bit, maybe: The hymen isn't like the paper seal on a jar of instant coffee; it's an elastic membrane that has some capacity to bend. Different women report different experiences with first intercourse. But your first time should be wonderful, something you've waited for and planned for. The right man will put you at ease even if it is also his first time. When (if) it happens, may you remember the joy always. ...Read more

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Dr. Eric Stout
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Can intercourse still be just a bit painful after losing virginity? If so for how long as well? Want to have babies very soon but it's hard again.

Can intercourse still be just a bit painful after losing virginity? If so for how long as well? Want to have babies very soon but it's hard again.

Painful intercourse : Intercourse can often times be uncomfortable and/or downright painful at times. If wanting to have babies soon, I would assume you're in a healthy monogamous relationship. So talk with your partner openly and discuss taking things slowly, use of a lubricant or other intimacy aid. If continues then a visit with your gynecologist would certainly be in order. Good luck! ...Read more

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Dr. Jovita Anyanwu
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How should I know if my boyfriend loses his virginity ?

How should I know if my boyfriend loses his virginity ?

Ask him: If you have a trust based relationship he may tell you the truth ...Read more

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Dr. Heidi Fowler
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Is true that when you lose our virginity your body changes?

Is true that when you lose our virginity your body changes?

There may be: Some tearing of the hymen but there aren't really any major changes that happen to the male or the female body related to having had an episode of vaginal intercourse. If the female becomes pregnant - there would be many bodily changes. ...Read more

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Dr. George Klauber
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How to lose male virginity without sex?

How to lose male virginity without sex?

Wrong question: Definition of virginity is person who hasn't had sex. In my opinion, sex includes oral, vaginal or anal sex, but does not include masturbation. ...Read more

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Dr. Heidi Fowler
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How to be less scared about losing my virginity?

How to be less scared about losing my virginity?

Become knowledgeable: About sexuality, pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Make sure that you are emotionally ready to have sex (i.e. Don't rush into it). Use proper protection if you are not ready to become pregnant. ...Read more

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