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How long does it take to get oral sex orgasm?

How long does it take to get oral sex orgasm?

Seconds to never: That depends on the individual. There is a wide variety of normal time to ograsm from a few seconds to never. Men are usually quicker than women, but not always. Some people never achieve ograsm through oral sex. ...Read more

Orgasm (Definition)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more


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I'm female, I get pleasure from sex and oral sex but I can't have a orgasm. What's wrong with me? I can only have one by masturbation

I'm female, I get pleasure from sex and oral sex but I can't have a orgasm. What's wrong with me? I can only have one by masturbation

Female Sexuality: You are not alone. Many women find that sexual intercourse does not lead to orgasm for them. They have to learn how to stimulate the clitoris during sexual intercourse or teach their partners to do this. Partners want you to orgasm! . I often advise my patients to read a good sex manual. The most common one I recommend is "the joy of sex". ...Read more

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My wife don't reach orgasm through penetration. She only reach orgasm through oral sex and manual stimulation.?

My wife don't reach orgasm through penetration. She only reach orgasm through oral sex and manual stimulation.?

That's not uncommon: Assuming you are wanting both to happen at the same time you could try: her on top- she should be able to find the right stimulation. Start oral and near climax switch up. Place hand or fingers in a position near her clitorus while inside her. But make sure she is not having pain with the penetration- this will prevent orgasm, as will fear of pregnancy. ...Read more

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I don't have orgasm while my partner performs oral sex on me. How to overcome of this? Or what could be the reason of it?

I don't have orgasm while my partner performs oral sex on me. How to overcome of this? Or what could be the reason of it?

Relax: Relax. If you are too stressed, it will be difficult. Tell him exactly how you like it in a kind, encouraging way. Think sexy thoughts. Help yourself a little on your breasts, nipples, clitoris, or anyplace else that makes you feel sexy. Have him insert a finger or two. Teach him how to massage your g-spot. Don't put too much pressure on yourself or him. As you learn to enjoy each other, it will c. ...Read more

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How can I know when I'm reaching orgasm? I feel I can't achieve orgasm. I am virgin and we have oral sex. Is there any way for me to have ejaculation?

Difficult to answer: It it difficult to answer the first part of your question. Most women know when they have one. But be patient. As you mature and become more experienced, it usually gets better. Remember this, it's a whole lot easier for a guy to achieve orgasm, so don't think you are abnormal. As far as female ejaculation, most do not experience it. ...Read more

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When I masterbate I can orgasm easily but during normal and oral sex I can't bring myself to orgasm. Is this normal?

When I masterbate I can orgasm easily but during normal and oral sex I can't bring myself to orgasm. Is this normal?

Not abnormal: Communication is key to having satisfying relations with your partner. You can let your partner know what you find enjoyable and what would help you to attain orgasm, you should be able to attain orgasm with the necessary stimulation. Reading a resource such as "Masters and Johnson - The Joys of Sex", with your partner, would very likely hep you overcome this problem. Good luck. ...Read more

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I haven't felt any sexual pleasure for years much less a orgasm no matter what I do, change or try nothing helps not even oral sex....What is wrong?

I haven't felt any sexual pleasure for years much less a orgasm no matter what I do, change or try nothing helps not even oral sex....What is wrong?

Same as before: Who knows, but maybe a good sex therapist and/or a good psychotherapist and/or a couples therapist might find a solution. The other symptoms you note suggest the possibility that a neurologist might also help with diagnosing your problem. Good luck! ...Read more

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Can the strain from oral sex when you have an orgasm cause a hernia?

Can the strain from oral sex when you have an orgasm cause a hernia?

Possibly: Technically, any sort of straining which increases the pressure of the abdominal cavity can cause a hernia. The usual mechanism is lifting something heavy, but the mechanism you proposed is possible. Hernias occur more easily in males (because the leftover tunnel from development is larger), but they can happen to females too. If you think you may have a hernia, visit your doctor. Hope this helps! ...Read more

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I rarely orgasm during intercourse n only when having oral sex during foreplay I achieve orgasm. What should I do to have orgasm while intercourse.

I rarely orgasm during intercourse n only when having oral sex during foreplay I achieve orgasm. What should I do to have orgasm while intercourse.

Female anatomy: This is a common complaint from women. Many times penile intercourse in the vagina will not stimulate the clitoris well enough to achieve orgasm. Many women have to learn to manipulate the clitoris or teach their partners to do so during intercourse so that orgasm is achieved. ...Read more

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Is there anything you can do when you don't feel any sexual pleasure or arousal or reach a orgasm for years? Not even oral sex works! I feel nothing!

Is there anything you can do when you don't feel any sexual pleasure or arousal or reach a orgasm for years? Not even oral sex works! I feel nothing!

???: Who knows, but maybe a good sex therapist and/or a good psychotherapist and/or a couples therapist might find a solution. The other symptoms you note suggest the possibility that a neurologist might also help with diagnosing your problem. Good luck! ...Read more

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Can I have penetrating sex and/or oral sex with a cervix cerclage? And if I do not orgasm during penetrating sex, is it safer than oral sex when I do?

Can I have penetrating sex and/or oral sex with a cervix cerclage? And if I do not orgasm during penetrating sex, is it safer than oral sex when I do?

Cerclage stitch: A cerclage is often done with a type of suture called Prolene. It is very sharp like chicken wire. I think your partner would find vaginal penetration very unpleasant. Typically there are no restrictions regarding other sexual activity in patients with a cerclage. You will have to get clearance from your doctor if their are unique circumstances regarding your specific pregnancy. ...Read more

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Help! Is it possible to have an orgasm or receive oral sex while recovering from cryosurgery on your cervix?

Help! Is it possible to have an orgasm or receive oral sex while recovering from cryosurgery on your cervix?

Yes. Not related.: Cryosurgery is treatment of the cervix for abnormal cells. If you are receiving oral sex, that should not interfere with your healing cervix. It is advised not to have vaginal penetration for 2 to 4 weeks after cryosurgery do not irritate the cervix. Cryosurgery will also not affect your ability to have an orgasm. An orgasm will not affect your surgery or recovery. Keep your follow up Pap tests. ...Read more

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Hi, I can masterbate all day, and reguglar ejeculate, but with a female they can play with me oral sex and orgasm there is no feeling no pleasure from?

Hi, I can masterbate all day, and reguglar ejeculate, but with a female they can play with me oral sex and orgasm there is no feeling no pleasure from?

R/O OVERSTIMULATION: Overstimulation with excessive masturbation may inhibit your ability to engage in intercourse. Try reducing the amount of masturbation and developing more intimacy with your partner. If Things do not improve seek prompt evaluation lab work and exam ...Read more

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Recently- Only when receiving oral sex my heart races madly before/during orgasm. Tests in 2014 showed mild M & T Valves regurgitation. I'm worried.?

Recently- Only when receiving oral sex my heart races madly before/during orgasm. Tests in 2014 showed mild M & T Valves regurgitation. I'm worried.?

Here are some...: To live well, one has to adopt & adapt whatever life might have brought to us in witnessing: Life is not just a one-way street of accumulation, modification... but a constantly changing, adjusting dynamic process of struggle to cope with reality, certainty, & uncertainty, although everyone likes to keep sex enjoyment lasting forever. More? Consult your Doc with common sense. ...Read more

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Got oral from a lady with hsv2 had protect sex She orgasm fluids around my protect penis Should I b worried of getting a std? What odd of oral Sex std

Got oral from a lady with hsv2 had protect sex She orgasm fluids around my protect penis Should I b worried of getting a std? What odd of oral Sex std

Low STD risk: Oral sex can be considered safe sex: not risk free, but much safer than unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Low risk for all STDs and virtually zero risk for others. There is no significant risk for HSV2 in this situation, even with genital fluids around penis. ("Orgasm fluid" in women is a squirt of urine, and urine doesn't transmit STDs.) No worry and no need for testing after this exposure. ...Read more

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When receiving oral sex my penis head feels almost uncomfortable. I am able to climax, but takes very long. Is this a symptom of over sensitivity?

When receiving oral sex my penis head feels almost uncomfortable. I am able to climax, but takes very long. Is this a symptom of over sensitivity?

Misinformed: Over sensitivity would lead to quicker orgasm. This all sounds like a technique problem and not a medical condition. If you can reach orgasm easily through other sexual activity there is no medical or health condition here. ...Read more

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What to do if I get tired during intercourse and can only climax with oral sex or stroking (male)?

What to do if I get tired during intercourse and can only climax with oral sex or stroking (male)?

Not unusual!: Men get more stimulation from these forms of sex and may prefer them. Nonetheless, if you cannot have intercourse orgasms, some issues, including medications you are on may interfere! Check with your pcp! ...Read more

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I experience multiple orgasms during sex and I become too wet... I get the feeling that its why my husband takes long to ejaculate because its too wet?

I experience multiple orgasms during sex and I become too wet... I get the feeling that its why my husband takes long to ejaculate because its too wet?

Within the norm. ..: What you reported could fall into the norm of a couple's sex life. But without further details on the specifics, relevance, & sequence of events of all your concerns, it is hard to give specific advice although what you experienced could be just normally expected. As to his "slow" ejaculation, he needs to be evaluated... More? To articles in http://formefirst. Com/onSexLife-ED-CareOptions. Html. ...Read more

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Do males prefer to climax more through oral sex than women?

Do males prefer to climax more through oral sex than women?

Variable: Preferences abound and I suspect it is equally distributed for each method among the population. I am sure some men don't like oral giving or receiving. ...Read more

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How likely is HIV infection from giving oral sex without climax to a unknown male while having food burn on top of mouth.

How likely is HIV infection from giving oral sex without climax to a unknown male while having food burn on top of mouth.

Not much: Any disruption of the normal integrity of the skin or mucous membranes (like in the mouth) can provide an entry for the virus. The virus can be transmitted in the semen. Even without climax, there can be small amounts of secretions that can leak out. But how likely will you get it? Can't say for sure but it's probably a low risk. Best to know the HIV status of your partner. Have him checked for HIV ...Read more

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How do I retrain my brain to have an orgasm during sex rather than pillow humping and how long does it take?

How do I retrain my brain to have an orgasm during sex rather than pillow humping and how long does it take?

Difficult to say: Orgasms are complicated things! Some people can only have them from one particular type of stimulation; others can have them from a variety of stim. Spend time with your partner doing sensual touch, foreplay, and figure out what works for you. Not all women can easily have an orgasm from vaginal sex- many need clitoral stim also. ...Read more

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How long should it take me to orgasm through sex?

How long should it take me to orgasm through sex?

There is no answer.: Orgasm varies SO MUCH from person to person. So much of our personal life affects how much we can relax and enjoy sex. Each person responds to differently. ...Read more

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Not waking up w/ erections anymore. No problems masturbating (mult * daily) nor having sex (tho achieving orgasm takes longer, esp in the AM). Normal?

Not waking up w/ erections anymore. No problems masturbating (mult * daily) nor having sex (tho achieving orgasm takes longer, esp in the AM). Normal?

Normal: You are achieving orgasms by masturbating & with intercourse. So there is nothing wrong with either our anatomy or physiology. Your body, at age 44 years, is maturing & has decided that you are likely having sufficient erections during your other "activities" that morning erections are a thing of the past. Unless UR prepared to stop both masturbating or intercourse 2C if morning erections return. ...Read more

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How long does it take to orgasm from manual stimulation of the clitoris alone?

How long does it take to orgasm from manual stimulation of the clitoris alone?

Sex: Unfortunately one does not go to the doctor to learn how to have sex. There are some significant ethical barriers here. But, there are good sex guides and other resources to find. I often recommend to females connecting with this group to learn about their bodies: <a href="http://www. Ourbodiesourselves. Org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www. Ourbodiesourselves. Org</a>. Or a good sex guide. ...Read more

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About how long does it take a normal and healthy male around the age of 18 to reach orgasm?

About how long does it take a normal and healthy male around the age of 18 to reach orgasm?

It depends: By masturbation, usually a few minutes unless you have had a recent ejaculation. It takes more time for men to have a second orgasm after an orgasm. From intercourse, it could take a few seconds (premature ejaculation) to not being able to have an ejaculation, especially if you have never had sex. First time sexual experiences don;t always work out very well. With practice, it usually gets better. ...Read more