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How can I make my first time less painful? Stretch it myself?

How can I make my first time less painful? Stretch it myself?

First time for what?: What are you referring to? Please ask your question again and clarify. ...Read more

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First time tampon user. Should I stretch it?

First time tampon user. Should I stretch it?

No.: It’s a good idea to use the smallest size tampon when you are learning how for the first time. It is also easier to insert it when your period is moderate to heavy as this allows the tampon to glide in more easily.
If the tampon is inserted correctly, you should not feel it. If you feel uncomfortable in any way, you may have inserted it incorrectly or not in enough. Never force it in! ...Read more

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What can I do so my boyfriend & I make anal sex less painful my first time?

What can I do so my boyfriend & I make anal sex less painful my first time?

You: Are 49 yo and have never had anal sex. Why start it now? Risks are infection, irritation, and damage to the sphincter muscles. None of this is worth the risk. I suggest you avoid asal sex. If you must use a lot of water soluble lubricant and go slowly and don't be afraid to say it hurts too much and stop! ...Read more

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Does doing kegel exercises make the sex less painful, the first time after having a baby?

Does doing kegel exercises make the sex less painful, the first time after having a baby?

Kegels: Kegels will help tighten the pelvic muscles. Sex should not be painful after 6 weeks post delivery and kegels may make sex better for you. ...Read more

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Is it painful to have sexual intercourse for the first time?

Is it painful to have sexual intercourse for the first time?

Typically yes: Usually if a woman's hymen is intact, the tearing during 1st intercourse can be painful. In addition, the anxiety that she may have during her 1st time may cause her to tense her vaginal muscles which may make it more uncomfortable too.
Key is: right partner, patient partner, woman controls the pace of things.

Good luck. ...Read more

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2wks ago over stretched and fell, major pain right side under rib goes to back. Whole right side swollen and hard …painful all the time. Go see a dr?

2wks ago over stretched and fell, major pain right side under rib goes to back. Whole right side swollen and hard …painful all the time. Go see a dr?

Not a bad idea: If after 2 weeks pain is still quite severe and especially if the pain increases upon inspirations and prevents you from catching a nice full breath then, you'll want to know whether or not there was a rib fracture. For that you'll need an X-ray. If you'd like to discuss anything on a private consultation feel free to make an appointment with me by using Key Code: PDXFNR ...Read more

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Hi, I'm very concerned. I'm only 13 and I tried a tampon for the first time, now it's stuck imbetween this flab of skin that had a hold in it. Painful?

Not unexpected: Tampons are smaller at insertion than they will be after absorbing blood. If you are a virginal teen, there may have been enough space to let you put it in but now the opening is too small to let it out. You need to let your mom know & discuss your options. It needs to come out before you get an infection. You might be able to extract it with less pain after applying xylocaine (lidocaine) ointment. Or see doc ...Read more

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Is it normal to have ainful urination and spotting after first time sex?

Is it normal to have ainful urination and spotting after first time sex?

No, not normal: To have painful urination. You could have bladder infection, for which you might need to take antibiotics. Spotting might be normal if hymen was intact. See your doctor for specific advice. ...Read more

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Will it be painful to have sex for the first time after childbirth?

Will it be painful to have sex for the first time after childbirth?

Possibly: After childbirth estrogen levels drop which can cause a decrease in vaginal lubrication. Add to this any stitches or tears that might have occurred during delivery and it can be uncomfortable for some women to have sex. Waiting 6 weeks after delivery, using lubricant and going slow the first few times after delivery is the best way to make sure that it is pleasurable for you too. ...Read more

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Does first time sex is painful for a girl, I mean when the hymen is broken.

It's possible: It is possible for there to be some pain when a woman has intercourse for the first time. This can be caused by several issues- not enough lubrication, tightness of the vagina, and the breaking of the hymen. The best way to decrease this is to be very gentle and take time for the woman to relax and feel ready for intercourse. Make sure that she is really willing and don't rush anything. ...Read more

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Hi, ive woken up to my finger being swollen and its very painful and hard to bend. Its the first time this has happened. What do I do?

Not certain what: Caused it but it may be traumatized by pressure while you were sleeping, or you may have some joint problems that require more in depth analysis and examination as well as diagnosis. Please see a healthcare provider if it persists beyond today. Thanks for trusting in HealthTap. ...Read more

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On daysee for 3 months first time on bc spotting/craping after sex sometimes n don't get as wet as I used too, find hard sex painful, will this stop?

On daysee for 3 months first time on bc spotting/craping after sex sometimes n don't get as wet as I used too, find hard sex painful, will this stop?

Other options: Breakthrough bleeding is common on birth control pills Vaginal dryness can be addressed with lubricant. Intercourse pain is a very complex topic and should be addressed one on one. If you are not happy with birth control pills there are many other options ...Read more

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Yesterday was my first time being sexual active. It was painful the entire time. Then mid session I started bleeding super heavy. What happened to me?

Yesterday was my first time being sexual active. It was painful the entire time. Then mid session I started bleeding super heavy. What happened to me?

Hymen rupture: Your hymen was penetrated, thus ending your virginity. The bleeding is normal. And spend time communicating what feel good and pleasurable to your sexual partner: always use condoms PLUS spermicidal foam, jelly, or vaginal inserts to prevent pregnancy. You should consult your GYN for a PAP smear and BC pills. ...Read more

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Yesterday I had sex for the second time, the first time being 3 years ago. It was rough and painful But until today ive had some light vaginal bleedin?

Yesterday I had sex for the second time, the first time being 3 years ago. It was rough and painful But until today ive had some light vaginal bleedin?

You may have trauma: The bleeding may represent an injury either to you vagina or residual hymen. The extent of such trauma may be quite significant at times. Evaluation by your Gyn doctor is advisable to see if you need any special treatment. ...Read more

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I heard doing sex for the first time is painful because of hymen. Can the hymen be broken before I have sex?

Hymen: You may or may not experience much pain. But if you are concerned then yes the hymen can be excised beforehand - make sure it is done under sterile conditions so you not get an infection. ...Read more

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44 year old, always 25-27days cycle, last month for the first time I had a very painful 30 days cycle, and this month, I'm late 10 days already?

Get exam: Something is obviously changing in your body. The recent onset of pain, in addition to the irregularity, is particularly disturbing. See a doctor withinn the next few weeks ...Read more

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Why is it that for my first time having sex that my hymen didn't break but it was very painful when my partner tried opening me up?

First Time Sex: Sex for the first time is seldom comfortable, even when the hymen is torn. The majority of women feel that the first few times having sex are more uncomfortable than not.
The hymen can vary in how thin it is. This creates a tight area just inside your vagina that will cause alot of pain with sex. You might consider having an exam to determine if a surgical procedure needs to be done to help. ...Read more

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Trying to have sex for the first time but its just so painful for me so I make him stop. Is my hymen too small? Any ways to make it go in easier?

Trying to have sex for the first time but its just so painful for me so I make him stop. Is my hymen too small? Any ways to make it go in easier?

Patience & lube: A waetr soluble lube such as k-y and patience with insertion by your partner are helpful. Try lubricating a tampon in different sizes and inserting them yourself to "stretch" the vaginal opening. If all else fails, see a gyn md for an exam. ...Read more

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It is very difficult to do sex with my girl friend because she is vergine and its very tight to enter and painful. So how I can do it. Its first time?

It is very difficult to do sex with my girl friend because she is vergine and its very tight to enter and painful. So how I can do it. Its first time?

Patience: First. Be sure both of you want to do this. Talk about it and talk during it. Spend time kissing and with foreplay. Enter her vagina with your fingers first making more room for your penis. You may want to try a lubricating jelly like ky-jelly; although her natural lubrication is a good sign. Go slow and get her feedback. There may be some discomfort, give her permission to stop any time. ...Read more

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What's going on and should I be concerned with a menstraul cycle lasting longer than two weeks, very heavy, lots of painful cramping? First time ever.

What's going on and should I be concerned with a menstraul cycle lasting longer than two weeks, very heavy, lots of painful cramping? First time ever.

Call your doctor: While your symptoms may not mean anything serious, you definitely need to call your gynecologist to explain what you are experiencing. ...Read more

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Couple of weeks now I have a pimple on my Buttock's hole. The first time when it appears it was painful but now there is absolutely no pain. Its stiff?

Scratch healed: A painful pimple /small boil may be due to mild infection after little scratch during cleaning the anal area, . As it has sealed on its own, thus there is no pain. If it reoccurs then consult your doctor ...Read more

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I just shaves around my anus for the first time, since then, multiple painful puss filled bumps appeared. I have protected sex, but could it be herpes?

I just shaves around my anus for the first time, since then, multiple painful puss filled bumps appeared. I have protected sex, but could it be herpes?

See doctor ASAP: It would be helpful to know more. If the bumps arec exactly where you shaved and nowhere else, and started within a day or two, it's probably a superficial infection related to shaving. If they started 2-5 days after sex, and if the sex included contact with your anal area, herpes may be quite likely. Best to be examined ASAP; if herpes, diagnostic tests are most accurate within 1-2 d of onset. ...Read more

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Period is normally painful for the first 2 days. This was painful entire time and still cramping 3 days after what could it be?

Several things: This could be an ovarian cyst which is common and often occurs in the last half of the cycle before the onset of bleeding and sometimes ruptures causing more discomfort. These may also take a week or so to resolve. This could also be urinary tract infection, endometriosis or unrelated such as gastrointestinal problem. See your doctor if the symptoms persist. ...Read more