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How can I get my dependent husband to engage in the activities he likes again?

How can I get my dependent husband to engage in the activities he likes again?

Invite his friends: Invite his close friends home so they can invite him to participate in activities (depending upon his disabilities) either outside home (sports) if he is able to get out , or at home like playing cards, scrabble, monopoly or the like. I do not know specifically what he likes to do but fine him fiends that can encourage him to pursue those activities or hobbies. ...Read more

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My husband doesn't have sex with me due to his backpain but he loves me a lot is it possible to live without sex through out life with same love

My husband doesn't have sex with me due to his backpain but he loves me a lot is it possible to live without sex through out life with same love

Time for creativity: Has your husband been fully evaluated? I cannot tell whther he has a problem with erections or a problem with pain. Remember that vaginal penetration is not the only way to have a satisfying sex life. A good sex therapist may be able to help you figure out how to be intimate in the face of physical challenges. A good sex life is not a "frill, " but love and intimacy are the most important parts! ...Read more

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What can I do to move on if my ex girlfriend is in love with another guy?

What can I do to move on if my ex girlfriend is in love with another guy?

Can be rough: She is an ex gf & thuis love relationship is over. Try to get over it & meet other women. Counselling may help if you feel stuck in a rut. ...Read more

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My elderly father has loads of warts on his back too many for our g.p. to freeze, he is to embarrassed to swim on hols, how can he get them removed?

My elderly father has loads of warts on his back too many for our g.p. to freeze, he is to embarrassed to swim on hols, how can he get them removed?

Not warts: Seborrheic keratoses. A dermatologist can clear these. More important, he needs to understand that they are benign and tax-free. Your GP has no business fooling with this and should refer to a skin specialist. ...Read more

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I love my husband but our sex is too short to my satisfaction what can I do to help him keep the roll going he is sexy but can't last to satisfy me

I love my husband but our sex is too short to my satisfaction what can I do to help him keep the roll going he is sexy but can't last to satisfy me

Based : Based on your post it sounds like your husband is dealing with premature ejaculation. The most common cause for the problem usually has to do with psychological factors. Is he dealing with a life crisis, stress , depression, anxiety, sexual repression, issues with intimacy? If so, these things need to be addressed and dealt with. The help of a mental health professional would be ideal. Another issue that can contribute is substance abuse (alcohol, or other drugs). Maybe you should talk to your husband openly and honestly about this issue, you may be surprised as to why he thinks this happens. Hopefully together you can figure it out, and get him help if it's needed. Also there are many sex experts that may be of service. You both should decide as a couple how you will work to resolve this problem and what avenues you are willing to explore. Good luck. ...Read more

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Me and my wife gong to Schlitterbahn water park this Wednesday she may have her period and she hate to swim is it if she swims while in it ?

Me and my wife gong to Schlitterbahn water park this Wednesday she may have her period and she hate to swim is it if she swims while in it ?

Ounce of prevention: Most women do not prefer to be in a pool of water during menstruation for a number of reasons. If she is not bothered by that concern the use of a tampon prior to the period should be the "ounce of prevention" to avoid "surprises" while enjoying Schlitterbahn. ...Read more

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My girlfriend and i both have ADHD how do I learn to show her that i love her in a way she truly gets?

My girlfriend and i both have ADHD how do I learn to show her that i love her in a way she truly gets?

Best resources: There are several books out there on the adhd/add person in love. The adhd effect on marriage is a particularly good one. ...Read more

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My bf has trouble keeping it hard during sex after getting hit in jujitsu. What can he do to fix this problem?

See his urologist: He really needs to see his physician, and likely will need to be referred to a specialist like a urologist. ...Read more

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My girlfriend wants a sex change and i was wondering if we can have babies after it. By the way, we are both girls.?

My girlfriend wants a sex change and i was wondering if we can have babies after it. By the way, we are both girls.?

No, won't work!: If your partner is truly transgender, then he would be your boyfriend, right? But as a f-m transman, there is no functioning penis and no testicles to produce sperm, so no babies are possible without a sperm donor. "sex change" is not an operation, but a complex hormonal, psychological, and social process that often involves surgical gender reassignment surgery, but no sperm-producing penis. ...Read more

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She is egostic has weird attitude and even i cannot trust her at the same time i love her so so much, help me out doc! how to improve her!

She is egostic has weird attitude and even i cannot trust her at the same time i love her so so much, help me out doc! how to improve her!

Love: Tell her how much you care for her and ask her to go to see a mental health professional with you. If she refuses the best you can do is to be compassionate but direct and truthful. If ultimately she refuses help and can't be trusted it is best to move on despite how painful that may be at first it will be best for you in the end. Best wishes. ...Read more

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If my partner is a diagnosed sex addict what can I do to get him to not want sex as often? He wants sex 3times a day and he gets very frustrated

If my partner is a diagnosed sex addict what can I do to get him to not want sex as often? He wants sex 3times a day and he gets very frustrated

Treatment: He needs to see a therapist. If he really is a sex addict (and not just someone with a high sex drive) then he may want to attend sex addicts anonymous meetings. Here is their website: http://saa-recovery.Org/. ...Read more

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My husband broke both his legs and 4 ribs.. he wants to have sex and so do i.. is there a way to go about this without farther injuring him?

My husband broke both his legs and 4 ribs.. he wants to have sex and so do i.. is there a way to go about this without farther injuring him?

Cow girl position: You may try the cow girl position. You will be on top but not pressing his ribs or legs. Google cow girl position to learn more about it, including pictures. Or go to Wikipedia for information. For good health - Have a diet rich in fresh vegetables, fruits, whole grains, low fat milk and milk products, nuts, beans, legumes, lentils and small amounts of lean meats. Avoid saturated fats. Exercise at least 150 minutes/week and increase the intensity of exercise gradually. Do not use tobacco, alcohol, weed or street drugs in any form. Practice safe sex. Get HPV vaccine. ...Read more

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Everytime my partner comes inside me it burns a lot and swells. Am i allergic to his sperm? How to solve that? Will we b able to have kids in future?

Everytime my partner comes inside me it burns a lot and swells. Am i allergic to his sperm? How to solve that? Will we b able to have kids in future?

Semen allergy: You likely have a semen allergy. Consult your allergist who can obtain a blood test or skin test to seminal fluid once confirmed, you can get desensitized to semen but to maintain the desensitized status you will need to have sex at least twice a week as maintenance. No, you can't bill your insurance for the maintenance therapy. ...Read more

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How can I get over a girlish crush on someone who friended me on facebook but I never met? I keep wanting to chat with him and get hurt when he doesnt.

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How can I get over a girlish crush on someone who friended me on facebook but I never met? I keep wanting to chat with him and get hurt when he doesnt.

Realize many types: Feelings are not always mutual. As we form relationships beyond our family, we discover many types of people and relationships. Unlike parents and siblings, it is harder to figure out who they are and what they want from us. Only way to find out is by observing their action. One friend may not want to chat with you. Another friend may be opposite, and get hurt by your rejection. We take turns. ...Read more

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My grandbaby is not allowed to play outside because he gets blisters all over his body. How can I help him and what causes that.

My grandbaby is not allowed to play outside because he gets blisters all over his body. How can I help him and what causes that.

See allergist ASAP: You cannot deprive this child the joy of outdoor play, nor are his parents going to be able to keep him inside all his life once he gets to school age. The solution for this is to have testing done to find out what he is sensitive to outdoors, and then devise a treatment plan. That could include oral medication or allergy immunotherapy (shots), but it will be well worth it for him. ...Read more

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How can I tell my mom that I want to get all of the vaccine for my age when she and her friend say no?

How can I tell my mom that I want to get all of the vaccine for my age when she and her friend say no?

Have an honest discu: Have qn honest discussion giving her the reasons whyyou belive it is the right thing to do, which it it is. Try having her meet with you and your doctor to answer questions. ...Read more

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How come I'm never in the mood like my boyfriend? He always wants to be intimate but it takes a lot, if at all, for me to get in the mood.

How come I'm never in the mood like my boyfriend? He always wants to be intimate but it takes a lot, if at all, for me to get in the mood.

Not unusual: There may be specific issues too, but on the face of it, this is not rare. Especially young men are more sexually driven. It can require more complex stimulation for women and time to learn how to respond. It often balances out as we mature, but it takes patience and understanding. Don't worry but consider talking w/ a therapist or doctor if you think there are particular issues. Read up on it. ...Read more

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I constantly worry that my son will die before me and he's only 3 mons old.. How will I handle when he goes to school or drives or plays sports?

I constantly worry that my son will die before me and he's only 3 mons old.. How will I handle when he goes to school or drives or plays sports?

See a psychiatrist: Probably you will benefit from therapy to discover the reasons for you fears but medicine may help as well--i'd start with a professional who can evaluate your problem your family doc may help you find a good one. ...Read more

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