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How can I get my boyfriend to stop repressing his anger and tell me how he feels?

How can I get my boyfriend to stop repressing his anger and tell me how he feels?

Talk: Tell him how you feel, and focus on your feelings, not on his actions, or he may get defensive or just shut down. Maybe you feel confused, unappreciated, or abandoned when he doesn't give you feedback on certain things and you want to feel more connected. Tell him you want to take the relationship to a higher level and you want to really know more about him, including his feelings. ...Read more

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Lose Temper (Definition)

Losing your temper is a symptom in which a person has too much anger, gets angry too quickly, gets angry too easily, or is angry for too long, when compared to the average normal person who experiences a similar situation. Anger is a strong feeling ...Read more


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Can you tell me how I could control my anger and prevent arguing with my dad?

1 simple tip-: count to 10 before acting on an urge to impulsively harm someone physically or emotionally. Reduce anger by deep breathing. Breath in deeply & slowly through the nostrils. Hold air in lungs for 5 count before slowly exhaling through an open mouth. Repeat until you cool your jets. Focus on your breathing not what is making you angry. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is excellent for dealing w anger > ...Read more

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How can I get my husband to stop drinking but he don't listen to me.

Difficult: Unfortunately, for him to quit he has to decide there is a problem and want to stop. All you can do is encourage him to do so. ...Read more

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My friend is depressed and i want to help him, but he keeps pushing me away and hurting my feelings. What can I do to help without getting hurt?

My friend is depressed and i want to help him, but he keeps pushing me away and hurting my feelings. What can I do to help without getting hurt?

Your male friend: May listen to a guy friend better. You might consider speaking w/some of his friends and asking for their help in getting him to a mental health professional. Part of depression is discouragement so he is likely feeling that nothing can help, but it can. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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How can I get my girlfriend to stop cutting herself?

How can I get my girlfriend to stop cutting herself?

DBT: Any person who engages in repeated self- harm needs mental health assistance. A comprehensive psychological evaluation is needed. The person may need medications to help with possible mental health conditions. If the self- harm is associated with substance abuse – detoxification, 12 step programs or rehabilitation may be indicated. Dialectic behavioral therapy is especially beneficial. ...Read more

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What can I do if my brother thinks he has schizophrenia how can I get him to stop thinking that?

What can I do if my brother thinks he has schizophrenia how can I get him to stop thinking that?

Take him to the dr: His primary care doctor can tell him how hes fine and has no symptoms. Read the DSM criteria for the illness and take him to the psychiatrist if he does. Go to a psychologist and start counseling if he does fit the diagnosis. Ask him why he thinks that. ...Read more

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My girlfriend is bulimic. How can I convince her to get help?

This is difficult: I assume that you have expressed your concern. Have others also done this? If so and there is no change in her attitude, you might try an intervention. Contact a treatment facility for names of someone who can help with this. ...Read more

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What can I do if my bf kinda has a bad way of expressing his anger how help him?

What can I do if my bf kinda has a bad way of expressing his anger how help him?

Unfortunately no : Matter how strongly you are motivated for him to get help - it's his motivation level that is essential here. Therapy may be helpful for him and he could learn better ways to express his anger through anger management classes. ...Read more

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What can I get my boyfriend to stop him from snoring?

What can I get my boyfriend to stop him from snoring?

If he's ok medically: And his md rules out sleep apnea, then see a dentist who can make an easily worn mouth guard that advances the lower jaw, thereby opening up the throat space to reduce or eliminate snoring the results are typically better than surgical treatment and is non-invasive. Brands: therasnore, snoreguard, silent nite. Aveotsd attaches to tongue to reduce snoring. Reasonable cost. ...Read more

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Can you tell me how I could approach my boyfriend about his cigarettes?

Can you tell me how I could approach my boyfriend about his cigarettes?

Tactfully: Don't raise the subject. All smokers want to quit. If and when he shows an interest, be VERY proactive. "Oh! That would be SO wonderful. I'll love you whether you smoke or don't, but I'll help you." Aerobic exercise together is probably the finest thing a partner can do to support the wish to stop. ...Read more

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Can my boyfriend get it i from me and can he give it too me ?

Can my boyfriend get it i from me and can he give it too me ?

Yes: I do not know what disease you taking about but all STD, and viral illness, many bacterial infections very contagious. You have to remember this forever. ...Read more

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How do I help my boyfriend get rid of his marriage phobia when he says he wants to settle down with me?

How do I help my boyfriend get rid of his marriage phobia when he says he wants to settle down with me?

Couples Therapy: I recommend seeking pre-marital/relationship counseling together. An effective therapist will be able to assist you both in determining what you each want in the relationship and how to achieve your goals together in a way that does not intimidate or created undue anxiety/distress for either of you. ...Read more

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Can you tell me how i can get my autistic brother to stop destroying things?

Can you tell me how i can get my autistic brother to stop destroying things?

This is difficult: Whatever mental handicap affects your brother, please understand that treatment -- despite a great variety of modalities -- may not be totally effective. I'm most concerned about you. If you're in a living situation that's not satisfactory, or you don't feel that what is rightfully yours is safe, then it's time to think about all your options. Your physician may be able to advise you. Best wishes. ...Read more

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How can i get my son to actually listen to me and quit back talking me and also get him to stop ignoring me when I ask him to do something.

How can i get my son to actually listen to me and quit back talking me and also get him to stop ignoring me when I ask him to do something.

5 yr old behavior : It is not easy to reason with a 5 yr old, you can try rewarding & praizing him for good behavior & when he is not behaving you can try time out, take away his favorite toys , no TV, no vedeo games Until he listens. Make sure you always show your love & never use verbal or physical punishment. Good luck. ...Read more

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Can you tell me how I could stop being so depressed and return to my old self?

Can you tell me how I could stop being so depressed and return to my old self?

Your Dr can assess: for mood disorder & underlying medical conditions. Talking therapy (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or insight oriented psychotherapy) is important for lasting change. Psych meds may be indicated. Don't isolate. Use your support system. Get out. Don’t stagnate at home. Get at least 8 hrs of sleep/ night & eat healthfully. Daily exercise is a big +. Try acupuncture, tai chi, qi gong or yoga. ...Read more

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Can i tell me how i can get my bipolar and violent dad committed?

Can i tell me how i can get my bipolar and violent dad committed?

Involuntary : Hospitalization laws are different in different states. Speak with a psychiatrist about your father's behavior and they will help you assess whether you can get him hospitalized against his wishes. ...Read more

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How can I tell my partner I really wanna be with him and crave and sex ? What way can I tell him . In writing  .

How can I tell my partner I really wanna be with him and crave and sex ?   What way can I tell him . In writing  .

Pose as a question: Would you be interested in carrying our relationship to a different level? Do you think intimacy adds another dimension for us? ...Read more

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Can you tell me how to stop enabling my depressed gf?

Can you tell me how to stop enabling my depressed gf?

Change your behavior: Anytime you fix a problem for someone else you weaken them. I am sure your intentions are to help but you indirectly encourage her to continue what ever behaviors you do not like. Your behavior gives permission and makes it possible for her to continue her acting out. Your job is to see if you can live happily with her as she is or not and to act accordingly. ...Read more

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My mom is so embarassing. She thinks she can just talk to my friends and coaches. What can I do to make her stop?

My mom is so embarassing. She thinks she can just talk to my friends and coaches. What can I do to make her stop?

Grow up.: Then you'll stop getting embarrassed about things that are totally appropriate, and your mother won't have to worry about you making an epic fail. ...Read more

Anger (Definition)

Anger = emotion associated with ...Read more