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How can family members or loved ones deal with a borderline personality disorder?

How can family members or loved ones deal with a borderline personality disorder?

Be there. Be real.: Try to be consistent. Be supportive and empathic, but also remind the other of the reality of the situation. ...Read more

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Personality Disorder (Definition)

According to the dsm IV tr, a personality disorder is: an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the individual's culture, is pervasive and inflexible, has an onset in adolescence or early adulthood, is stable over time, and leads ...Read more


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How do you handle a family member with multiple personality disorder?

How do you handle a family member with multiple personality disorder?

Dissociation?: Multiple personality or dissociative identity d/o is rare, but does exist. Behavior changes in a family member may have many other causes too. If concerned about your family member, help him/her get to physician for a check up, and tell the person and doctor why you are worried. The doctor will help by evaluating & examining, & recommending further steps needed. ...Read more

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How do you deal with a family member with antisocial personality?

How do you deal with a family member with antisocial personality?

Set Clear Boundaries: Set clear boundaries and stick to them. Sometimes these have to be severe, e.g. Not allowing the person in your home. Remember that the usual controls of behavior, like conscience, maybe largely absent and that talking a good line is likely to have little to do with reality so that one has to impose boundaries based on behavior. ...Read more

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How do you deal with a family member who has a narcissistic personality disorder?

How do you deal with a family member who has a narcissistic personality disorder?

Very gently: People who truly have narcissistic personality disorder are exquisitely sensitive to criticism or perceived slights. These can result in verbal attack or sometimes a complete cutting off -- both painful for you. Depending on my relationship with this family member, i would tread carefully, protect my own boundaries, and do extreme self-care after being with them. Might even get help myself. ...Read more

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What are ways to deal with a family member that suffers from paranoid personality disorder?

What are ways to deal with a family member that suffers from paranoid personality disorder?

Suggestions: #1: remember that you don't control others and cannot change them. #2: take care of yourself and behave in ways that make you feel good about your own behavior. #3: avoid heated power struggles. #4: understand that it's difficult for your family member to trust that other people are not hostile, threatening or demeaning. #5: you might suggest therapy, too. #6: care, but carry on! ...Read more

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I need some tips to help deal with borderline personality disorder family member?

I need some tips to help deal with borderline personality disorder family member?

Boundaries: Keeping consistent boundaries will be helpful for you and your family member. Talk openly about what you feel comfortable with and what you don't. This is a great skill to model for someone who has BPD. ...Read more

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How can family members support someone with adjustment disorder?

How can family members support someone with adjustment disorder?

Realistic support: Persons with emotional disorders need support. However, they also need to have mirrors so that they can see what others see. Part of emotional disorders is the inability to truly see oneself. ...Read more

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How can people with aspergers deal with people with a mood disorder such as borderline personality disorder?

How can people with aspergers deal with people with a mood disorder such as borderline personality disorder?

Confusing: Borderline personality d/o is not at basis a mood disorder, but does have instability of moods/affects as well as sense of identity and relationships with others. They fluctuate between fears of abandonment and fears of intimacy, and are in general much more distressed than someone with asperger's. In asperger's the person misses social cues, and may not "get" why the borderline pd is upset. ...Read more

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How do you deal with a person who has a narcissistic personality disorder?

How do you deal with a person who has a narcissistic personality disorder?

Keep a perspective: If you are that person's friend or family member, then you should probably make sure not to take it too personally -- their self-involvement is really more a story about them than about you. If you are that person's therapist, then you should probably work to uncover the early-on psychological traumas that have created the problem to begin with. ...Read more

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How can people with borderline personality disorder express a fear of abandonment?

Practice: in psychotherapy to express feelings in an interpersonally effective manner. That can help. Also, DBT is a type of skills building therapy for people with bpd. ...Read more

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How long does it take to diagnose someone with bipolar disorder &/or borderline personality disorder? R these mental illnesses or personality traits?

How long does it take to diagnose someone with bipolar disorder &/or borderline personality disorder? R these mental illnesses or personality traits?

Variable: It may take several sessions of history-gathering and observing to make diagnoses of this type -- but symptoms & mental status signs may be clear from the start. Borderline personality disorder and bipolar disorder are both mental illnesses, not just personality traits. Both may be present in the same person. Borderline pd often has more intense symptoms in intimate relationships than others. ...Read more

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How does a person with borderline personality disorder cope with living alone?

Treatment: Treatment of bpd involves both psychotherapy and medication, there is no single treatment modality that helps the person and there are no magic cures..Please seek help, current advances in treatment are amazingly helpful good luck and feel better. ...Read more

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How can I prevent a family member with mental illness from being bullied?

How can I prevent a family member  with mental illness from being bullied?

Many factors: Depends on the individual, the age, the circumstances, who the bullies are, who the supposedly supervising people are in the situation, etc. Start with addressing it with the family member himself or herself. Someone closer to the situation where the bullying occurs is usually best. ...Read more

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How to deal with someone who has histrionic personality disorder?

How to deal with someone who has histrionic personality disorder?

Remain calm : Take deep breaths and stay calm. Be reassuring without judgement. Never get into an argument about the reality of the situation . Simply emphathize without riding on the same roller coaster of emotion. ...Read more

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How can someone help a loved one with a mood disorder?

How can someone help a loved one with a mood disorder?

Love & Support: Your loved one needs support and encouragement to let them know that dealing with a mood disorder is tough, but that you are there to love and encourage him. It may be helpful to find some books to read to better understand their disorder. It would also be helpful if you are willing to attend therapy with them, especially if you are a significant other. ...Read more

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How do you deal with family members who become hysterical when diagnosed with malignancy?

How do you deal with family members who become hysterical when diagnosed with malignancy?

Information, calm: I suggest keeping calm, and not allowing yourself to be overcome with emotion. Make sure you are giving your family member accurate information. Be clear that it is impossible to predict the future with certainty, despite our medical technology. Many treatments are available. It is also important to address the patient's spiritual needs in a time like this through prayer and meditation. ...Read more

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A relative may be suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. What are some ways we can cope with her guilt trips and other NPD behaviors?

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A relative may be suffering from narcissistic personality disorder. What are some ways we can cope with her guilt trips and other NPD behaviors?

Wizard behind screen: An initially difficult to comprehend condition it is characterized by: lack of empathy, blame, self-inflation, sometimes obsequious when they want something, and they are drawn to power, money, and compliments. Ultimately ii is always about them. They encourage idealization, won't admit any weaknesses, and encourage others to believe that anything that goes wrong is someone else's fault - yours. ...Read more

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How can you deal with personality disorders?

How can you deal with personality disorders?

Long-term therapy: Generally, personality disorders are best treated with intensive, long-term psychotherapy with a skilled psychologist or psychiatrist. If you're in a social, work, or family relationship with someone who has a personality disorder, your situation is much different. Depending on intensity, you might consider seeking help yourself -- for education, and also because such relationships are painful. ...Read more

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Can you please share your personal experiences with borderline personality disorder or with someone who has it?

Can you please share your personal experiences with borderline personality disorder or with someone who has it?

Normal to them: The person generally does not recognize that anything is wrong with them. That is part of the real problem. However you will alway recognize that they see things in a light that is generally in conflict with the way most people would see them. ...Read more

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How can therapists deal with patients who have antisocial personality disorder?

Not good candidates.: People with antisocial personalities do not learn from their previous mistakes and therapy does not work. They do understand that for a criminal behavior, they have to be legally responsible. They have no remorse and they are sorry only that they got caught. ...Read more

Dr. Alan Ali
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Borderline Personality Disorder (Definition)

A severe personality disorder, characterized by a very fragile self-esteem, highly volatile interpersonal relationships, and ...Read more