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My father in law has full hairy body,even my wife has a tiny hair on her body.what are the chances to me to having hairy kids?Please clarify...
Get support: Depending on what will be expected of you, you should try to find a support group and call on people you trust to help you. Remember you dont always need a break from being a wife but you always need to take breaks when you are care giving. Good luck. ...Read more
Massage: That is something that is better discussed with your spouse, but among other things, regular foot massages can be very healthy for your relationship. Expressions of admiration or love through small gifts (flowers), outings (dinner date), or verbal annunciations can be strengthening. Be interested in your spouse and listen every chance you get. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
Actively listening: Many women want to be actively heard and validated. They also, generally want to know that their spouse cares for them. Telling her this daily and repeatedly will go a long way towards buidling the relationship. Once the relationship is solid, then the "seduction" is much less of an issue. Certainly, the "date" is a great idea and just doing things that she likes to do. ...Read more
Why ask "why"?: I'm hoping i'm wrong but afraid i'm right... This is one of several features of the classic abuser and/or a marriage about to fail for other reasons. If she feels the relationship is worth saving, the wife can seek wise advice (for herself and/or the couple) now. The concern is that it will get worse and worse, with his keeping her isolated, ridiculing her, and eventually violence. ...Read more
Impossible to say: Without more information it is impossible to understand your wife's anger. There are a number of possibilities. Sometimes people with mood disorders (depression or bipolar disorder) have a lot of irritability or anger. But anger could also be stemming from relationship problems, frustration at work, etc. Perhaps she could speak with her doctor or psychologist about this. ...Read moreSee 2 more doctor answers