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Some people think gay sex causes aids. Why is that?

Some people think gay sex causes aids. Why is that?

Early stereotype: In the early 1980s, not much was known about the virus, only that promiscuous homosexual men tended to contract it. This was likely a combination of high-risk behaviors (unprotected sex, multiple partners, drug use...). Recently, heterosexual transmission and intravenous drug use surpassed this transmission, but some resurgence as new generation not taking precautions. Be safe. ...Read more

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I just had my first gay sex experience and I vomited afterwards. Why?

I just had my first gay sex experience and I vomited afterwards. Why?

Emotions: Congratulations on your experience. A majority of guys explore this stuff, even though only a minority prefer a same-sex partner for the long-term. Thankfully, society's more tolerant today than in the past, but there's still stigma in some circles. You may have gained a lifetime friend, or discovered what's right, or not right, for you, and you've shared love -- which is always to be cherished. ...Read more

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I had unprotected gay sex once. Did 4th generation after 4 and 7 weeks, also have many symptoms. Is it conclusive? Help

I had unprotected gay sex once. Did 4th generation after 4 and 7 weeks, also have many symptoms. Is it conclusive? Help

Early HIV testing: The fourth generation test includes both a viral RNA test which measures the presence of actual live virus in the blood stream and antibody to HIV. If both were negative then you can rest assured that you do not have HIV.
If you are going to have high risk sexual behaviour in the future, please pay attention both to using condoms and consider taking PREP, the medication to prevent HIV transmissio ...Read more

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Is gay sex advisable since I find it hard to find any girl?

Is gay sex advisable since I find it hard to find any girl?

Your decision: This can only be answered by yourself, as sexual orientation and preferences to male or female is purely a personal decision. Sexuality is not detrmined if you can 'find' a girl, but more on your personal feelings of wether you prefer the same or opposite sex. If you truly like girls, than keep trying to find that right one, develop a relationship through trust and love, and sex may come later. ...Read more

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Can you get HIV if nether of you have HIV and neither does any of our relative's (unprotected gay sex)?

Can you get HIV if nether of you have HIV and neither does any of our relative's (unprotected gay sex)?

How do you know?: Unless you know you and your partners HIV tests are negative you don't really know. And you are not sleeping with their relatives (hopefully) so their status doesn't matter. What about Hep C? Just use condoms. ...Read more

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I'm 18, had gay sex for the first time. I didn't wear a condom for the first couple mins. He said he was tested in Feb. Do I need to get tested?

I'm 18, had gay sex for the first time. I didn't wear a condom for the first couple mins. He said he was tested in Feb. Do I need to get tested?

Becoming Sexual: Yes. It is very unlikely to catch HIV in the scenario you describe. But, to be a good adult you should get tested every three to six months as a routine when you are sexually active. I would also wish for you a good medical advisor. You can find one here: http://www. Glma. Org ...Read more

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I think I have school uniform fetishism. I also get Weird dreams of gay sex. How to overcome this?

I think I have school uniform fetishism. I also get Weird dreams of gay sex. How to overcome this?

Overcoming?: There is nothing wrong or abnormal with an active fantasy life, provided the fantasies do not become actions that are harmful to yourself or others. Find a reputable psychotherapist who deals with sexual issues, and called to make an appointment. ...Read more

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I'm wondering was gay sex the root cause of STD aids?

I'm wondering was gay sex the root cause of STD aids?

Not the source: The best research indicates that aids started in central African monkeys who were the food for Chimps who then became food for humans in that area. Transmission is by blood to blood contact and the thin lining of the anus during anal sex makes blood to blood contact more likely. So this type of sex was not the cause, but the agent for spread. ...Read more

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Is it possible to get infected with hiv/aids through gay sex?

Is it possible to get infected with hiv/aids through gay sex?

Yes: Sex between men is an important risk factor. The same does not apply to lesbians. ...Read more

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Are "poppers" legal in the US? If so, which are safe to use before anal sex (if any). What is the best recommendation besides condoms for gay sex?

Are "poppers" legal in the US? If so, which are safe to use before anal sex (if any). What is the best recommendation besides condoms for gay sex?

Depends. . .: I believe there are different types of poppers eg nitrites (http://en. Wikipedia. Org/wiki/Poppers), so I can't comment on the different versions. However, I wanted to point out that we don't recommend using PDE-5 inhibitors such as Cialis, Levitra, (vardenafil) Staxyn & Viagra in conjunction w/nitrites & nitrates as this may lower blood pressure excessively causing one to pass out. ...Read more

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I couple of years ago I had gay sex but not sore if I got STD?

I couple of years ago I had gay sex but not sore if I got STD?

Get tested: It is not unusual for teens to experiment sexually and many are unsure of their sexuality. You may or may not have acquired a STD, but simple testing can confirm or exclude the possibility. If you have no genital symptoms, blood tests can provide basic information. ...Read more

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Does gay male sex harm the body?

Does gay male sex harm the body?

Here is an: Excellent article (http://www. Cdc. Gov/msmhealth/for-your-health. Htm) entitled gay and bisexual men's health, for your health: recommendations for a healthier you" from the centers for disease control and prevention. It states" the rate of new HIV diagnoses among msm is more than 44 times that of other men, while the rate of primary and secondary syphilis among msm is more than 46 times that of >. ...Read more

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Is there things to make gay anal sex hurt less?

Is there things to make gay anal sex hurt less?

Foreplay: Intercourse should not hurt (...otherwise why be recipient?). Partner needs to "invest" enough time to be sure you are ready to proceed (male or female), in your case, with adequate dilation and lubrication--and ALWAYS with condoms. ...Read more

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Which gel to use for gay anal sex?

Which gel to use for gay anal sex?

Anal Sex & Lube: What ever you prefer is usually fine. You need a water based lube so that the condoms are not damaged. You want a gel that does not have spermicidal or other chemicals so that your rectal tissues are not inflamed or damaged. ...Read more

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Bleeding from rectum after gay anal sex. How can I treat this?

Bleeding from rectum after gay anal sex. How can I treat this?

Here are some...: Stop anal sex until heal. If insisting anal sex, do less often with ample lubrication and in right direction of penetration. But still remember: anus is meant for defecation not for reproduction; freedom for any forms of coitus has distortedly served well for the high demand of political correctness, not the importance of self-care for health & life. ...Read more

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Is gay anal sex with condom is any health problem comes after sex?

Is gay anal sex with condom is any health problem comes after sex?

Possibly: A condom is very protective but a few percentage of time it may not be. So the same way that a woman may occasionally become pregnant when the man uses a condom, anal intercourse could occasionally be associated with a sexually transmitted disease, including gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV infection. ...Read more

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I had gay oral sex with a man with condoms it will cause std's or hiv.

I had gay oral sex with a man with condoms it will cause std's or hiv.

Safer sex: This is the safest way to have oral sex. It is unlikely you will get any stis, and very unlikely you will get hiv. Regular testing is still important. Continue to use condoms consistently with oral or anal sex and stay safe. ...Read more

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When transgendered people start dating people of the opposite sex, does that make the person of the opposite sex gay if they didn't know of the change?

I hope I am: Understanding this correctly. In a situation in which the person is unaware of other individual's actual gender - the person is not making a conscious choice to date someone of that actual gender. In other words, if a man fully believed he was dating /sexually attracted to a woman (who actually a male) - that would not make the man a homosexual. ...Read more