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Gay Boy Become
Being True 2 Urself: If u r strongly attracted 2other males u can try 2ignore this. And u can try 2force urself 2feel sexually attracted 2ward females. People do this all over world! But overwhelmingly the research shows that this self-denial comes at great personal cost 2u & 2person u try 2feel attracted to. But in some cultural/religious/ethnic circles, u will b shunned, even executed, if u r gay. Meet homophobia. ...Read more
No: Programs to "convert" or "cure" homosexuality have widely been discredited. The largest organization in the us that performed these "conversions" recently closed and apologized for all the harm that they have done. While desire cannot be changed, a person may choose not to act on those desires. This is a personal choice but should not be done with the expectation of "turning straight.". ...Read more
Undecided: It would be in your interest to sit down and discuss your dilemma with a trained psychologist or psychiatrist. This is not something to ignore as not important since it can bring other problems in your socialization. ...Read more
Hi I am gay and my boy friend does not like it when I get an erection and I don't either so I was wondering if there is a way I can stop getting erect?
Erections...: ....Are a normal result of arousal in males whether they are gay or strait. There is no way for you to be sexually aroused but not have erections without damaging yourself. I am worried that you dislike your own erections. You need a good counselor with whom you can discuss this, so that you can explore the reasons for this feeling. ...Read more
Hi. I`m a 21 versatile gay boy. I think there`s a relationship between being versatile and hormone fluctuations. Is it true?
I'm 22 and ive never been in love with a girl or a boy. But I sexually think about my best friend. No sexual interactions. Does it mean im a gay?
No: Sexual fantasies take various forms. I do not think a specific thought or fantasy determines your sexual orientation. If you feel confused about your sexual orientation talk to your physician or seek a councilor. ...Read more
I'm 22 ive never been in love with a girl before I think I secretly love my bestfrnds (we r boys) I have erction when I touch them don't know if im gay?
Maybe: Hi there! It's wonderful that u are wanting 2 explore your sexual orientation identity (SOI), though more questions need 2 be answered than this space allows. Whatever ur SOI is, please be lovingly open to embracing it, even if privately initially. Might wanna find a local therapist to discuss this with. U can also find my virtual practice here to visit more in details. Good luck on ur journey! ...Read more
I think am gay but not sure. I feel uncomfortable around girls and blushes both around boys and girls, watches gay and straight porn, antisocial?
Gender Identity: Consult with a clinical psycholgist who can help you uncover your true orientation and also address your anxietyand antsocial tendencies. It is possible you are gay and if so there are many on line support groups on line to help you. Best. ...Read more
Yes: The evidence is pretty clear that by birth our sexuality has been determined. While this continues to be a source of controversy in the political arena, overwhelming scientific evidence indicates that male sexuality is determined by genetics & the intrauterine environment before birth. Http://www. Youtube. Com/watch? V=z6zph97qyd4. ...Read more
Is Being Gay Wrong?:
Simple, sweet, and honest. Who we find attractive, who we love or want to love and how we want to express our love sexually is a gift of being human. In all cultures and species there is a small percentage of the population who are wired to be homosexual or homo-social.
Being gay is a gift. Feeling love and wanting to be loved is one of the highest gives we can receive in our lives. ...Read more
Given the amazing diversity of human beings, why would someone think that there could only be one way for people to be sexually.
And if you accept that possibility, then a child develops awareness of their sexuality as they grow and this awareness is more focused when in puberty hormones are activated. ...Read more
That's awesome!: You've admitted, now embrace who you are. You're still a young man with the world at your feet. Be yourself, don't hide, the worst is behind you. You'll be amazed at the acceptance from people who far exceed the few haters out there & they won't hesitate to defend you. People revere honesty. Best of all you can finally have what everyone else had since high school, the freedom to pursue love. ...Read more
It's pretty simple: Assuming a relatively normal childhood without history of sexual experiences before puberty, at around the age of 12 or thirteen, when the other boys start noticing girls, the gay kid will start noticing boys. Sexual attraction and arousal are powerful forces in teenagers and gay males know pretty quickly what they are attracted to but are forced to repress those feelings by societal conventions. ...Read more
Gay signs: I don't think there are reliable signs to know whether your partner is gay. But if you are concerned, you should bring up this subject directly with your partner, and have an open dialogue about it. ...Read more
Not necessarily: As long as a child is brought up in an emotionally healthy family- whether that is a relationship with two people of the same or different sex- the child should live an emotionally happy life. The nature of the relationship of the parents does not predict whether the child his/herself will be in a gay relationship or not. ...Read more
Born that way: It is interesting that those who say you choose that are not scientists - they are radical priests or politicians. Multiple scientific studies have shown that it is not a choice but something wired in you. There have even been studies on brain imaging to show this to be the case. ...Read more
Conversation: Best thing to do if you're wondering if your spouse might be gay, is to talk with him or her about it. I imagine there must be reasons that lead you to wonder. You can approach the subject in a calm moment when there's time for conversation, and share your concerns with your spouse. ...Read more