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I'm a female having trouble with having orgasms... I've never had one before and I really want to expierence having one. What's wrong with me?

I'm a female having trouble with having orgasms... I've never had one before and I really want to expierence having one. What's wrong with me?

Probably nothing: Many women have trouble learning how to experience orgasm. Many don't even recognize it when they do. Stay calm and don't feel abnormal - it's very common. You can learn more on your own if you feel comfortable exploring yourself with a mirror and lubricant. There is info online or at libraries or women's clinics and Dr's offices. Gently play w/ your fingers to find and stroke your clitoris. Best! ...Read more

Orgasm (Definition)

Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more


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What causes a female squirting orgasm?

What causes a female squirting orgasm?

Still being studied: Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid by the paraurethral ducts through and around the human female urethra during or before an orgasm. It is also known in slang as gushing or squirting. Some women, if stimulated in the right area, can "squirt" during or as part of an orgasm. Women can still orgasm without squirting too. Hope this helps. ...Read more

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How do I know when I've reached orgasm? I am female.

How do I know when I've reached orgasm? I am female.

A common female (?)!: Have you masturbated to orgasm? You would know, if not, and you are having sex, is it pleasing to you! You need to know what is pleasing to you to tell a partner! ...Read more

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42 year old female. Pain in left side during orgasm?

42 year old female. Pain in left side during orgasm?

Pelvic pain: Contractions of the uterus occur with orgasm. Pain could signal a problem there, such as fibroids or endometriosis. Get a gyn check up. ...Read more

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I'm a 55 year old female and have never had an orgasm. What is wrong with me?

I'm a 55 year old female and have never had an orgasm. What is wrong with me?

Nothing!: There are a number of women who have never had an orgasm. There area a number of good books regarding female sexuality. I recommend the books by the Drs. Berman (who are sisters). They are easy to read and understand. ...Read more

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I am a female why is it hard for me to catch an orgasm even though I like sex?

I am a female why is it hard for me to catch an orgasm even though I like sex?

Many possibilities: Distraction or preoccupation, discomfort with partner, guilt, feeling physically or emotionally unsafe, self-consciousness, partner finishes too soon, dryness/lack of arousal, lack of sufficient stimulation (eg, clitoral), physical illness or pain, etc. Also, some women "learn" how to climax with their partner over time, some need stimulation other than intercourse, and some just can't. ...Read more

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Could you tell me what happens when the male partner gets the orgasm before the female partner?

Could you tell me what happens when the male partner gets the orgasm before the female partner?

Is he a good lover?: If he just rolls over and goes to sleep, she may end up unhappy with the relationship. If he's a halfway-decent lover, he'll use other parts of his body to satisfy her. Especially, if he's worth keeping, he'll communicate. Smart men figure out early, "i'm a man so I'm going to get satisfied. So how can I make sure she gets satisfied? " he focuses on that, whoever orgasms first. ...Read more

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Which medicine should be given to make a female arouse sex and have wonderful orgasm that she can't forget?

Which medicine should be given to make a female arouse sex and have wonderful orgasm that she can't forget?

You: Testosterone will make a woman excitable like it does you, but there are drawbacks. The other miracle pills are less evidence-based. Talk to her as much as you are able. Stay fit. Let her know that your relationship is the most important thing in the world to you. Learn to use your entire body to pleasure her. Keep asking her what she likes best and focus on this. The best won't come from a pill. ...Read more

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A Male can Orgasm within 15, 30 seconds. What about the Females? And are 15, 30 seconds enough for her to be satisfied?

A Male can Orgasm within 15, 30 seconds. What about the Females? And are 15, 30 seconds enough for her to be satisfied?

Talk. Talk more.: After meeting, getting to know one another, dating, deciding on a future, getting engaged, getting married, and settling down, a guy by that time realizes the male has to talk with the female and ask the female what she likes to do, what she doesn't like to do, etc... Usually, when the male stops referring to his wife as the "female", he is making progress! ...Read more

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What could I have orgasm with instead of a male or female partner? Could I do it with cussions or something? Thanks x

What could I have orgasm with instead of a male or female partner? Could I do it with cussions or something? Thanks x

Too young: You are too young to ask question here and definitely too young to ask such question, focus on ur home work instead. ...Read more

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When having a orgasm I don't "squirt" out like some females. What's wrong?? I have this sensation that comes and after that can't go on. What's wrong

When having a orgasm I don't "squirt" out like some females. What's wrong?? I have this sensation that comes and after that can't go on. What's wrong

Most don't squirt: Only a few women squirt with orgasms. Also normal for many women to conclude sex act after orgasm, although this is more common for men. Most likely, there is nothing wrong. ...Read more

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Are female orgasms good for you?

Are female orgasms good for you?

Yes: If you enjoy them, they bring shared intimacy with your partner and hurt no one, I'd say yes. ...Read more

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What is a female orgasm?

What is a female orgasm?

Delightful sensation: As a man, I am really not the best person to answer this question, and I can direct you to a link that may be of some assistance to you in getting a better understanding of the nature of a female orgasm, described as a sensation better than diving into a cool pool on a sweltering day. Http://www. Womenshealthmag. Com/sex-and-relationships/anatomy-of-an-orgasm. ...Read more

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How long is a female/male orgasm?

How long is a female/male orgasm?

It varies: Usually females can be multi orgasms men not so lucky orgasms vary from person to person. My real answer is never long enough. Enjoy ...Read more

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What causes squirting during female orgasm?

What causes squirting during female orgasm?

Uncertain: “squirting” is controversial. Some indicate that it is a form of female ejaculation in which the fluid is propelled from para-urethral ducts during or prior to orgasm. Others hold that it is lubricating secretions or incontinence of urine. ...Read more

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I am 27 yo female and can't orgasm during sex?

I am 27 yo female and can't orgasm during sex?

Anorgasmia: This could be caused by several things, but may also not have a cause. A history and physical by a gynecologist is the only way to start. Stress or psychological issues, hormonal or endocrine issues, or a medication side effect could all be possibilities. ...Read more

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What are some ways for females to give themselves extraordinary orgasms? In 17 and am getting bored with my current quick way

What are some ways for females to give themselves extraordinary orgasms? In 17 and am getting bored with my current quick way

Exploration: Masturbation is a normal part of adolescence. It is normal and healthy that you are exploring and learning to understand your body. If you are sexually active with others please use condoms and start birth control. ...Read more

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I am a female and it's hard for me to have an orgasm and to stay lubricated is there something wrong with me? How can I solve this problem

I am a female and it's hard for me to have an orgasm and to stay lubricated is there something wrong with me? How can I solve this problem

Probably not: One of the most common reasons for this is simply lack of interest in your partner. Make sure you really are compatible and attracted to your mate. If you need there are many lubricants available at your local pharmacy. Difficulty having an orgasm can be due to medical issues esp. Certain drugs but likely is due to lack of interest in your significant other. ...Read more

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The best female creams to heightened the female orgasm?

None: Well, none by brand or dietary supplement. But lubrication is always helpful to allow you to enjoy sexual relations as opposed to enduring "dry" painful sex which is less likely to lead to orgasm. Rather than focus on creams, pills, etc (i know, you didn't ask about pills), figure out what you like. Every woman is different. Some like a lot of clitoral contact while others don't. Some orgasm from. ...Read more

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How can a female orgasm on methadone?

How can a female orgasm on methadone?

No different: Just like off methadone. May inhibit orgasm or take longer. ...Read more

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Why female orgasm take longer time than a male orgasm?

Why female orgasm take longer time than a male orgasm?

Depends: Everyone is a little different and either the woman, or man, may need more stimulation to achieve orgasm. ...Read more

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I can't have a orgasm, what am I doing wrong? Female who's never had sex.

Have your...........: Have your testosterone levels checked! Even if normal, there needs to be a level of mental connect! ...Read more

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I blacked out during an orgasm. Is that normal? I'm an 18 year old female.

I blacked out during an orgasm. Is that normal? I'm an 18 year old female.

Normal: This is normal from the rush of hormones and the relaxation muscles afterwards. At your age be careful you don't put yourself in a dangerous situation when this occurs. ...Read more

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I am 45 years old female, is it ok for me to have g-spot orgasm if I'm this old?

I am 45 years old female, is it ok for me to have g-spot orgasm if I'm this old?

Congratulations: This is a part of the joy of life and if you can have such sexual enjoyment at your age and for the next 30 years, terrific. Hope your partner is equally happy. ...Read more

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23 years female exactly after an orgasm I get an extreme surge of nausea. It lats for three minutes or so. What could it be.

23 years female exactly after an orgasm I get an extreme surge of nausea. It lats for three minutes or so. What could it be.

See remark: Is this a new event? With a new partner?
Orgasm is induced by stimulating nerves (sympathetic nerves) and may cause the symptoms???
Ask a pharmacist to give you over the counter anti-nausea pill that you can take an hour before sex
Good luck ...Read more

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A friend says he knows a female who "squirts." what is that about? Is it just urine? Or is there another fluid women secrete with sex/orgasm?

A friend says he knows a female who "squirts." what is that about? Is it just urine? Or is there another fluid women secrete with sex/orgasm?

Amrita: Is the Sanskrit word for the female ejaculate fluid that is secreted when a woman orgasms. It is usually associated with the G-spot, but some women also claim to have this secretion through clitoral stimulation. The G-Spot is a bundle of nerves located on the front wall of the vagina 2-3 inches from the opening and can be activated with a 'come hither' or 'windsheild-wiper' motion of the finger. ...Read more

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Can female orgasms cause cancer?

No: Absolutely no relationship between female orgasm and cancer. ...Read more

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No orgasm for lady even he uses hands why?

No orgasm for lady even he uses hands why?

Female Orgasms: Dear tiger, has the partner been romantic? Has there been adequate foreplay? Has the partner asked her what she enjoys and what feels best to her? Is there any strain in the relationship with each other? Are there other stressors? Does the woman want sex at the time? As you can see this is a complex issue. ...Read more

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What comes out a a females vagina when she has and orgasm?

What comes out a a females vagina when she has and orgasm?

Controversial: The presence of a "female ejaculate" is controversial. Some women do pass fluid with orgasm, likely from the ducts next to the urethra. The fluid seems to be different from urine. ...Read more

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What causes females hormones to change and someone to not be able to have orgasms anymore?

What causes females hormones to change and someone to not be able to have orgasms anymore?

Not hormones: Hormones do not regulate orgasms. The nervous system, blood flow and psychological factors do. ...Read more

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If the male gets his orgasm and the female doesn't, do they continue having sex or just quit?

If the male gets his orgasm and the female doesn't, do they continue having sex or just quit?

Easier for male to: Orgasm. Need to work out what works best for you & partner. U may require lots of foreplay & he may not. Suggest how he can get you maximally excited, by stroking, touching. Rubbing or kissing erotic areas until ur ready, before he tries to penetrates. Might erotic movies help? Can he play with you after his orgasm? . Don't give up. Many couples have to work at it, it's worth it. Good luck. ...Read more

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Is masturbation healthy when you are 19 years old? (female) why does it take me a long time orgasm?

Not unhealthy!: There is absolutely nothing medically wrong with masturbation, but plenty of religious and old-fashioned ideas exist that can make one feel "guilty" about it. That's also probably the reason it's an effort for you. If you are ok with it then free yourself from the "stigma" and learn what feels good. You will be a better partner if you know what you like and communicate this when ready! Practice! ...Read more

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