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Female Trouble Orgasm
I'm a female having trouble with having orgasms... I've never had one before and I really want to expierence having one. What's wrong with me?
Probably nothing: Many women have trouble learning how to experience orgasm. Many don't even recognize it when they do. Stay calm and don't feel abnormal - it's very common. You can learn more on your own if you feel comfortable exploring yourself with a mirror and lubricant. There is info online or at libraries or women's clinics and Dr's offices. Gently play w/ your fingers to find and stroke your clitoris. Best! ...Read more
Conventionally, orgasm is the culmination of sexual arousal (and may be repeated) and typically produces great pleasure through direct genital stimulation of the male penis and female clitoris. However, orgasm may also be achieved via the brain or as a reflex arc. The physical characteristics are an explosive peak & repeated neuromuscular action causing release of male ...Read more
Still being studied: Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid by the paraurethral ducts through and around the human female urethra during or before an orgasm. It is also known in slang as gushing or squirting. Some women, if stimulated in the right area, can "squirt" during or as part of an orgasm. Women can still orgasm without squirting too. Hope this helps. ...Read more
Many possibilities: Distraction or preoccupation, discomfort with partner, guilt, feeling physically or emotionally unsafe, self-consciousness, partner finishes too soon, dryness/lack of arousal, lack of sufficient stimulation (eg, clitoral), physical illness or pain, etc. Also, some women "learn" how to climax with their partner over time, some need stimulation other than intercourse, and some just can't. ...Read more
Is he a good lover?: If he just rolls over and goes to sleep, she may end up unhappy with the relationship. If he's a halfway-decent lover, he'll use other parts of his body to satisfy her. Especially, if he's worth keeping, he'll communicate. Smart men figure out early, "i'm a man so I'm going to get satisfied. So how can I make sure she gets satisfied? " he focuses on that, whoever orgasms first. ...Read more
Which medicine should be given to make a female arouse sex and have wonderful orgasm that she can't forget?
You: Testosterone will make a woman excitable like it does you, but there are drawbacks. The other miracle pills are less evidence-based. Talk to her as much as you are able. Stay fit. Let her know that your relationship is the most important thing in the world to you. Learn to use your entire body to pleasure her. Keep asking her what she likes best and focus on this. The best won't come from a pill. ...Read more
How can I have a squirting orgasm? How can I make myself squirt, without a guy being around? I am a female.
Probably cannot: It's a fairly uncommon occurence, and no way to cause it - if you do not have them naturally. ...Read more
A Male can Orgasm within 15, 30 seconds. What about the Females? And are 15, 30 seconds enough for her to be satisfied?
Talk. Talk more.: After meeting, getting to know one another, dating, deciding on a future, getting engaged, getting married, and settling down, a guy by that time realizes the male has to talk with the female and ask the female what she likes to do, what she doesn't like to do, etc... Usually, when the male stops referring to his wife as the "female", he is making progress! ...Read more
What could I have orgasm with instead of a male or female partner? Could I do it with cussions or something? Thanks x
Too young: You are too young to ask question here and definitely too young to ask such question, focus on ur home work instead. ...Read more
When having a orgasm I don't "squirt" out like some females. What's wrong?? I have this sensation that comes and after that can't go on. What's wrong
Delightful sensation: As a man, I am really not the best person to answer this question, and I can direct you to a link that may be of some assistance to you in getting a better understanding of the nature of a female orgasm, described as a sensation better than diving into a cool pool on a sweltering day. Http://www. Womenshealthmag. Com/sex-and-relationships/anatomy-of-an-orgasm. ...Read more
What are some ways for females to give themselves extraordinary orgasms? In 17 and am getting bored with my current quick way
I ami a female and I can't receive an orgasm during sex I can start getting the feeling but it won't reach its full peek. Why is that?
I am a female and it's hard for me to have an orgasm and to stay lubricated is there something wrong with me? How can I solve this problem
Probably not: One of the most common reasons for this is simply lack of interest in your partner. Make sure you really are compatible and attracted to your mate. If you need there are many lubricants available at your local pharmacy. Difficulty having an orgasm can be due to medical issues esp. Certain drugs but likely is due to lack of interest in your significant other. ...Read more
None: Well, none by brand or dietary supplement. But lubrication is always helpful to allow you to enjoy sexual relations as opposed to enduring "dry" painful sex which is less likely to lead to orgasm. Rather than focus on creams, pills, etc (i know, you didn't ask about pills), figure out what you like. Every woman is different. Some like a lot of clitoral contact while others don't. Some orgasm from. ...Read more
I'm 26 female, I have trouble with having an orgasm during sex. I used to masturbate often do to being single. Now its hard for me to have an orgasm without clit stimulation. My boyfriend has a hrd time making me have an orgasm, that's its causing problems I
Talk to your BF: Talk to your partner about your needs. Specifically how you can be pleasured. Be creative with each other. If you say nothing, he won't know there is a problem or a need for change. ...Read more
Possibly..: ..Psychological inhibition.Get a more detailed answer ›
Great question: I don't think anyone will ever know. ...Read more
Normal: This is normal from the rush of hormones and the relaxation muscles afterwards. At your age be careful you don't put yourself in a dangerous situation when this occurs. ...Read more
Congratulations: This is a part of the joy of life and if you can have such sexual enjoyment at your age and for the next 30 years, terrific. Hope your partner is equally happy. ...Read more
23 years female exactly after an orgasm I get an extreme surge of nausea. It lats for three minutes or so. What could it be.
A friend says he knows a female who "squirts." what is that about? Is it just urine? Or is there another fluid women secrete with sex/orgasm?
Amrita: Is the Sanskrit word for the female ejaculate fluid that is secreted when a woman orgasms. It is usually associated with the G-spot, but some women also claim to have this secretion through clitoral stimulation. The G-Spot is a bundle of nerves located on the front wall of the vagina 2-3 inches from the opening and can be activated with a 'come hither' or 'windsheild-wiper' motion of the finger. ...Read more
Female Orgasms: Dear tiger, has the partner been romantic? Has there been adequate foreplay? Has the partner asked her what she enjoys and what feels best to her? Is there any strain in the relationship with each other? Are there other stressors? Does the woman want sex at the time? As you can see this is a complex issue. ...Read more
Possibly: Where was blood coming from? The urethra? The vagina? You should see your gyn. ...Read more
Not hormones: Hormones do not regulate orgasms. The nervous system, blood flow and psychological factors do. ...Read more
Easier for male to: Orgasm. Need to work out what works best for you & partner. U may require lots of foreplay & he may not. Suggest how he can get you maximally excited, by stroking, touching. Rubbing or kissing erotic areas until ur ready, before he tries to penetrates. Might erotic movies help? Can he play with you after his orgasm? . Don't give up. Many couples have to work at it, it's worth it. Good luck. ...Read more
Is masturbation healthy when you are 19 years old? (female) why does it take me a long time orgasm?
Not unhealthy!: There is absolutely nothing medically wrong with masturbation, but plenty of religious and old-fashioned ideas exist that can make one feel "guilty" about it. That's also probably the reason it's an effort for you. If you are ok with it then free yourself from the "stigma" and learn what feels good. You will be a better partner if you know what you like and communicate this when ready! Practice! ...Read more