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Enemas For Pleasure
Ask: Being sensitive to her responses to your different touches is the starting point. If she gives no clue, you can ask what feels good. If still no response then likely she is not very comfortable in the relationship or with some aspect of being sexually active. The latter could be to some form of abuse in her past. ...Read more
Medical check up: Low blood pressure, while good news for older folks, should be evaluated to rule out medical condition like endocrine disorders or Diabetes. Make sure you remain hydrated, eat healthy and get enough sleep. If you have dizziness from low BP, pl get yourself checked sooner than later. ...Read more
Maybe...: Maybe thinking about it in a different way than just "seeking pleasure" may help. People do things for a lot of different reasons. Self-mutilation (by this I assume you mean "cutting") is not different. Self-mutilation may help a person feel more in control of their feelings or emotion, or meet some other perceived need that the person has. ...Read more
Skilled archer: It is not (always) the arrow, more how it is sent, that causes it to be effective. Through dedicated 'practice, ' you can learn what works best for you and your partner's situation. Good luck! ...Read more
CONDOMS: There are comdoms with friction sensitive ointments in them that warm up with use. ...Read more
The usual way: There are no limits to sexual pleasure even after menopause. There are a few physiological changes which can be a problem, particularly dryness which can be compensated with solutions commercially available. You may need to increase your allure with lingerie, perfumes, special treats and times and sometimes more exotic activities (and locations). You can do it! ...Read more
Depends how many wks: The closer you are to term the more risk you may be at for triggering unwanted uterine contractions that could be problematic to the pregnancy from masturbation. I'd recommend speaking directly to your OB/GYN about this because we don't know if your pregnancy is high risk which then, already place activity restrictions on you. All the best. ...Read more
No pleasure: W/sex can be from a variety of sources. Please see your doc and ask about the side effect of any medications you are on. Are you depressed and perhaps do not know? A mental health pro can help you sort that out. Your doc can rule out/identify possible medical conditions. Peace and good health. ...Read more
Brain, not skin: Different receptors fire in response to different stimuli. It is the brain that perceives pain or pleasure. ...Read more
More eval needed: You may have any number of issues causing this problem. This could be neurological, psychological, urological, or endocrine. Consult your urologist. ...Read more
Yes: Anhedonia is usually not total loss of pleasurable experiences. ...Read more
Work on it slowly!: A bad break up can result in a temporary loss of trust in the safety and the genuineness of intimate relationships. Its very difficult to enjoy sex when lacking such sense. As you build a new relationship, and you gain a sense of safety and trust in this relationship, intimacy and sex will be pleasurable again. Work on it slowly, and listen to your heart. ...Read more
Sometimes: Usually its related to hormones, which control blood flow and nerve sensation, as well as perception in the brain. If at the saame time, your libido is dropping, it could be testosterone, which is usualy about half at 40 of what it was at 20. You might consider adding in some testosterone and see if it changes things for you. ...Read more
Foreskin: The foreskin, as long as he's heterosexual. Besides, it's a lot easier to find and get to. ...Read more
Never: There is no age range to this. It depends on the woman, the man, and what is meant by "pleasure, " for both. If you mean sexual pleasure, ability to experience this can be affected by a variety of things in both men and women -- including medications and depression. Loss of interest in one's partner can be a different issue, and may come with relationship discord. See your doctor for help. ...Read more
Help? Every time I self pleasure I panic that I'm going to die is it possible to die from self pleasure?
Does having a hard foreskin affect sex pleasure?? will I be able to satisfy my wife? Will it hurt during sex????
Hard foreskin: Hard foreskin shouldn't affect you or your partner during sexual relations but should be evaluated by a physician to determine the exact cause. ...Read more
I have a question. When I pleasure myself, my chest becomes very red and hot like extremely hot. What causes this?
Yeah, that happens: It is normal for a blush response to occur in that region and the face with sexual arousal. ...Read more
I am 25 male and during sex I cannot feel as much pleasure as I used to and I find it very hard to reach my orgasm?
Why do people feel a lot pleasure when their favorite sports team wins even though they have nothing to do with the victory?
Fans: People like to feel connected to the team they support. They are happy when they win and sad when they lose. That's what it means to be a fan. ...Read more
Why don't I feel any pleasure during sex? I only feel pleasure during clitorial stimulation but not during sex. Is there something wrong with me?
We tried every condom and did it without it he didn't fin inside me, I still didn't feel any pleasure but I got very wet. He is very big and thick.
More stimulation: It is not uncommon for women to not have an orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. Many women need more stimulation of the clitoris. Talk with your partner about stimulating you more before sex. Use a good lubricant if needed. Make sure he is taking his time to enter you if he is large- your vagina can stretch, but it takes time. Always use condoms and birth control if you don't want pregnancy now ...Read more
Is this normal? I don't hate myself for eating, I just really dislike eating. I prefer coffee or other drinks. Food also has little pleasure value.
Your nutritional: Intake will suffer and your physical and emotional health will decline rapidly. Please see your doc for a suggested food plan. Also, ask him/or her about possible eating disorder. Peace and good health. ...Read more