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I had a cyst with mass in it two yrs ago it since has disapeard I have been bloated for 4 months cant have sex anymore because of pain peeing 24/7?

I had a cyst with mass in it two yrs ago it since has disapeard I have been bloated for 4 months cant have sex anymore because of pain peeing 24/7?

UTI and Gyn Exam: Pain passing urine indicates that you may have Urinary Tract Infection
You should consult your Primary Care Doctor and get urine tested and culture done and treated appropriately, You may also need Gynecologial Exam ...Read more

Sexual Intercourse (Definition)

Couples often worry about having sex during pregnancy. They may be afraid that having sex could cause a miscarriage or harm the baby. It is best to talk to your doctor or nurse midwife about your specific situation to make sure you are considered at low risk for complications such a ...Read more


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What happens if you and your partner have hpv, does that mean you can't have oral sex anymore?

What happens if you and your partner have hpv, does that mean you can't have oral sex anymore?

All sex is OK: When one member of a couple has HPV, it can be assumed the other has been repeatedly exposed and probably infected. At that point, there is no need to stop having sex of any kind -- vaginal, anal, oral. Even if you have or get oral HPV, it very rarely leads to cancer or any serious problem of any kind. No worries -- go ahead with unprotected sex of whatever type gives pleasure to both of you. ...Read more

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I want to take sex but I cant. Why?

I want to take sex but I cant. Why?

No one could answer: This question, M, without a lot more information. Sorry you are having the problem. You really should see a counselor or a physician with whom you can discuss everything openly. Good luck to you! ...Read more

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Helow dr, I cant last long during sex what should I do to keep my self last longer?

Helow dr, I cant last long during sex what should I do to keep my self last longer?

Pre-ejaculation: Pre-ejaculation is a common problem among men. This occurs when ejaculation and orgasm occur usually within one minute, to the dissatisfaction of either the man or partner or both. Causes of pre-ejaculation are complex. Treatments for pre-ejaculation vary, and a referral to a urologist or male sexual medicine specialist is warranted to tailor treatment to the particular cause. ...Read more

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How to improve my erection? I am feeingl so nervous to do sex and cant make it with my new partner. What should I do?

How to improve my erection? I am feeingl so nervous to do sex and cant make it with my new partner. What should I do?

Maybe not right yet.: If you're that nervous about having sex with your new partner maybe now is not the right time. This should be a reflection of intimacy and caring between two people and maybe you are not there yet. Strengthen the relationship, and get to know each other better and when it is right, things usually work out. If you still have trouble then see your doctor. ...Read more

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Cant slp in order for me to slp is to have sex?

Cant slp in order for me to slp is to have sex?

See below: Several options:
1) find a partner that wants to have sex.
2) masturbate
3) find something else to distract and tire you out before bed like exercise, a hobby, talking on the phone, etc. ...Read more

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Why do woman squirt during sex how come I can't is that normal is that bad that I cant?

Why do woman squirt during sex how come I can't is that normal is that bad that I cant?

Squirt is over-rated: Since the squirt is actually pee (urine), it is perfectly fine for a woman not to squirt. ...Read more

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Is it true u cant hav sex for 6 months after MRSA? Was told by a friend who had it and wanted to check.

Is it true u cant hav sex for 6 months after MRSA? Was told by a friend who had it and wanted to check.

Not true: I have never heard of this. Sex partners certainly could pick up MRSA sexually. But most people who catch MRSA don't get sick with it, and sex partners also are at risk simply from being in the same house, using the same kitchen and bathrooms, etc. Adding sex to the mix probably doesn't raise the risk any higher than otherwise. Maybe avoid sex until active infection gone, but not for 6 months. ...Read more

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I am 43yrs old and not sexually stimulated at all I cant have a orgasm n have'nt for over 2yrs now. I use to really enjoy sex what is wrong/?

I am 43yrs old and not sexually stimulated at all I cant have a orgasm n have'nt for over 2yrs now. I use to really enjoy sex what is wrong/?

You should: Check with your gyn to see if there are any anatomic or medical issues for your symptoms. If there are no organic causes, perhaps referral to a psychiatrist or psychologist might help. But check with your gyn first. ...Read more

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Hi Doc, I need help. I cant seem to be intimate with my husband. We have 2 small kids, been feeling like this for months, sometime faked sex enjoyment?

Hi Doc, I need help. I cant seem to be intimate with my husband. We have 2 small kids, been feeling like this for months, sometime faked sex enjoyment?

Evaluation: There are several causes of sexual dysfunction. Start with your obgyn to determine if your cause is a physical issue. If your exam is normal they may want to screen you for depression. If the issue seems more related to you life circumstances and your relationship then they may suggest seeing a sex therapist. There are many causes of this complex issue ...Read more

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My age is 20, sex male, wight 45kg. Without gastric problem I don't have much problem. But I cant gain my wight much. What can I do now? Should I take pedia sure, and if I should what type of pediasure I shoul take.

My age is 20, sex male, wight 45kg. Without gastric problem I don't have much problem. But I cant gain my wight much. What can I do now? Should I take pedia sure, and if I should what type of pediasure I shoul take.

Other supplement: At your age if you want to use a supplement I'd choose one for adults such as Ensure or Boost. Of course, there is also just the old upping your caloric intake every day by 20%. Also, has doctor checked things like your thyroid function to make sure that's not your problem? Sounds like time to discuss concern with doctor and a good dietician! ...Read more

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I cant have sex because I have 2 peroids every month what do I do?

I cant have sex because I have 2 peroids every month what do I do?

Evaluation: Hi, it is normal to have a cycle shorter than 21 day so you need to see a Gynecologist for evaluation. You might need to take birth control pill to regulate your periods. But why cannot you have sex, because of bleeding? ...Read more

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Cant come vaginal lubrication during sex?

Cant come vaginal lubrication during sex?

Try an oil: Based lubricant like astroglide for lubrication? Are u saying u can't have an orgasm? If so, it it during intercourse u cannot have one or in general? Are you on any medications? That's a tough one to investigate on this forum, main question is whether u have ever had an orgasm. ...Read more

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Is their a certain amount of time after the babys born that you cant have sex?

Is their a certain amount of time after the babys born that you cant have sex?

6 weeks: There isn't a certain specific time but we mostly recommend 6 weeks to give the woman's body time to heal after a vaginal birth. That's the only reason that I am aware of- to avoid introducing bacteria and trauma to a possible open "wound". ...Read more

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I had sex for the first time but now I cant stop having sex is there a problem?

I had sex for the first time but now I cant stop having sex is there a problem?

Maybe a problem: Sex drive varies a lot from one person to another. The critical thing at your age is to keep it in control. Only one partner, preferably in a committed relationship; and for sure use adequate contraception (see a doctor or clinic for hormonal type or maybe IUD) and ALSO use condoms every time. If sex is always on your mind and this bothers you, see an adolescent medicine specialist ASAP. ...Read more

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Why do I feel like I want to have sex with my husband but when it comes to it I cant?

Why do I feel like I want to have sex with my husband but when it comes to it I cant?

I don't know: Sex is a natural act between two people who love each other, so wanting to have sex with your husband is normal. Why you can't is not known. Are you frightened, shy, nervous of not being good" etc. If you love your husband, tell him your feelings an maybe you can work through it together. Sometimes, you may need a sex therapist. Good luck. ...Read more

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I'm a man who cant orgasm during sex but I can during masterbation, I would really like to fix this thanks.

I'm a man who cant orgasm during sex but I can during masterbation, I would really like to fix this thanks.

Here are some...: Orgasm is the desirable ending event of sexual cycle through arousal, erection, intercourse or masturbation, to orgasm, but does not always occur either sporadically or continually; medically, this condition is called anorgasmia, which is usually related with mental inhibition, drug adverse effects (SSRIs or other CNS-effecting drugs). More? Ask doc & to http://formefirst. Com/eNewsletter06.html. ...Read more

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Hi I have very very high sex drive I cant do anything without thinking of sex so is there any medicine that lowers libido?

Hi I have very very high sex drive I cant do anything without thinking of sex so is there any medicine that lowers libido?

See a life coach: First of all it is very common for a person your age to have an elevated sex drive. Instead of taking medicine to alter this, I suggest you exercise, find a hobby to distract yourself, or volunteer some of your time in the service of others. Taking medication is not always the solution. Consider seeing a counselor or therapist to help you navigate your way through this time in your life. ...Read more

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Have hepatitis b. My age 23 how many years I ill live. Cant marrry to other! How it affected in my blood. Am not sex to others then how?

Have hepatitis b. My age 23 how many years I ill live. Cant marrry to other! How it affected in my blood. Am not sex to others then how?

HBV infected people: Often have a normal lifespan although some can develop cirrhosis and liver cancer if not well managed. There is oral therapy available that can be very effective and the risk to others by sexual exposure is taken away by hbv vaccination. You can get married and you can have children. ...Read more

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Why cant my boyfriend ejaculate after the second time of sex? He will have an erection for 2 hours but won't be able to ejaculate. Is this normal?

Why cant my boyfriend ejaculate after the second time of sex? He will have an erection for 2 hours but won't be able to ejaculate. Is this normal?

Refractory period: There is a certain amount of time which varies from man during which, although able to obtain and maintain an erection, he will not be able to ejaculate: this is called a refractory period. Additionally, stress and performance anxiety can contribute to this. Best idea: understand that time is an issue and use that time wisely, to slowly and gradually stimulate him...and yourself- it will work...j ...Read more

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My bf (24 y/o) cant get hard. It’s been like this for 2 years & we only had sex like 10 times in 4 yrs. We r worried bc we want a baby. Any solutions?

My bf (24 y/o) cant get hard. It’s been like this for 2 years & we only had sex like 10 times in 4 yrs. We r worried bc we want a baby. Any solutions?

Erectile dysfunction: Your bf should see a urologist for an exam and testing. This is abnormal for his age, and may indicate problems which can be addressed. There are other solutions, using his sperm and timing your ovulation, which could assist with pregnancy. ...Read more

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I cant get an erection or keep one to be able to have sex.

I cant get an erection or keep one to be able to have sex.

E.D.: You have an erectile dysfunction. Generally, this is caused by a physical problem (organic) like as that caused by Diabetes or long standing High blood pressure, . or it could be Psychological, similar to "stage fright" where you can get stressed out and have difficulty due to psychological issues. Get an eval for diagnosis and treatment of your type. Good luck. ...Read more

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Deep penetration sex hurts and I cant be still I move alot and it upsets my boyfriend because he cant have his way but im in pain what to do?

Deep penetration sex hurts and I cant be still I move alot and it upsets my boyfriend because he cant have his way but im in pain what to do?

Dyspareunia: A common cause of dyspareunia: pelvic girdle instability caused by a unilateral sacroiliac joint (SIJ) subluxation. The missionary position evokes pain as the flexed, abducted, & externally rotated female femur torques the pelvic girdle & strains SIJ iliolumbar ligament. Spoon position with most pained hip superior, to float loose SIJ, might be more comfortable, as well as prove this bio-dynamic. ...Read more

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When ever I do sex with my partner and I can do only 2-4 mins and then relax. U cant do more time. Kindly help and sugest some medicine.. .

Premature ejaculatio: There are several ways to control this condition such as squeeze technique. SSRI medications such as paroxetine and sertraline are also helpful. See your doctor. ...Read more

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Why do I keep going back to my ex even though he said he doesn't love me & he cheated on me. I still cant stop myself from seeing him. Is it the sex?

Why do I keep going back to my ex even though he said he doesn't love me & he cheated on me. I still cant stop myself from seeing him. Is it the sex?

Well: Generally these type issues are complex physical and emotional issues. For specific diagnosis and treatment consult a psychologist this is available through health tap ...Read more

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I cant satisfied may wife in sex I mean I cant go longer from one minute so what medicens I can get to go normal sex activity from me age 26 height68?

Don't Lose hope: You are very young so have HOPE. Go see a good Urologist. I Ma certain he will figure out cause of your problem and SOLUTION for it too. Medicine has come a long way. But you MUST seek help for your sake and a to keep a happy marriage. ...Read more

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Hi I've noticed today I cant get an erection after having sex to many times in the last two days is it something I should be worried about?

Rest needed: Hi Tyler,
Sorry to hear of your troubles. Likely you just need to give your body a rest from sexual activity. Take at least a couple days. ...Read more