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Can laughter replace sex?

Can laughter replace sex?

Sometimes: Often great when laughter and sex are combined. Sometimes romance, sometimes fun, sometimes both. ...Read more

Laughter (Definition)

Laughter = psycho-physiological reflex which is often in response to ...Read more


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How does foreplay lead to better sex in senior men?

How does foreplay lead to better sex in senior men?

Here's some ways...: Time spent flirting, touching, caressing & kissing is time well spent. 1) longer foreplay is needed to accomplish strong & solid erection as men age. 2) penetration isn't all there is to good sex, nor is it even necessary. See how a session of non-intercourse sex works for you. 3) oral sex is a form of foreplay too! 4) adopt a fun mindset: have fun with your foreplay! fun leads to good sex. ...Read more

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Can you get bored by having sex with same partner for 15 years, can too much sex and ejaculation weaken the penis ?

Can you get bored  by having sex with same partner for 15 years,  can too much sex and ejaculation weaken the penis ?

Too much sex?: SaMM ! I at age 33 your 15 year itch takes you back to a fortuitous 18years of age at commencement of your monogamous r'ship, so ALL augur well for your future with your partner! Contrary to what the scions of the Church may say, its impossible to have too much sex (!) as long as your partner is as eager and willing, but get creative now, and involve your partner! :-))) ...Read more

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I want to completely eliminate emotions such as anger, love, hatred, disappointment, empathy and sexual attraction. How can I achieve that?

I want to completely eliminate emotions such as anger, love, hatred, disappointment, empathy and sexual attraction. How can I achieve that?

All part of life: These emotions are a normal part of human life. I would ask you why you want to eliminate these feelings? Some people don't want these feelings because of past trauma or being hurt deeply by someone they trusted. If that is the case for you, i suggest talk therapy as a path to healing. You can find help here: http://www.Rainn.Org/get-help please do that for yourself. Be well, . ...Read more

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Can psychotherapy prevent an attraction to the opposite sex? Heard they used shock treatment in 70s.

Can psychotherapy prevent an attraction to the opposite sex? Heard they used shock treatment in 70s.

Why: Why would one want to prevent an attraction ? In the bad old days people went to great lengths to try (and fail) to prevent a same-sex attraction because homosexuality had such a stigma. As far as i know there is no stigma to heterosexual attraction. ...Read more

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Is sex with condom ( friends with benefits, one night stand etc) healthier or masturbating when I can't seem to find love?

Is sex with condom ( friends with benefits, one night stand etc) healthier or masturbating when I can't seem to find love?

Define healthier: Partner sex is at least more in line with where you want to be in the years to come.Yet it has the inherent risk of pregnancy & STD's that add a dimension to sex not present when going solo. There are a lot of myths about bad health effects of solo sex, yet in truth they are just myths. ...Read more

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Can baby oil replace k-y lube for sexual activity?

Can baby oil replace k-y lube for sexual activity?

No: Is not indicated to use oil based lubricants as it will destroy the condoms and irritate your vaginal mucosa.Specially designed lubricants use different substances more mucosa and latex friendly. ...Read more

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How can I fix my lack of sexual stamina as a male with previously high sex drive?

Low sex drive: The fix depends on the cause of your decreased stamina or sex drive. There are many causes. The best advice is to call your doctor for an examination to determine the cause and then you can have proper treatment. ...Read more

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Can you explain if it's possible that porn and masturbation addiction can alter ones arousal triggers permanently?

Can you explain if it's possible that porn and masturbation addiction can alter ones arousal triggers permanently?

Learned responses: Essentially all young males enjoy images and bringing themselves to orgasm. There's a huge amount of variability in turn-ons for different men, and how much is inborn or imprinted early in life is mysterious. You're addicted if, and only if, you're missing out on the rest of life, and if so, your physician can help with talk ;/or medication. If dad's sensible, why not talk with him? ...Read more

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If ADHD people react positively to dopamine related meds, then why their ADHD symptoms don't improve when in love or during an orgasm?

If ADHD people react positively to dopamine related meds, then why their ADHD symptoms don't improve when in love or during an orgasm?

Its not that simple: Formal face to face assessment for cognitive dysfunction including formal neuropsychological testing requires a good physical exam, neuro exam, psychiatric history and cognitive testing. Typically I spend about 3 1/2-4 1/2 hours with a patient before I suggest any sort of remediation. Every one is different. Your's is a good question. Give me about an hour to review the details of your work up. ...Read more

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Will proctitis affect my sex life or sexual energy?

Will proctitis affect my sex life or sexual energy?

Depends on severity: Mild proctitis is a nuisance that does not significantly effect much else but severe proctitis can severely effect you energy overall, sexual and otherwise. When your body is putting a lot of energy in healing your proctitis not much is left for other "optional" activities. ...Read more

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Can riding sex position stimulate the g-spot or doggy style is much more effective.

Can riding sex position   stimulate the g-spot or doggy style is much  more effective.

Easy....: Most women say that the women on top position allows her to allow penetration to go the right location. The rear entry position allows the man to be more in charge of the location inside. ...Read more

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Does watching porn and masturbating effect the erection capabilities in real sex scenarios? If yes then how to cure this problem?

Does watching porn and masturbating effect the erection capabilities in real sex scenarios? If yes then how to cure this problem?

Porn can: Disrupt real intimacy by cultivating the fantasy of the physically flawless woman who cares about nothing but sex all the time and everyday and lives only for the sexual, lustful fulfillment of the man. Going to therapy and a 12 step group like sex addicts anonymous can start to work on this split between fantasy and genuine intimacy between two real people. ...Read more

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Someone told me that aromatherapy can relieve stress. Can a candle replace the oils and stuff that are used in aromatherapy?

Someone told me that aromatherapy can relieve stress. Can a candle replace the oils and stuff that are used in aromatherapy?

May not be as: fully effective. Aromatherapy essential oils are absorbed by the body via both inhalation and absorption through the skin. ...Read more

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How can I try to.control.my partner.when he is.going through an orgasm ??

How can I try to.control.my partner.when he is.going through an orgasm ??

Control?: Control? I have absolutely no idea what or why you are asking. Control your partner? To do what? ...Read more

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In some bad situations which cause anger or sadness, i laugh or smile without being able to control myself! what is the problem? Plz help. Thank you

In some bad situations which cause anger or sadness, i laugh or smile without being able to control myself! what is the problem? Plz help. Thank you

Anxiety: In primates there is what has been described as the "fear grin." i wonder if this is what you are describing. If you feel nervous, unsure, insecure etc, there can be a tendency to smile, grin, giggle, etc. Increasing our confidence that our feelings are valid is part of working on increased assertiveness. Therapy may help, you may also find helpful the book the four agreements by don miguel ruiz. ...Read more

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If two partners willingly use abusive language during sex and finds it pleasurable, does that mean they do not actually love each other?

If two partners willingly use abusive language during sex and finds it pleasurable, does that mean they do not actually love each other?

Many varieties: There are countless varieties of sexual activity, and these may or may not be accompanied by feelings of love. The two are not identical. Abusive language can be demeaning. One partner can submit to the other, or both can enjoy abusing each other. This is not everyone's cup of tea, and may represent unhealthy attitudes towards one's self, sex, or one's sexual partner. ...Read more

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8 days of Lexapro and I can't achieve orgasm. Sure hope when the "good feelings" get here they FAR outweigh that frustration. Can't use Wellbutrin (bupropion).

8 days of Lexapro and I can't achieve orgasm. Sure hope when the "good feelings" get here they FAR outweigh that frustration. Can't use Wellbutrin (bupropion).

Here are some...: Your frustration from changing sexual functions after taking Lexapro, (escitalopram) one of SSRIs, is understandable but expected in some patients. No doctor can predict what side effects may occur in certain patients. The only way we may try is stressing lifestyle with minimal or no use of these drugs, and see. So, report the side effect to prescribing doc for possible adjusting its dose or ... ...Read more

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I've noticed a loss in pleasure during receptive anal sex which may be attributable to low testosterone. How can I increase and monitor these levels?

Testosterone : Your doc should be able to check these levels, typically in the mornings.Make sure the total and free testosterone levels are checked.Treating testosterone deficiency requires the expertise of a physician who has had training on this , so see if your doc can do it or refer you to someone who is knowledgable in this area. ...Read more

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