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Can depression make you fall out of love with someone?

Can depression make you fall out of love with someone?

Yes: You can lose your emotional tone necessary for connectedness. That is why we do not recommend that people make any life decisions until depression lifts. ...Read more

Dr. Pamela Pappas
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Depression (Definition)

Depression is a mood disorder that can affect behavior and emotions. Symptoms of depression include feeling down most of the time, losing interest in previously enjoyable activities, increase or decrease in appetite or weight, sleeping more or less, becoming easily agitated or lethargic, feeling worthless, feeling guilty, having difficulty concentrating, thinking more about death and dying. Depression can sometimes result in suicidal thoughts and plans. In this case, emergent ...Read more


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Harming self but not to suicide. Not willing to think in future or fall into relations or get loved. Mostly sick, is it depression?

Harming self but not to suicide. Not willing to think in future or fall into relations or get loved. Mostly sick, is it depression?

Probably: Please call your local mental health hotline or proceed directly to the ER for psychiatric evaluation. Please call 911 and explain that you have been trying to hurt yourself. ...Read more

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Is it potentially dangerous to fall in love while having a mental illness (ADD/anxiety/depression/bipolar)? Can infatuation "interact" with medication

Is it potentially dangerous to fall in love while having a mental illness (ADD/anxiety/depression/bipolar)? Can infatuation "interact" with medication

Depends on your : Definition of love? This is too broad of a question in a medical forum. Are you asking if your emotional judgement is impaired or clouded while taking psychiatric meds? Hopefully your moods are more stable, while you're on them to make better choices, not worse choices. You can always ask friends & family when introducing your new friend to them. Second opinions are often helpful! ...Read more

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I'm afraid that I won't find someone to fall in love with. Am I depressed?

I'm afraid that I won't find someone to fall in love with. Am I depressed?

No: Fear that you won't find someone to fall in love with is a perfectly normal feeling, especially in young adults, and does not indicate depression. Indicators of depression are, but not limited to, fatigue, change in appetite, feelings of worthlessness, changes in sleep patterns, and becoming withdrawn from social interactions. If you are having these symptoms, please talk with your primary care doc. ...Read more

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How does ADD fall in with depression?

How does ADD fall in with depression?

Comorbidities: About 50% of ADD/ADHD cases are comorbid with other disorders from Learning issues to Anxiety to Depression and other behavior disorders like conduct or oppositional defiant disorder. Depression is usually seen through the repeated failures and consequences and punishment cycles that children and adults experience because of poor attention. ...Read more

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How do I know if I have love sickness or depression?

How do I know if I have love sickness or depression?

Lovesickness: "lovesickness" may be quite intense, especially if the person you're interested in isn't interested in you. Sleep, appetite, and interest in other activities beyond the object of affection may be poor -- but suicidal ideation is not usually part of lovesickness. Here's a popular run-down on lovesickness: http://tinyurl.Com/mos74hm. ...Read more

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Any advice to deal with depression in your loved ones?

Any advice to  deal with depression in your loved ones?

Spend time together: Depression distorts perception and colors every experience. More than during other times, being loved is an achor and reminder that life is still worth living. By spending time together, the goal is to communicate support without making demand. Important to stay connected to your friends and family yourself. Know that with treatment, depression will pass. It is opportunity to grow closer. ...Read more

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What causes a person suffering from depression push their loved ones away?

Negative thoughts : It is a double edged sword , depression leads to all thoughts being negative and a pervasive sense of unhappiness is projected most on the environment around you and relationship that you interact most with. On the other side it is " very difficult to be with some one who is impossible to please because he depression. ...Read more

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How fast can a person fall into depression?

How fast can a person fall into depression?

It varies: Sometimes depression comes on rapidly following a death, traumatic experience or other loss. This is called reactive depression which can happen to anyone. Clinical depression is cyclic and probably builds over time due to stress and physiological changes. Many depressions are a combination of a reaction and physiological causes. ...Read more

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How can I help with the depression of a loved one?

See link : I like to use the national institute of mental health for information and guidance. It is non-biased i.e. No commercials. I direct family and loved ones of people with depression to this link:

http://www.Nimh.Nih.Gov/health/publications/depression/how-can-i-help-a-loved-one-who-is-depressed.Shtml

also---after your loved one is stabilized, ask to attend a meeting with their doctor/therapist. ...Read more

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Can you tell me how quick can a person fall into depression?

Can you tell me how quick can a person fall into depression?

A formal diagnosis: Of major depression - requires at least two weeks duration of symptoms. ...Read more

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How to determine what kind of depression category you fall under?

How to determine what kind of depression category you fall under?

Diagnostic interview: Ask the psychologist or psychiatrist who is evaluating you about this. It may take more than one evaluation session to obtain accurate assessment. ...Read more

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Could you tell me what form of depression is caused by the death of a loved one?

Could you tell me what form of depression is caused by the death of a loved one?

Bereavement vs MDD: There isn't a specific form of depression per se that is "caused" by the death of a loved one. However, a condition called "bereavement" occurs when one develops depressive symptoms in response to the death of a loved one, which acknowledges the normal human response to loss. However, when these symptoms exceed 6 months, an additional diagnosis of depression is often warranted albeit variations. ...Read more

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Lost a loved one a few months and still blue. Where can I go and get tested for depression?

Hospice: I am sorry for your loss.Hospice is very skilled at dealing with your exact problem.Please contact them. ...Read more

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Got mental tension due to love issue. After this i suffered ED is this somthing to do with my depression. Pls advice.? Never happened before.

Got mental tension due to love issue. After this i suffered ED is this somthing to do with my depression.  Pls advice.? Never happened before.

Erectile dysfunction: Emotional and relationship conflict or anxiety is one of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction, but not the only one. Smoking, hypertension, diabetes, low testosterone, and other things are possible also. You could work with a psychotherapist to explore and resolve emotional issues, and see your physician to rule out or deal with any others. ...Read more

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I love to be isolated but sometimes i suffer that and it causes me temporary depression. How can this intense need be comorbid with its opposite?

They are related: The intense desire to be isolated can be a result of depression, feeling of inadequancy or loss of interest in pleasure activity. If the urge is obliged, it could reinforce depression. If such urge is do to resentment or anger, it could lead to depression. Seek professional help render than giving to self isolation. ...Read more

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I get v v angry and aggressive.i want to know how to control this behaviour.are this signs of depression..its effecting my children.i love them a lot.

I get v v angry and aggressive.i want to know how to control this behaviour.are this signs of depression..its effecting my children.i love them a lot.

Bless you for recog-: nizing that parental anger is detrimental to kids. Discipline wirh emotion is ineffective, as positive or negative attention reinforces behavior. See your primary care for referral to a psychiatrist to assess for unipolar or bipolar depression & discuss medical management & to a psychologist for therapy. Family therapy is a good idea, also, a safe way both to apologize & set behavioral limits. ...Read more

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Have completely disconnected with everyone. Even with my gf of 4 years. I feel like I'm out of love. I was recently diagnosed with depression. Normal?

Have completely disconnected with everyone. Even with my gf of 4 years. I feel like I'm out of love. I was recently diagnosed with depression. Normal?

Social withdrawall: is one of nine sxs of major depression. Isolating from your gf of 4 years is noy a good sign. Check in with a psychologist. ...Read more

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My girlfriends depression has progressively gotten worse- I want to stand by her because I love her but she's not the same person anymore what do I do?

My girlfriends depression has progressively gotten worse- I want to stand by her because I love her but she's not the same person anymore what do I do?

What to do?: Standing with her means be loving , supportive , making sure she takes her medication on daily basis , seeing her physician and her therapist and making her exercise, since exercise, can increase endorphins and can be helpful in decreasing depressive symptoms. ...Read more

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Can anger or depression issues make you want to say nasty things to loved ones?

Can anger or depression issues make you want to say nasty things to loved ones?

It certainly can.: But remember, we are always responsible for our actions even if we are in pain. Words can harm people and words can harm relationships. If you or someone you care about has problems with depression/ irritability - a medical evaluation would be a good place in start in addressing it. ...Read more

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Why can't I fall asleep? Could it be depression?

Why can't I fall asleep? Could it  be depression?

Many reasons: There are a whole host of reasons why you can't fall asleep: too much caffeine, sleep apnea, not sleeping at the right time, a disturbed internal clock, and - yes - depression. This should be evaluated by a sleep expert, and i would urge you to do so. Lack of sleep can be quite harmful. ...Read more

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What do you advise if I have chronic depression related to love?

What do you advise if I have chronic depression related to love?

Psychotherapy: You could work with a psychologist in psychotherapy to resolve the difficulties you're having with love, and/or how this relates to your overall mood. ...Read more

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What's a good way to handle the intense sadness and depression with the loss of a loved one?

Grief counseling: Please find a pastor or a therapist who can assist you with the grief process. ...Read more

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How typical is it for old people to fall in depression when their partner gets seriously ill?

Yes: Yes it is. Your partner has become a big part of your life and your identity. When your loved one can no longer participate in the things you once shared - that is a loss. When you see a loved one in pain - you grieve. When you think about possibly losing your loved one - you fear. Make sure to spend time with others who care for you and can provide comfort. Prayer may also help. Take care. ...Read more

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I'm worried I may fall into a depression being on disability for a month, how can I prevent this?

Fear can be positive: Your question shows three positives. ! - you're concerned about becoming depressed, 2 - your disability is short term, 3 - you want to prevent depression. That's a real good start to solving the problem. What has made you worry you might get depressed? What is your disability and is it truly short term? Who can you talk to to get answers to those questions? Talk to your dr. Or counselor for help. ...Read more

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How to deal with post movie depression? I don't want to stop watching the movies I love but when I watch them I got depressed? what to do?

How to deal with post movie depression?
I don't want to stop watching the movies I love but when I watch them I got depressed?
what to do?

Ok, I want to try to: be sensitive about how I word this. But, it is important to have a full life. If you watch movies you love and afterwards see that your life is not that rewarding - it can be a let down. It is important to fill your life with friends, creative endeavors, exercise, etc. ...Read more

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My ex says he loves me & wants to be with me yet he can't because of his anxiety & depression & he won't get help. I don't know what's going on.

My ex says he loves me & wants to be with me yet he can't because of his anxiety & depression & he won't get help. I don't know what's going on.

Respect his request.: He is ultimately responsible to decide if he will accept mental health help or not. Sometimes a person can desire to be with someone but be aware that it isn't in their own best interest. Unfortunately, even if you really care - you won't be able to direct to do the things that you believe will help him. Take care. ...Read more