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Should I let my boyfriend watch porn secretly?.. Is that bad?

Should I let my boyfriend watch porn secretly?.. Is that bad?

News Flash!: (he's watching it already!) whether you "let" him do anything, a guy is going to do what he wants to do — masturbating and watching porn are normal everyday male activities, just like brushing your teeth is for you. Guys are just made differently. It's not bad, it's just the way things are. Give him about 20-30 years, and he'll calm down with the sex-talk, sex-begging, sex-thinking, etc. ...Read more

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My boyfriend is having trouble ejactulating? Before we got together he was watching a lot of porn. Could this cause him to have the problem?

My boyfriend is having trouble ejactulating?  Before we got together he was watching a lot of porn. Could this cause him to have the problem?

Stop the porn: It is possible that your boyfriend has an addiction to porn and that it has become a conditioned stimulus that he needs to achieve sexual climax. Assuming no medical problems, it would help for him to speak with a sex addiction specialist. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I barely have sex he watch porn some time we sleep in different rooms?

My boyfriend and I barely have sex he watch porn some time we sleep in different rooms?

What is your ? : If your current relationship is unacceptable to you, ask your doctor for a referral for individual therapy to explore why you're still in it & learn steps to take to extricate yourself from it. If your BF chooses not to participate in couples' counseling, you can only do what's right for you. ...Read more

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I'm staying with my boyfriend and we do have sex a lot but most the time I will find him maturbating secretly and watching porn movies alone,?

I'm staying with my boyfriend and we do have sex a lot but most the time I will find him maturbating secretly and watching porn movies alone,?

Sexuality: Masturbation is a common and normal sexual activity that humans do. Even married or partnered humans masturbate. Your implied question was is his behavior normal. It sounds normal since he has not stopped being sexual with you. But, only you can tell if this bothers you. ...Read more

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Does anyone think that if your boyfriend watches porn its cheating?

Does anyone think that if your boyfriend watches porn its cheating?

You decide: In today's world, you won't find a man who doesn't occasionally look at his favorite type of erotic images, any more than you'll find a man who doesn't enjoy watching sports or tinkering with machines. To ask for more is to set yourself up for a lifetime of disappointment. Find a man who tires quickly of the banality, and who treats you well, knowing that you're real and the fantasies aren't. ...Read more

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My boyfriend watches porn every day, is that normal? My boyfriend watches porn every day, is that normal?

My boyfriend watches porn every day, is that normal? My boyfriend watches porn every day, is that normal?

Maybe: All men like images that present an idealized version of loving and features perfect bodies in fantasy scenarios. Neither you nor he will be able to change this. It does not mean that he cares less about you or is less committed to his relationship with you. Be the best partner you can be for him, and he will appreciate your depth and authenticity over what he knows to be silly stuff. ...Read more

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Does anyone think that if your boyfriend watches porn its cheating? Please anyone and everyone answer asap

Sexuality: It is not appropriate for physicians to share their bias on these type of issues. But here is what I know about sexuality: all people are sexual. All humans have a variety of ways they are sexual. Many humans masturbate even when in relationship. Many humans watch porn. The boundaries in a relationship should be discussed, but the right for ones sexual choices must be safe to discuss. ...Read more

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Boyfriend wants porn star sized implants, but I think maybe going from a b cup to a d cup sized?

Boyfriend wants porn star sized implants, but I think maybe going from a b cup to a d cup sized?

A fantasy: The boyfriend has a fantasy of female beauty and desirabiity based upon his looks at porn where large breasts are at a premium. If your personal desire is to increase your cup size, by all means consider it. If having breasts the size your boyfriend fantasizes about, and that is the basis of the relationship, you might rethink things. Your size should be self pleasing; boyfriends are transient. ...Read more

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I see my boyfriend have a lot of nude girls pictures that take from fb and porn movies! Is this an addiction?

I see my boyfriend have a lot of nude girls pictures that take from fb and porn movies! Is this an addiction?

It certainly can be: Sex addiction takes many forms. Preoccupation with porn is not "just what guys do, " that is a form of denial. If it hurts you and he continues to do it despite your telling him how it is affecting you, he may need help to stop. If this is the problem, there are groups for both him and for you as well. There is saa (sexaa. Org) for him, and cosa (cosa-recovery. Org) for you. ...Read more

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Does it mean anything if watching forceful porn turns me on?

Does it mean anything if watching forceful porn turns me on?

Yes: It means even more that you have asked this question -- you're probably a kinder and nicer person than most others. There's some dominance and submission in all erotic relationships, and many husband-wife teams play roles in which one pretends to "force" the other. The key is simply keeping fantasy ; reality separate, and being good and decent in all your relationships. ...Read more

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Why do men watch porn? Does it mean they aren't interested in their wife?

Why do men watch porn? Does it mean they aren't interested in their wife?

Variety: Some men are looking for variety in women. That may damage relationship with their wives. ...Read more

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What to do if my hubby wants me to watch porn with him but I don't want to should i?

What to do if my hubby wants me to watch porn with him but I don't want to should i?

Here's an idea: You're to be commended for understanding that we men like images, and that the excitement that they bring can enhance the joy you find in one another. I bet there are some erotic videos the two of you would enjoy together -- not the trash, but perhaps some of what's available on actual technique, or "soft-core" that's as much about romance and beauty as the more physical side. Explore together. ...Read more

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Please tell me if it is horrible that I feel the urge to watch porn from time to time?

Please tell me if it is horrible that I feel the urge to watch porn from time to time?

Embrace real love: Don't beat yourself up, just know that the perfect bodies and fantasy scenarios will lead you nowhere. All male humans become excited over erotic images in some form or other, and this is perfectly natural. The vast majority us tire of it quickly, and understand that what we really want is a quality, loving, adult relationship -- or a clean bachelor life without the crazy problems of casual stuff. ...Read more

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Can you please tell me if I will eventually mature out of feeling the need to watch porn?

Can you please tell me if I will eventually mature out of feeling the need to watch porn?

Find real love: All men notice and actually seek out erotic images. Tastes and preferences vary tremendously. I would be concerned if you did not find this kind of thing exciting, but I'd be equally concerned if it occupied your attention in place of a search for real human warmth and companionship. You'll never lose your turn-ons, but your life will be far richer if you seek to share1 real, authentic love. ...Read more

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Is it possible to have zero interest/attraction in real sex with my girlfriend because watching too much porn for years?

Is it possible to have zero interest/attraction in real sex with my girlfriend because watching too much porn for years?

Yes, but...: The short answer is yes. The longer answer is that porn represents fantasy that is free of commitment or intimacy. In real life, most often, sex within relationship to another person requires some degree of commitment and intimacy. There are no rules or boundaries in the bedroom among consenting adults, so I would encourage you to share your concerns as well as your desires with your partner. ...Read more

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I am 25 years old and I have to watch porn or anything related to every week at least twice a week. I need to know how to stop this bad habit?

I am 25 years old and I have to watch porn or anything related to every week at least twice a week.

I need to know how to stop this bad habit?

Male Sexuality: I do not see a reason behind your question. You are describing a very common part of sexuality. Watching porn, common as it may be, can lead one to objectify their sexual partners and to have unrealistic expectations on what can or should happen with sexual play with the partner. The frequency you report is not obsessive or addict like. Perhaps seeing a sex therapist is next on the list. ...Read more

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If watching porn has any benefits to be achieved by the user? Do you recommend it?

If watching porn has any benefits to be achieved by the user? Do you recommend it?

Because pornography: Turns what should b a caring loving act between 2human beings into demeaning and often abusive interactions, which may lead 2additional inappropriate actions especially by men towards women, I cannot recommend it. Some people may believe it does no harm 2watch it, but I disagree. If uwant 2develop healthier relationships that will lead 2healthy intimacy work with a therapist. Porn will mislead u. ...Read more

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Need to know is watching too much porn an addiction?

Need to know is watching too much porn an addiction?

It can be: If it is getting in the way of other activities, if it done to the exclusion of trying to develop relationships with actual people, if you feel guilty or bad after orgasm with porn. Most people, both men and women, use pornography sometimes, either when interactive sex isn't possible, or even to enhance sex with other people. If porn replaces human-human contact, then it is a problem. ...Read more

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Is watching porn bad?

Is watching porn bad?

Maybe, maybe not: So much depends on a fuller story. If it is causing problems, it's not a simple question, is it? Too much of anything can be a problem. If it ruins other sex, it's a problem. If your lover is troubled, it's a problem. This is a thing only you can decide. Talking to a therapist can help you see it clearly. ...Read more

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How to stop watching porn?

How to stop watching porn?

Behavior Therapy?: A good psychotherapist can help you evaluate this problem and try various techniques to modify your habit. It might be simple or more complicated, so be patient and pick one you trust to work with. It IS possible and might even be a non-zero solution. Best! ...Read more

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Does watching porn make men want sex?

Does watching porn make men want sex?

Usually: Watching porn is sexually arousing so that men get an erection and then usually will want to masturbate or have sex. ...Read more

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I am watching porn so much are this bad?

I am watching porn so much are this bad?

Porn: Please ask yourself these questions: Does this keep me from going to work? Does this keep me up so late at night that I am sleep-deprived? Does this use up so much time that it interferes w/my life.? Does this keep me from having healthy real-life relationships? Any activity that does the above needs to be modified. A mental health professional can help. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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How can I continue to resist watching porn?

How can I continue to resist watching porn?

Self control: You probably understand that porn is generally fake, objectifies the victims (usually women), and is done by paid models under controlled conditions in no way reflecting reality. It sounds as though one of your companions is trying to encourage you to indulge — and it seems that you have the maturity to understand reality. Keep up the good work. ...Read more

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Do kids who watch porn on tv hotels get influenced?

Do kids who watch porn on tv hotels get influenced?

Certainly: Kids who watch porn get exposed to a totally unrealistic and often violent depiction of women (or men) as objects of sex. This can only have negative effects later in life. ...Read more

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Porn watching can make me less capable to learn something?

Porn watching can make me less capable to learn something?

Well: If you watch pornography in an addictive manner, it may prevent you from spending time doing things which are more educational. ...Read more

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I masturbate at least once a day and watch porn a lot. How can I stop?

I masturbate at least once a day and watch porn a lot. How can I stop?

Try this: Most men enjoy their bodies frequently, and all men look at erotic images. If you're obsessed with erotica and it's taking away from the other good things in life, some talk with your physician ;/or medication can help free you from a compulsion. Otherwise, do like most guys and move from the excitement of trashy stuff to a real, quality relationship with another person -- when you're ready. ...Read more

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Is there any effect on the future height of teenagers from watching porn?

Is there any effect on the future height of teenagers from watching porn?

Confused: Please be a bit more specific with your question are you talking about height as in foot 7 inches are you talking about height and how far they can succeed in their career or future. You're speaking about physical height there's been no research to show that makes a difference but there's lots of research to show that watching pornography negatively effects their success of romantic relationships including intimacy commitment and sexual expectations. ...Read more

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If watching porn which het done in daily manner is harmful for mental health?

If watching porn which het done in daily manner is harmful for mental health?

It can be unhealthy: Although wathing porn occasionally is not harmful. But wathing porn daily can lead to sexual dysfunctions, sex aggressiveness and sexual addiction. ...Read more

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How do I stop watching porn, I think its destroying my self-confidence please help?

How do I stop watching porn, I think its destroying my self-confidence please help?

12 step and therapy: Hello, the way that I have seen patients overcome an addiction to porn is to join a twelve step group for sex addiction (e.g. Saa or a faith based 12 step group called "celebrate recovery"). The other component is to see a psychologist or other type of therapist to explore what the porn addiction means in the life of that person. How it is toxic to one's self-confidence, and how to cope and heal. ...Read more

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