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Boyfriend gets mad if I turn off to or don't want sex. Just fake it?

Boyfriend gets mad if I turn off to or don't want sex. Just fake it?

DON'T EVER FAKE: Anything to make someone else happy, unless you can live with that... ...Read more

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If i want to get pregnant can I if I have a fiancé that drinks n smokes? Or does it mess up or kill his sperm ?

If i want to get pregnant  can I if I have a fiancé that drinks n smokes?  Or does it mess up or kill his sperm ?

Yes: Alcohol has not really been shown to affect sperm count. Smoking can affect the sperm in multiple ways but no one knows exactly how much will affect it. That being said, although i recommend smoking cessation and alcohol in moderation, you can still get pregnant. ...Read more

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I fingered my self using only two fingers and I would like to know when it comes time to have sex will I still bleed or will it hurt?

I fingered my self using only two fingers and I would like to know when it comes time to have sex will I still bleed or will it hurt?

Maybe. Maybe not.: The bleeding with first sex idea is overdone. Bleeding means there were little tears. If a woman has a healthy vulva, vagina, and hymen; if she is very stretchy; if she is happy and relaxed, with lots of natural lubrication; if a guy enters at a good angle, at the right spot; if he moves with small motions until she is well-lubricated and stretched out; there may not be tearing nor bleeding. ...Read more

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I feel like I don't get wet enough when having sex and it scares me that the condom will break. Should I use lube? If so, what kind? Will it irritate?

I feel like I don't get wet enough when having sex and it scares me that the condom will break. Should I use lube? If so, what kind? Will it irritate?

Yes: You can though it may or may not irritate your vagina. Their are multiple brands. They are not prescription hence hard to recommend any particular type ...Read more

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Im 8 weeks. I want to abort but i dont want my family or bf to know. How can i fake a misscarage if they not going to leave my side when rushed to ER?

Im 8 weeks. I want to abort but i dont want my family or bf to know. How can i fake a misscarage if they not going to leave my side when rushed to ER?

No Abortions in ER: Doctors in ER do not perform abortions and even if you fake the symptoms of miscarriage,you will have negative exam for misscrriage. We do not give advice on this site to lie and fake.If you want to Abort the pregnancy make an appointment with a clinic or a doctor who performs abortion. ...Read more

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I am a guy and I would like to know could I pass on trichomonas to my girlfriend if she gives me oral sex. Not that I want to deliberately receive it from her she just loves to do it and I don't want to expose her to something that could harm her. Honest

I am a guy and I would like to know could I pass on trichomonas to my girlfriend if she gives  me oral sex. Not that I want to deliberately receive it from her she just loves to do it and I don't want to expose her to something that could harm her. Honest

Trichamonas: Before you have any more sex get treated fro trichamonas It is irresponsible to have sex with someone when you have a sexually transmiitted disease. If you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to take responsibility and get treated. it is a one dose treatment f/u with urgent care today http://www.cdc.gov/std/trichomonas/treatment.htm ...Read more

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I don't want to wake up anymore my life can't get any worse than it is now..Help?

I don't want to wake up anymore my life can't get any worse than it is now..Help?

Get help: If you are having thoughts about killing yourself, get seen at the nearest emergency room now. Have a friend or relative drive you or call 911 for emergency services for transport. You can call the National suicide hotlines 24/7 at 1-800-suicide (1-800-784-2433) or 1-800-273 – talk (1-800-273-8255) for support. ...Read more

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What to do if i got man boobs and they wont piss off :(?

What to do if i got man boobs and they wont piss off :(?

Depends: Are you overweight? Has your doctor ever said your bmi is high. If not then see a surgeon. You may have gynecomastia which is easily treated by removal of excess breast tissue. Surgery can be done as an outpatient. ...Read more

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I have a septate hymen it doesnt bother me at all. i was wondering they will want to cut it when i get put on birth control? id just like to know more

I have a septate hymen it doesnt bother me at all. i was wondering they will want to cut it when i get put on birth control? id just like to know more

Septate hymen: Many women will break down the septated area during tampon insertion or during first intercourse. I probably wouldn't do this in the office just because you were wanting birth control. Honestly if you are wanting it removed talk with a gynecologist. I would suggest you have it removed under at least a bit of sedation unless it is very thin. ...Read more

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Why after sex do I just want to be alone, bathe and sleep? I don't want to cuddle like most girls do. I get angry with my partner after sex.

Why after sex do I just want to be alone, bathe and sleep? I don't want to cuddle like most girls do. I get angry with my partner after sex.

Well, I don't know : The cause of your post traumatic stress disorder. Perhaps that has something to do with your anger toward your partner and your wish to isolate. It really isn't something that can be dealt with adequately on line. Obviously it is impacting your life. It is worth dealing with in therapy. Take care. ...Read more

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I let a friend use my shorts, & he claims to have underwear on, but I do not know that. After 2 days, I wore it. Can I get hpv from it if he had hpv ?

I let a friend use my shorts, & he claims to have underwear on, but I do not know that. After 2 days, I wore it. Can I get hpv from it if he had hpv ?

Here are some...: Your carefulness and concern are plausible but way too far from reality. To help understand life reality and disease better, go to peruse articles in Basics of Self-Care in http://www.formefirst.com/Basics-SelfImprovement.html. Under current described scenario, your odd to develop HPV should be next to zero. More, Seek evaluation and counseling timely. ...Read more

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I want to have another baby but he says that turns him off and can't do it?

I want to have another baby but he says that turns him off and can't do it?

Need a referee: Whether he's willing or not u need to have some discussions with a counselor to help u decide what you want out of life, what another baby would mean for your situation & how to deal with your spouse. Over time you may gain enough skills to help him open up to you so you can approach the idea as a team. ...Read more

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Now that i'm pregnant i cry a lot more and get mad easier i get mad enough to where i punch stuff and cry hard will that hurt the baby if i cry to haha?

Now that i'm pregnant i cry a lot more and get mad easier i get mad enough to where i punch stuff and cry hard will that hurt the baby if i cry to haha?

Anger and crying: Crying hard will not hurt the baby -- but it sounds like you could be having some major problems with your mood. Please tell your obgyn physician that this is happening. It's possible to become seriously depressed during pregnancy. You'll also need an evaluation with a psychiatrist who can work as a team with your obgyn. Sometimes medications are needed, to help you and your baby. ...Read more

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What causes me no interest in having sex. I flirt and do things to him buf then when its time i just don't want to. Could it be my medicine?

Decreased libido: Yes, many medications interfere with sexual arousal and desire. Not necessary both at the same time. Ask your doctor whether your medications might be related to your loss of interest in sex...Also, psychological factors are often involved. ...Read more

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My girlfriends depression has progressively gotten worse- I want to stand by her because I love her but she's not the same person anymore what do I do?

My girlfriends depression has progressively gotten worse- I want to stand by her because I love her but she's not the same person anymore what do I do?

What to do?: Standing with her means be loving , supportive , making sure she takes her medication on daily basis , seeing her physician and her therapist and making her exercise, since exercise, can increase endorphins and can be helpful in decreasing depressive symptoms. ...Read more

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Why do I feel like i want to have sex with my husband but when it comes to it i cant?

Why do I feel like i want to have sex with my husband but when it comes to it i cant?

I don't know: Sex is a natural act between two people who love each other, so wanting to have sex with your husband is normal. Why you can't is not known. Are you frightened, shy, nervous of not being good" etc. If you love your husband, tell him your feelings an maybe you can work through it together. Sometimes, you may need a sex therapist. Good luck. ...Read more