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I haven't had sex in a year but my boyfriend fingered me tonight & now I'm in pain & sore down there. Sorry for the tmi but is this normal?

I haven't had sex in a year but my boyfriend fingered me tonight & now I'm in pain & sore down there. Sorry for the tmi but is this normal?

Any lubrication?: Either your natural lubrication or something like K-Y jelly. And tell your cowboy to stop it if it is bothering you. You are supposed to be enjoying this. If you are in pain I assume that you were not enjoying it, unless ...Read more

Bladder (Definition)

The bladder is a muscular organ in the pelvis that accepts urine from the kidneys, stores the urine at low pressure, & expels the urine during voluntary voiding. Though seemingly a simple reservoir, the bladder is a complex organ intricately connected with the brain and spinal cord with sensory, motor, and autonomic circuits. The muscular layer that contracts during voids ...Read more


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Feel sick in car sore tender breasts diaherrea boyfriend had fingered me the day b4 I got my period and the last day I have also been very sick - flu?

Feel sick in car sore tender breasts diaherrea boyfriend had fingered me the day b4 I got my period and the last day I have also been very sick - flu?

Flu test: It's unclear what you are asking exactly. There are over the counter treatments for diarrhea. If you would like a flu test your doctor can do that. None of that had anything to do with infers being placed in the vagina. ...Read more

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Why is it sore for my fiance to finger me around the clit area? It feels painful, uncomfortable and feels like something is pushing on my bladder.

Why is it sore for my fiance to finger me around the clit area? It feels painful, uncomfortable and feels like something is pushing on my bladder.

Depends: It really depends on exactly where he is pushing and how hard - the front wall of the vagina is just below the bladder, so if he is pushing there, it could give you the feeling of bladder pressure.

Best to get checked by your obgyn and good luck! ...Read more

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My bf fingered me and I'm kind of sore, but today I had an abnormal scent down there and I'm bleeding?

My bf fingered me and I'm kind of sore, but today I had an abnormal scent down there and I'm bleeding?

Vaginal or Urethral: TRAUMA can produce bleeding and/or infection (the scent) Drink a lot of water and if either persists past a few days see your Gynecologist for an examination and appropriate culture (s)
Hope this helps!
Dr Z ...Read more

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My boyfriend fingered me and now the outside of my vagina is brown, not discharge. The actual skin that is usually pink is brown.?

My boyfriend fingered me and now the outside of my vagina is brown, not discharge. The actual skin that is usually pink is brown.?

HMMMM: Unless the finger was dirty and had some brown substance on it that changed your skin color, then fingering would not cause and changes. Hormonal changes can cause skin color changes, just as the nipple (Areola) can change color throughout the periods and after pregnancy etc., so maybe hormones that rose during the sexual pleasure of fingering may be the culprit. See Gyn if concerned. ...Read more

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My boyfriend fingered me with 2 fingers for the first time and now I've been bleeding for a week, what's wrong?

My boyfriend fingered me with 2 fingers for the first time and now I've been bleeding for a week, what's wrong?

Trauma: I am sorry but you need an exam. Fingering is not usually traumatic. It sounds like he was either too rough or you have a completely different problem. ...Read more

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My boyfriend fingered me after which we had unprotected intercourse for a minute. The next morning I see blood in my panty. Its been 4 days now.

My boyfriend fingered me after which we had unprotected intercourse for a minute. The next morning I see blood in my panty. Its been 4 days now.

Minor trauma: Very likely you experienced some minor trauma from the "fingering." This could account for some minor bleeding; it should be brief. I presume you do not think this bleeding could be a period but perhaps this could be a possibility. Unprotected intercourse is the greatest concern...both for pregnancy and STD prevention. Use condoms and reliable birth control if you intend not to get pregnant! ...Read more

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I had unprotected sex and took Plan B 6 days ago. My boyfriend. Fingered me last night pretty aggressively. I'm now bleeding black. What is the cause?

I had unprotected sex and took Plan B 6 days ago. My boyfriend. Fingered me last night pretty aggressively. I'm now bleeding black. What is the cause?

Could be: Torn skin or withdraw bleed from plan B, Remember plan b should not be your routine goto Ned for contraception. Hence the name, emergency contraception. See you doctor for long term birth control or you will have messed up cycles. ...Read more

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My boyfriend fingered me on May 16 my last period on April 30 it's now June 9th and I haven't had my period yet I took 4 preg test they came negative?

My boyfriend fingered me on May 16 my last period on April 30 it's now June 9th and I haven't had my period yet I took 4 preg test they came negative?

NO: You cannot get pregnant from a finger! It usually requires an erect, uncovered penis, ejaculating semen into you vaginal canal. I do, however, suggest that YOU seek a GYN consultation for definitive birth control. ...Read more

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So tonight my boyfriend fingered me and I'm a virgin and now it stings when I pee, I have much discharge. And I bled a little bit. Why could this be?

So tonight my boyfriend fingered me and I'm a virgin and now it stings when I pee, I have much discharge. And I bled a little bit. Why could this be?

Irritation-friction: He may have been a bit rough whereby the areas of your vaginal area especially by your urethra (where urine comes out) is irritated. Fill up the bathtub and soak in either a warm solution of baking soda or vinegar to allow faster healing and soothe the area. If pain and discomfort continues - see your doctor. ...Read more

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My boyfriend fingered me and now my period is late. Could I be pregnant?

My boyfriend fingered me and now my period is late. Could I be pregnant?

You cannot get pregn: Nant from a finger without intercourse, if your period is late please see your gyn for a workup, many causes can make it late. ...Read more

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My boyfriend fingered me and now there's brown discharge. Am I pregnant?

My boyfriend fingered me and now there's brown discharge. Am I pregnant?

Sounds like no: For pregnancy to occur semen has to be placed inside the vagina. This would not occur from a finger. It sounds like you need to consider better birth control options so you won't have to worry about this. Please consider seeing a doctor and preventing an unplanned pregnancy. ...Read more

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Whenever my boyfriend tried to finger me, I was really sore, why?

Whenever my boyfriend tried to finger me, I was really sore, why?

Not sure: Lack of lubrication? Long finger nails or fingers? Too rough? ...Read more

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I have Adynymosis I am nearly 58 and now have period back after six months I have a pain in my back and sore underneath do I now have a bladder infe?

I have Adynymosis I am nearly 58 and now have period back after six months I have a pain in my back and sore underneath do I now have a bladder infe?

Get urine tested.: Can't tell if you have a urinary track infection with the information given. Get a urine culture and sensitivity and get a urine analysis.
Check with your gyne doctor about adenomyosis issues. Post menopausal symptoms could be something else. Find out if you are on replacement hormones as well ...Read more

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I'm a Virgin. Boyfriend fingered me. After, there was blood on my undies. Bleeding was for some minute. Watery light brown discharge now. What is this

I'm a Virgin. Boyfriend fingered me. After, there was blood on my undies. Bleeding was for some minute. Watery light brown discharge now. What is this

Hymen rupture: It is likely that fingering damaged the membrane at the opening of the vagina and it resulted in some bleeding. It is normal and nothing to worry about.
If you do not wish to be pregnant, use contraception all the time, every time. You may consider implanted contraceptive, or IUD.
Practice safe sex.
Get HPV vaccine. ...Read more

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Now been 5 weeks flomax (tamsulosin) after doc said tight bladder neck. Peeing every 30min feel need go all time. Sore testicle neg for infection. What is it?

Dr. Johnny Roy Dr. Roy
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Now been 5 weeks flomax (tamsulosin) after doc said tight bladder neck. Peeing every 30min feel need go all time. Sore testicle neg for infection. What is it?

See remark: Tight bladder neck is not common at your age. Have you had anytime venereal disease, history of stricture?
Are both testicles sore? If they are not swollen wear a tight jockey shorts use any over the counter pain medicine for inflammation twice a day for 5 days.

In the meantime, I'm afraid you may have to see a urologist. You need a physical exam / scoping your urinary channel.
Good luck ...Read more

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A week ago had a tvto (?) Surgery for bladder incontinence I am now starting to experience some vaginal itching and soreness. Suggestions?

A week ago had a tvto (?) Surgery for bladder incontinence I am now starting to experience some vaginal itching and soreness. Suggestions?

Vaginal itching: Hello. Thank you for this question. Due to the procedure you had and need to prepare the operating area for sterility, you may be experiencing a yeast infection. I recommend contacting your surgeon as he/she will best know what antibiotics and preparation measures were taken before the procedure. A simple single dose medicine called diflucan (fluconazole) may be used to treat. ...Read more

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I have, sore in middle upper abdomen to the right side under my rib cage, always wake at night and sweat of pain. Been feeling this but worse before they took out my gall bladder in 2008, before the surgery all test came out normal and now 70 % of the sym

I have, sore in middle upper abdomen to the right side under my rib cage, always wake at night and sweat of pain. Been feeling this but worse before they took out my gall bladder in 2008, before the surgery all test came out normal and now 70 % of the sym

SOD: Sphincter of oddi dysfunction. That is the muscle controls the duct which empties bile from the liver into the intestine. If the gallbladder was removed for biliary dyskinesia, dysfunction of gallbladder, and it is not resolved than that is likely what you have. See a gastroenterologist for treatment. ...Read more

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On the 18th my boyfriend fingered me. I'm sure his hands were clean as he didn't touch himself before touching me. Can I be pregnant? Cuz my period is late for 6 days now. And had a lil brown discharge yesterday and day before

On the 18th my boyfriend fingered me. I'm sure his hands were clean as he didn't touch himself before touching me. Can I be pregnant? Cuz my period is late for 6 days now. And had a lil brown discharge yesterday and day before

No, but...: Pregnancy is the most common cause of a missed period. If not pregnant, other causes of a late or missed period include: excessive weight loss or weight gain, increased exercising, emotional stress, having an illness, traveling, medicines (especially birth control pills), hormonal disorders, etc… A home urine pregnancy test is very accurate 3 weeks after the sexual types of activities. ...Read more

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Could I be pregnant or is something wrong with me? Hi doc, my period is late by alomst two months my last period was 12/23/11-12/29/11 and no period for january 2012 till now. My boyfriend fingered me on the 12/31/11 and 1/15/12 but we never had sex and

Could I be pregnant or is something wrong with me? Hi doc, my period is late by alomst two months my last period was 12/23/11-12/29/11 and no period for january 2012 till now. My boyfriend fingered me on the 12/31/11 and 1/15/12 but we never had sex and

Hello.: Hello. I cannot tell you the reason that your period is almost two months late. If you have not had sexual intercourse, but your boyfriend digitally penetrated you without pre-ejaculate or ejaculate on his fingers, then there should not be a vehicle to become pregnant. There are a number of reasons that you could be late for your period besides being pregnant. Some of the causes can include being very stressed or anxious. Don’t know if you are still taking loestrin. Use of loestrin or other birth control pills can sometimes be a reason that your period might skip. Being extremely underweight or being obese can be an issue as well as having just lost or gained a lot of weight or markedly over-exercising. There can be problems with hormones or with endocrine disorders that can also be a cause. If you have just started menstruating recently, your periods might not be regular initially.
Having a white milky discharge that has no odor coming from the vagina is called leucorrhea and is usually normal. But if you are having a large amount of discharge like eggs that has an odor, that may not be leucorrhea. If the later is the case, I recommend you advise your medical provider. If you miss three or more periods in a row, I would make sure to let your medical provider know as well. Take care. ...Read more

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Discontinued prescribed birth control cause of acne my period was short of the usual week boyfriend fingered me & now I've experienced brown discharge?

Discontinued prescribed birth control cause of acne my period was short of the usual week boyfriend fingered me & now I've experienced brown discharge?

Unrelated: The fingering is not likely to be related to the brown discharge. It you intend to have sex you should use a contraceptive all the time, every time. You may consider an IUD or an implanted contraceptive. If you are less than 26 years old, get HPV vaccine.
Consult this site for more information on this topic.
http://www. Nichd. Nih. Gov/health/topics/menstruation/conditioninfo/Pages/causes. Aspx
Practice safe sex. ...Read more

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2yrs had g.Bladder problems. Semi urgent list at local hospital. Now vomiting each day. Today fever, no voice very sore throat. Near on choke frm phlegm?

2yrs had g.Bladder problems. Semi urgent list at local hospital. Now vomiting each day. Today fever, no voice very sore throat. Near on choke frm phlegm?

Infection?: It sounds like you are having a fever, sore throat and vomiting? Based on your symptoms it sounds like you have an infection. It is best to see your doctor for a proper history and physical examination. ...Read more