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Hi, I am 26 years old and I am single, but I had sex with my boyfriend. Now I will marry with other boy. Does he know I am not vergin? Plz help me I d

Hi, I am 26 years old and I am single, but I had sex with my boyfriend. Now I will marry with other boy. Does he know I am not vergin? Plz help me I d

Virginity & Wedding: If you cannot discuss this with your fiance' it is actually very unlikely that he will be able to tell that you are not a virgin. Your sexual encounter that will come with marriage should just be fine and wonderful and memorable.

But, please make sure that you did not get an std or pregnancy with the other encounter before entering into your marriage. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I have complete opposite communication styles, are we doomed?

Styles are overrated: This idea of personality styles communication styles is over rated and overdone. Most people express themselves differently depending on where they are, who they're with, and what's going on. But developing flexibility and acquiring new tools helps you deal with people in more situations better. Learn from each other. Listen to each other. Let love be more important than style. ...Read more

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My bestfriend and boyfriend say I am not eating enough. How can I get myself to eat more if I'm never hungry?

My bestfriend and boyfriend say I am not eating enough. How can I get myself to eat more if I'm never hungry?

Pay attention: Pay attention to your body and if your weight and nutrition are adequate you should not be focused on what others think you should eat. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I live together but I want to break up with him but I pay for rent, do I leave the apartment?

Breakup: Not sure of your circumstances or reasons for the breakup, but suggest u seek support from friends or family members for advice. ...Read more

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My boyfriend who I have been intimate with just told me he has hepitas c. We been together for 1year. Would I have it?

My boyfriend who I have been intimate with just told me he has hepitas c. We been together for 1year. Would I have it?

Possible.: Risk is low, but depends entirely whether or not you could possibly have had blood to blood contact. Is he a candidate for treatment? ...Read more

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Is a mono relapse possible? My boyfriend and I both had it last year and are experiencing the same symptoms again this year

Is a mono relapse possible? My boyfriend and I both had it last year and are experiencing the same symptoms again this year

Mononucleosis: Once infected, mono stays in your body. You don't contract mono a second time, although some of the symptoms are common and nonspecific, like fatigue, sore throat, muscle or joint aches. Probably this is not mono. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I have been having protected sex for 2 weeks. Recently, I found a bit of cum and I'm not sure if it's mine? Should I be worried?

My boyfriend and I have been having protected sex for 2 weeks. Recently, I found a bit of cum and I'm not sure if it's mine? Should I be worried?

You found discharge?: If you are saying you use condoms, first off bravo! If after sex you found fluid in the vagina that looked like cum (sticky, white/yellow), and the condom did not break, then this was most likely your own lubricating fluids - females will produce a lot of lubricating fluids when sexually stimulated. Hope this addresses your question. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I are wanting to have a baby we have been trying for the past 2 months and have had no luck what other methods or ways could we try?

My boyfriend and I are wanting to have a baby we have been trying for the past 2 months and have had no luck what other methods or ways could we try?

Be patient: The cited average is 6 mo of trying before pregnancy and that include earlier and later successes. Balanced nutrition, rest and healthy exercise will maintain your best chances. If you try for a year or more without luck, it may be time for you and partner to be evaluated at a fertility center. It takes 2 and a problem with either can stand in the way. ...Read more

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Why do I get so upset when my boyfriend masturbates? I know it's normal and all, I even do it. But when he does it I feel cheated on. Y do I get upset

Masturbation.: Does he masturbate in front of you? If he does, ask him not to if it bothers you. Does he tell you about his masturbatory behaviors? If so, once again you can ask him not to if it is upsetting.. Other then that, he does have the right to determine if he will or will not masturbate. So, you will likely need to find a way to deal with it. Take care. ...Read more

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I just moved into my new house. Been here about 3 1/2 months. And ever since my boyfriend and I have had small bumps appear on us that itch like crazy?

I just moved into my new house. Been here about 3 1/2 months. And ever since my boyfriend and I have had small bumps appear on us that itch like crazy?

Insect vs allergy: Itching bumps could suggest an insect infestation such as bed bugs especially if you are noticing them when you wake in the morning. Otherwise, an itching rash could represent an allergy but less likely. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I rubbed our "parts" together and I have been worrying about it since it happened, even though I am on depo. I am younger and a virgi?

My boyfriend and I rubbed our "parts" together and I have been worrying about it since it happened, even though I am on depo. I am younger and a virgi?

Worried about what?: From what you described you are unlikely to be pregnant, but you could still catch sexually transmitted infections like HPV and herpes. If you have any symptoms, you should see your doctor.
Get HPV vaccine. ...Read more

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Hi I would like to know how can I go about getting a drug test? I am trying to prove to my boyfriend that I don't do drugs and he said if I did this it would prove it thanks in advance.

Hi I would like to know how can I go about getting a drug test? I am trying to prove to my boyfriend that I don't do drugs and he said if I did this it would prove it thanks in advance.

Agree w/colleagues: Only you know the answer to whether or not you do illicit drugs. A bigger issue you didn't ask about is whether getting the drug testing will really improve your relationship with your BF. In my opinion- doing the drug test doesn't PROVE anything other than having or not drugs in your system NOW. Do you believe THAT single result will create lasting trust in your BF? Think about it. ...Read more

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Could I get HPV if my boyfriend and I are virgins?

Could I get HPV if my boyfriend and I are virgins?

Unlikely: If you are both certified virgins, the probability of you contracting hpv from him is very low. There are a percentage of people however who are "born" with hpv, after contracting it from their infected mothers. Please keep this in mind. My suggestion would be to get vaccinated against hpv before you have sex reducing your risk even further! ...Read more

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Should I tell my boyfriend that I have hpv? Can he get it from me?

Should I tell my boyfriend that I have hpv? Can he get it from me?

Yes/yes: This is a disease that passes through sexual contact. If you have had it, you may shed virus intermittently for years and pass it on during periods when you shed virus. Males can acquire this germ and never know they have it, passing it on to any partner. As many as 70% of blood samples from a college health clinic were reported positive for HPV antibodies before the vaccine was developed ...Read more

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Period is back after 2 weeks and my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating now?

Period is back after 2 weeks and my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating now?

Makes no sense.: What does having an irregular period have to do with cheating? Tell your boyfriend that your cycle has nothing to do with fidelity. ...Read more

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Can you tell me how I could help my boyfriend and I have a better relationship?

Can you tell me how I could help my boyfriend and I have a better relationship?

Some ideas: Relationships are more important than being right. Criticism erodes love. Have sex even if you're not in the mood. If there's something one of you wants to do, the other is wise to try it. Do things together. A church in which folks focus on living good, kindly lives rather than shoving something down your throat is a huge plus. Exercise together. Communicate. Cherish one another. ...Read more

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Boyfriend and I fooled around never let reproductivery parts touch. Can I be pregnant?

Boyfriend and I fooled around never let reproductivery parts touch. Can I be pregnant?

Sperm is needed: Sperm is needed in order to make a baby. If no sperm, then no baby. An egg is also needed. If no egg, then no baby. If a woman is not certain there was either no sperm or no egg in the neighborhood, and she is worried about pregnancy, she can do a home pregnancy test. It is possible to get semen into the vagina without bodily contact, but that kind of planning doesn't happen in everyday life. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I had sex Saturday and he doesn't know if he cummed inside me and I feel different?

My boyfriend and I had sex Saturday and he doesn't know if he cummed inside me and I feel different?

Well,: There really isn't anything you can do until 14 days have passed since you had sex. Then you should check a home pregnancy test if you haven't gotten your period. It isn't advisable to check a test before that: it could be positive, possibly, but if it is negative you can't be sure it is truly negative or you just tested too early. It would be unusual to have symptoms of pregnancy within a few days ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I used an ultra sensitive condom but the sex didn't last long. Is it due to the condom?

My boyfriend and I used an ultra sensitive condom but the sex didn't last long. Is it due to the condom?

Possibly: There could be many causes. Was this unusual? You can try again, and see if you get the same result. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I have been togetherover 2 and a half years. Never used protection. Why can't I get pregnant?

My boyfriend and I have been togetherover 2 and a half years. Never used protection. Why can't I get pregnant?

See fertility doc: You meet the definition of infertility. Both you and your partner should see a fertility doctor if you want to have a child together. Screening tests can be performed on both of you to get a better idea what is going on. Many times there are relatively simple treatments that can really help you, but first you need to have the proper information. Good luck. ...Read more

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My boyfriend and I masturbate several times a day, together, via texting and pictures. I feel that it has become a problem. Is it bad?

My boyfriend and I masturbate several times a day, together, via texting and pictures. I feel that it has become a problem. Is it bad?

Doctor's and Sex: Physicians fortunately for our patients have very strict ethical boundaries when it comes to sex. First we do not ever use the word 'bad' when it comes to these personal choices. Second we are to have no opinion on when, how, or with whom you are sexual.

Masturbation is a normal and common part of the human experience. There are no negative health consequences to this simple activity. ...Read more