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Best Way Masterbate
You decide: No two men are the same. You could perhaps even talk with dad about this -- many of us grown-ups are smarter than we seem. Whatever helps you learn about your body, feels good, helps you relax and be comfortable with yourself, and prepares you for love with that one special person. ...Read more
Vary it: You are learning about your body -- things you will need to know as an adult to let you be a successful partner and adapt to that special person. Try a variety of techniques and intervals, see what you like, and learn how to do a good job in the ways that aren't your favorite. It's not too much unless you're missing other things you want to do or should do. ...Read more
Do you have this?: All guys enjoy erotica; the best is tasteful & respectful. Imagine folks really in love; avoid the vulgur & degrading. "Sexual addictions" are obsession with erotica or easy, casual pleasure that is obviously interfering with your learning / friendships / fitness / family time / job. If you truly have this, your doctor can treat / refer you. Best help will be to fall deeply & truly in love. ...Read more
Some Questions: I'm going to think of this more neutrally, as simply some "behavior." my questions then: when r u engaging in it? What thoughts, emotions, situations r triggering it? What are ur judgments about this behavior? What is ur understanding of how much of this behavior others ur age/life circumstances engage in? What do u think would need 2B different about u or ur life 2 make u feel less "addicted"? ...Read more
You really have it?: All guys enjoy erotica; the best is tasteful & respectful. Imagine folks really in love; avoid the vulgur & degrading. "Sexual addictions" are obsession with erotica or easy, casual pleasure that is obviously interfering with your learning / friendships / fitness / family time / job. If you truly have this, your doctor can treat / refer you. Best help will be to fall deeply & truly in love. ...Read more
I have never had sex (Cause i have never had sex) My urethritis was caused by masturbation. Did I do it too hard? What is the best way to cure this?
Many causes: To Urethritis. It literally means "inflammation of the urethra" and while most of the causes are infections (STD's) you can get chemical irritation , mechanical irritation (masturbation), or foreign bodies in the urethra. Most of these causes are mild and go away within 1-2 days unless it is an infection and you will require a culture and antibiotics. Go to a provider if not improved in 1-2 day ...Read more
What are signs of over masturbation and what is the best way to overcome the sexual weakness before marriage due to daily masturbation for 6 years?
Slow down: You can try slowing down on your own, because chronic masturbation with or without use of porn can re-wire your system to expect it rather than real sex. Sometimes a meeting with a specialist in the area of erectile dysfunction is needed. You can find them working with urologists. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
No Set Time: There is no set interval that is best. The minimal time is whatever time it takes for an individual male to become erect again. There is no specific maximum time. Masturbation only becomes too frequent, when it begins to displace other activities or becomes a substitute for other non-sexual activities. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
What are the best benefits of quitting masturbation as a teenage guy, and how do you actually do it?
Almost nobody can: Anybody who tells you that you can, or that you should, is either misinformed or is trying to mislead you. Essentially all normally-masculinized teenaged guys entertain themselves. It keeps you comfortable, lets you focus on the other things you need to do, and helps you learn about your mind & body to prepare you for adult life. Think for yourself and embrace who you are. ...Read more
I have problem with my relation sexual. My first masturbate is too quick. How to slow it and still have the best feeling?
Ejaculating too fast:
This is a very common problem and question... Especially for younger men. There is a lot written about this problem by good health experts and this information should be easy to find.
But, practice and experience can improve the situation without any medication. Edging up to the orgasm and learning to back off and thus learning to control when one has an orgasm is very possible. ...Read more
Water soluble: Such as KY jelly, astroglide or generic water-soluble or water based lubricant from your drug store. ...Read more
Experiment!: You can buy lubricants that are made specifically for that purpose--if you're embarrassed to buy them at a store, you can get them on-line. But there are plenty of household things that will work and are safe: vaseline, skin moisturizers, hair conditioner, baby oil, cooking oil, etc. Avoid soaps or shampoos. ...Read more
Hi.how can I prolong my erections and prevent early or premature ejaculstion. I'm a 42-year-old man.should I practice the stop start procedure during masturbation or what do you recommend is best. Thank you for your help. Gerry?
Takes practice: A bit of anesthetic gel on your glans, a condom, or practicing the squeeze technique with your partner can all help -- the last is actually a lot of fun and will build your relationship. A low dose of a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor will reset your brain centers, and I've been told that Saint John's Wort can do the same. ...Read moreSee 1 more doctor answer
I want to stop masturbation .....plz advice me how can I stop it. I tried my best but I didn't stop it ....plz doctor...waiting for your answer?
Listen man: You won't be able to stop doing this. It's good for you. At age 18, you build up pressure, both physically and emotionally, and you need to take care of this in order to stay focused on studies, work, and even to get to sleep. Think about something nice -- maybe that one special person in your future -- rather than internet trash; if you're obsessed with erotica, your doctor can help. ...Read moreSee 3 more doctor answers
Good day kind doctor. Does frequent and compulsive masturbation have any side effects on my body? If not, what are the best household lubricants used?
Kyjelly: Soap in the bathroom is best. Mastrubation is totally healthy and a private affair asking as it does interfere with your job, education or day to day life :) ...Read more
Masturbation is now painful and leaves penis sore, been doing best to quit. Despite being a dark male penis looks red and aches ejaculation now hurts?
Painful penis: Your penis may be infected. See your specialist. ...Read more
Pain inside scrotum persists even after hernia repair and after orchiectomy, in a 61 year-old.....?
Questionable treatment, unless indirect inguinal hernia shown first.: Testicular &/or scrotal pain can notoriously be difficult to manage and often does not respond to epididymectomy. Certainly removal of testicle should not have been performed unless testicle was very tender. Various regimes utilized by pain clinics should have been tried first & certainly should be tried now including possible acupuncture. There is also possibility of referred pain. Surgery often does not help with this kind of pain unless it is due to intermittent trusts torsion in which case fixation of testis, to prevent twisting of spermatic cord, takes care of problem. Wish I could be of more help. ...Read moreSee 9 more doctor answers