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Doctor insights on: Are Insecure Attachment Issues More Common In Only Children

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Are insecure attachment issues more common in only children?

Are insecure attachment issues more common in only children?

No: Attachment issues are not related to family size or lack of siblings. ...Read more

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What is the root cause of a child with insecure attachment issues?

What is the root cause of a child with insecure attachment issues?

Early Experience: It is thought the the most common cause of attachment problems has to donwith negative early experiences and possible trauma. This may also occur due to personality difficulties or other emotional problems that are internal to the child. ...Read more

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Is there counseling or therapy for couples where one person has major insecure attachment problems?

Is there counseling or therapy for couples where one person has major insecure attachment problems?

Yes: Of course, nobody thinks that they have an issue, and that they are the "good one" of the relationship. They may be right, but that's not the point. A good family counselor, and there are some in any area, can help greatly, and if one person does have major issues, refer them for individual care. But the issues may be in both parents, and a good counselor should help both parents. ...Read more

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I have so many insecurities. Is something wrong with my mental health?

I have so many insecurities. Is something wrong with my mental health?

Maybe or maybe not: All humans have some insecurities, but you seem to be concerned. Talking with a therapist can really be helpful both in clarifying your issues and in working through them to become the wonderful person you are meant to be. ...Read more

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Why do I feel insecure about my body as a teen guy and how can I solve this insecurity?

Why do I feel insecure about my body as a teen guy and how can I solve this insecurity?

Insecurity about: One's body as a teen age boy is very common. If you have good health focus on that. If the insecurity keeps you from going to school, interferes w/sleep, etc. Please see your doc to make sure all is well w/your body and then a mental health professional for anxiety support. Stay neat and clean and treat others the way you would like to be treated. Peace and good health. ...Read more

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Is insecurity a sign of mental illness?

Is insecurity a sign of mental illness?

Not unless severe: "mental illness" is a judgment call. Severe mental conditions, e.g., schizophrenia, are clearly illnesses, while moderately bad depression is debatable, and most would agree mild to moderate insecurity is not. But if a person has severe insecurity that interferes with everyday life, it might be considered an illness. Whether it's an illness or not, counselors & therapists can help. ...Read more

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How can I confront my mom who is taunting me about my insecurities?

How can I confront my mom who is taunting me about my insecurities?

Verbal abuse: If you are financially independent, make it clear to her that this is unacceptable and that one more incident will end the relationship and that she will never see her grandchildren. Please consider a course of psychotherapy for your own security issues, to learn skills & thinking habits that work better, and talk with your physcian about perhaps getting therapy for the family as well. ...Read more

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I have extreme insecurities and depressive issues due to bullying etc. And it's taking over my life. How do I gain confidence back?

I have extreme insecurities and depressive issues due to bullying etc. And it's taking over my life. How do I gain confidence back?

Bullying: Bullying can happen at any time in life, but when it occurs in adulthood you have more choices about what to do. I don't know whether your age is truly 48, or if you're actually a minor. If you're an adult, you can seek out psychotherapeutic care to recover your confidence and strength. If you're a minor, you need help from your parents to get this care, and also in dealing with the bullies. ...Read more

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What's the best way to deal with insecurities and depression?

What's the best way to deal with insecurities and depression?

Depression: I would think that you should see a physician as you may need medication. ...Read more

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How to deal with ego jealousy insecurities I hate but I guess am a victim :' (help asap if u not jealous of me?

How to deal with ego jealousy insecurities I hate but I guess am a victim :' (help asap if u not jealous of me?

Jealousy: Jeaulousy is often caused by feelings of insecurity. Confide in someone close to you and see if you can identify the origin of your inesecurity and how to bolster your self image. If you cannot make progress consult with a mental health professional who can help you develop a better sense of self. Best wishes. ...Read more

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How to beat jealousy and insecurity? Is it connected to loneliness? How to improve my self confidence? How to be happy with yourself?

How to beat jealousy and insecurity? Is it connected to loneliness? How to improve my self confidence? How to be happy with yourself?

Wonderful aims!: You must know that these goals are not achieved by a few sentences - but they are excellent goals. You can try to find folk you trust to explore these? 's w/. Teachers, clergy, relatives - good people. A supportive therapist/counselor would be a good choice. Groups into literature and music, meditation, yoga, etc can build connections. Be patient - it takes time! ...Read more

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What can I do about insecurity in a relationship?

What can I do about insecurity in a relationship?

Relationship: Insecurity is often a sign of lack of faith in yourself. Consult with a mental health professional who can help you uncover the origin of your distress and help you with develop a better sense of self. Best. ...Read more

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What is a mental illness that insecurity takes play?

Most of them: Some antisocial personalitiesand some narcissists would be the exceptions. Besides, all human beings except some of the above, have insecurities. It is part of being human. ...Read more

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How do I deal with insecurities in my relationship? , I feel like my bf likes my sister.

How do I deal with insecurities in my relationship? , I feel like my bf likes my sister.

Communicate with: Your BF your insecurities and find out if he truly likes your sister more than you. Communicate and talk. Its the best thing you can do. ...Read more

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Does job insecurity cause depression?

Does job insecurity cause depression?

WORRY-->DEPRESSION: Yes! , excessive worry may cause depression. With the 'tough economy' out there I believe that the fear of loosing a job, w/paycheck, benefits, etc. Must weight on everyone's mind.
So how to cope? --exercise has been shown to decrease stress.
Avoid alcohol --it just deepens depression. 'get with people' --don't isolate yourself. And if any destructive thoughts--please get help! Hang in there! ...Read more

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Does zyprexa really work to lessen paranoid insecure thoughts or is it mainly for hallucinations? I feel like it doesn't work for paranoid insecurity

Does zyprexa really work to lessen paranoid insecure thoughts or is it mainly for hallucinations? I feel like it doesn't work for paranoid insecurity

Zyprexa can be: Very effective for a number of psychiatric disorders including paranoia and hallucinations. It does need to be individualized though so if it is not helping you for a specific problem you need to discuss this with your health care provider. Additive medication or a change in medication might be indicated. ...Read more

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I broke 3-4 ribs and im suffering from insecurity due to this... Due to a bike accident I had a couple of years back... Help!

I broke 3-4 ribs and im suffering from insecurity due to this... Due to a bike accident I had a couple of years back... Help!

??: Sounds like post traumatic stress 2nd to your accident
unfortunately bicycles can be dangerous as can any physical activity esp if pushed to the max
probably should see someone regarding this start with pcp seem most reasonable? Maybe a "sports psychologist"
good luck. ...Read more

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What can be done for penis size insecurity?

What can be done for penis size insecurity?

Talk and learn: Sizes are variable, average is 5 1/2". If you have 3.0" or more, studies show you have enough to receive and give full satisfaction with most women, and many will prefer it, since most of their nerves are in the vulva rather than the vagina and you may have more control. Your erections may also be harder than a bigger man's. Talk with your partner and learn to use your entire body. Good luck. ...Read more

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I get anxiety when I eat in public and don't know what I really look like in a mirror. How to get over my insecurities?

I get anxiety when I eat in public and don't know what I really look like in a mirror. How to get over my insecurities?

Different Approaches: Sorry you're struggling, but cheers to you for asking for support. Before finding the solution, we'd need to consider some other questions- for example, are you feeling anxious because you legitimately need to improve your ability to eat graciously in front of others; or might this be a form of social anxiety where you're being self-critical? These answers would shape the best approach to use. ...Read more

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I'm still going through puberty but if its still noticible when im not is there any natural way to fix unevenly sized breasts? This is a big insecurity

I'm still going through puberty but if its still noticible when im not is there any natural way to fix unevenly sized breasts? This is a big insecurity

Not uncommon: Hi. Breast asymmetry during puberty is not uncommon, and to be quite honest, in adulthood, no two are exactly alike (vive la différence!). So don't worry at this point, and my humble opinion would be don't worry at ANY point. Of course we all understand that there are insecurities during puberty. But be good, live right, and I would bet you never get a complaint about your breasts. ...Read more

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What's the best way to deal with insecurity/trust issues caused by relationships? And how can I boost my self esteem?

What's the best way to deal with insecurity/trust issues caused by relationships? And how can I boost my self esteem?

Support: We ideally get enough support as we grow up, but few are that lucky. Many need more (some ongoing) support to become and maintain self-confidence ; esteem. Trust is ultimately in oneself - others' behavior is beyond our control. We need to make good choices ; survive disappointments. Therapy and support groups can really help in this process. ...Read more

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What to do if I do not think I will ever get over penis insecurity?

What to do if I do not think I will ever get over penis insecurity?

Need counseling: Sorry you are having this problem. However you can get help from a psychiatrist, psychologist or sexual counselor experienced in such matters. ...Read more

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Is it a sign of job insecurity to check your mobile constantly even on work breaks?

Is it a sign of job insecurity to check your mobile constantly even on work breaks?

Individual Answer: If you are asking if there is a universal correlation the answer is no. Because you are connecting "job insecurity" and "checking your mobile constantly" there might be a correlation for you. It's worth looking into, job insecurity is not a pleasant thing to live with, and if there is something you can do about it you should take it on consciously. Best wishes to you. ...Read more

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Depressed but have this internal dialogue of a boy who sort of took advantage of my insecurities and talked me down every time when I tried doing smth?

Depressed but have this internal dialogue of a boy who sort of took advantage of my insecurities and talked me down every time when I tried doing smth?

If I understand you: Are you saying that along w/ feelings of depression you have an unshakable realistic verbal memory of this unpleasant guy impact on you? I'd recommend a really expert psych eval by a Clinical Psychologist. With that Dx you can discuss appropriate treatment. It may or may not include medication, but it will be good to include some talk therapy for sure. Best wishes1 ...Read more

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I abused Plan B (10 times)in the past due to my insecurity. When will my natural hormones come back? How long can Plan B hormones live in the body?

I abused Plan B (10 times)in the past due to my insecurity. When will my natural hormones come back? How long can Plan B hormones live in the body?

Hard to tell: Plan b clears out of your system within a couple days. You should get a period in about two weeks. If you don't, take a pregnancy test. In the future consider getting on reliable method of birth control. ...Read more