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Hello doctors, I am a 20 year old male who recently traveled to Chiangmai, Thailand. I made the terrible mistake of having unprotected oral sex for about 30 seconds with a sex worker there 3 days ago. After that, I was given a handjob for about the same t

Hello doctors, I am a 20 year old male who recently traveled to Chiangmai, Thailand. I made the terrible mistake of having unprotected oral sex for about 30 seconds with a sex worker there 3 days ago. After that, I was given a handjob for about the same t

You're okay, man!: Truth be told, I don't think this is a "terrible mistake". You didn't put yourself or anybody else in serious danger, or abuse anybody, and this is much tamer than the vast majority of the guys you know have done. Get tested for HIV once because all guys your age should get the test once. Then be proud that you've set high standards for yourself and wait for that one wonderful person you'll marry. ...Read more

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Dr. Heidi Fowler
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Anxiety (Definition)

Anxiety is a general term for several disorders that cause nervousness, fear, apprehension, and worrying. These disorders affect how we feel and behave, and they can manifest real physical symptoms. Mild anxiety is vague and unsettling, while severe anxiety can be extremely debilitating, having a serious ...Read more


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My girlfriends recently two gential warts one on her vagina and one on her perenium later confirmshe has hpv. Can i get it if she give me a handjob?

My girlfriends recently two gential warts one on her vagina and one on her perenium later confirmshe has hpv. Can i get it if she give me a handjob?

Unlikely: Human papillomaviruses (hpv) are so common that most men and women will become infected at some point in their lives. Infection with these viruses usually does not cause any problems. Some types of hpv can cause harmless warts, and others can cause cervical cancer. Transmission is by direct skin-to-skin contact. A "handjob" would be an unlikely source of transmission. ...Read more

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What should I do? I recently had some sexual interactions with my boyfriend.. But nothing like sex, just handjob and fingering and last week was the time i was supposed to get my period. Thursday night i woke up in the middle of the night bleeding bad, iv

What should I do? I recently had some sexual interactions with my boyfriend.. But nothing like sex, just handjob and fingering and last week was the time i was supposed to get my period. Thursday night i woke up in the middle of the night bleeding bad, iv

Please : Please take a pregnancy test just to be absolutely positive that you aren't pregnant. Changes in hormones can affect menstrual flow, and stress can affect flow also. If you have continued spotting, or have light-headedness, have abnormal vaginal discharge, feel faint, or any pain, then you would have to go to the er. ...Read more

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I recently gave someone a handjob when I got bodily fluids on my hand. Now I've been getting loose stools for 7 days. Could it be an Std?

I recently gave someone a handjob when I got bodily fluids on my hand. Now I've been getting loose stools for 7 days. Could it be an Std?

Less likely: Especially if you washed your hand with soap and water afterward. However, if there are additional unprotected, contacts (such as anal) then you should get tested for STD including gonorrhea. ...Read more

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My gf gave me a handjob but i couldn't cum. It felt very umm.. Less sensitive. Is this a problem?

My gf gave me a handjob but i couldn't cum. It felt very umm.. Less sensitive. Is this a problem?

Sex: Actually this is not a question you bring to a physician. We have significant ethical boundaries about telling a patient how to or when to have sex. We are not here to teach the 'hows' of sexual activity. You would not, in general, want the doctor to be there teaching you how to teach your girlfriend how to masturbate you. ...Read more

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Can I get a infection from doing handjobs?

Can I get a infection from doing handjobs?

Certainly: There are unfortunately many infections that can be transmitted via skin to skin contact, so unless you are wearing gloves it is possible to contract herpes or human papilloma virus (warts) if your friend is infected with them. ...Read more

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HAS ANYONE EVER CONTRACTED HIV FROM A HANDJOB, PARTICULARLY FROM A MASSAGE PARLOR? MY ONLY EXPOSURE THAT I AM CONCERNED ABOUT.

HAS ANYONE EVER CONTRACTED HIV FROM A HANDJOB, PARTICULARLY FROM A MASSAGE PARLOR? MY ONLY EXPOSURE THAT I AM CONCERNED ABOUT.

No risk: Hand-genital contact has never been known to transmit HIV, even when genital fluids or saliva are used as lubricant. Also no risk for other STDs. No insertive sex means no chance of sexual transmission of HIV. Don't worry about it. ...Read more